My school is not all that serious about there rules on pda's. sometimes the yard narc will yell "HEY!!!!! hold hands!!!!!" (instead of fondling eachother) but really, thats about all. and there are alot of places where couples can hide (behind portables and PE storage, especially behind the library) it is just so sick. they should just get a room

My school is crazy! There are people making out and worse... but for me to hug one of my friends who found out his parents were getting divorced was a big "no no". I am going insane in my school!!!

I LOVE your post bextherex!

Not allowed in schools? Are you kidding me? Yah right...12-year-olds make out in the HALLWAYS at MY school! The most I've ever done with a guy was kiss him on the cheek (not to say that he DIDN'T grab my boob after, which is because of course he did: sickening sick guys will be Mr. Grabby Hands FOREVER even if you DO kick them in the nuts every time they do sick ****).

bex, your post cracked me up!

I don't really mind PDAs… Except when people are really antisocial with them. Like one of my friends and her boyfriend are always all over each other when you're trying to talk… I mean the other day she was talking to me and he was sucking her fingers! While she was talking! wtf?! I didn't want to see that!

Anyway, I thought of some ways to deal with it.

1) Carry a huge megaphone and scream into it ‘EEEWWWW, KISSING’ at the first sign of a PDA. If this doesn't work, use the megaphone as a club and knock 'em both out cold.

2) When they commence their display, stand as close to them as possible and stare unblinkingly. If they do not notice this, give handy tips on their kissing technique and offer to demonstrate.

3) Bang your head against the wall repeatedly and scream that you are a hideous gorgon and will never get a boy/girlfriend of your own, which is bad enough without them RUBBING IT IN. (Warning: this may cause mild concussion).

4) Capture your two friends and put them in separate cages. In one simple, masterful stroke you are free from their displays forever, MWHAHAHAHAHAA…

5) Get a blindfoldand wear it all day. This will not only prevent you from seeing your friends’ advances on one another, but also those of any other couples around the school. You will also learn the valuable skill of finding your way using hearing and smell only.

Eh, eh? Pretty good huh?

I am a genius!

Bex

I agree with pure poet.

yeah...my school says that they don't allow pda....but i've never seen neone get in trouble for it....not to say that its right though.....

Okay... When I said PDA (wow that was a long time ago!) I meant public displays of affection between A GIRL AND A GUY (or the other options... personally, EW.). Hugging your sister or brother or mom or dad or cousin, etc. is a lot different than making out with your boy/girlfriend in front of others.

I think some PDA is cute (hugs aren't allowed between depressed sisters? no wonder we have teen suicide...)like hugs, holding hands, arms around each other and when they walk arm in arm ( thats so CUTE I just smile and then I like go up to them and say *youre so cute!* lol...) but serious making out is kinda nasty...

Lots of love,
Lynne

I don't like PDAs they make people uncomfortable. I go to great lengths to avoid doing them at school or anything! But sometimes it's tricky. Like today we were out in the middle of a field in a secluded spot in a tiny little village…
And my mum, my sister, and my sister's boyfriend still managed to see!
Daaaaamnit…

What do a couple of teens have to DO to get some privacy around here?

-Pen

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just tell them to get a room. and avoid looking at them. it's not that hard to ignore them.

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I try but ever time I turn my head there is another couple doing it. There is no way to go around school pretending that it isnt happening and that the teachers and principal are doing nothing. The majority of the kids doing it are the ones that can drive. They can jsut go over to their b/f or g/f's house and do that stuff there. It isnt like they cant get there.
Love Always,
goldenangel82087

just tell them to get a room. and avoid looking at them. it's not that hard to ignore them.

PDA is everywhere. You have to realize that some of these people in these school relationships, this is the only time they get to see each other. So why not use the time they have for what they want. Yeah it can get a little out of hand, but it’s just a matter of turning your head. If you don’t want people interfering in your life, stay out of theirs.

Tootles

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why the hell are you watching people make out? get your self a guy and make out with him. its rude to stare. so what if they are ok with pda's are they hurting you? i mean does it break your arm every time you see people kissing? didnt think so.

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This a reply from a post way back but I just now saw it. So I am sorry for not replying sooner. I dont stand and stare at them. It's hard notto notice. So, if you want to come to my school and try not to notice things like that, then be my guest. It is disgusting to see that walking down the hall to get my class. You cant help but notice. I dont mind when people kiss but going beyond that is alittle too much.
goldenangel82087

My school won't allow us to hug.TO HUG.it's crazy we can't hold hands or hug.2 little innocent things and we can't do them.i can understand not being allowed to kiss but come on we should be allowed to hug and hold hands.

true intimacy is always kept private

It's kinda okay in our school... unless you want to be considered DECENT person.

it's hard tignore things like that when your best friend is making out wth your crush, u just dont forget things like that

hey look if you dont like what you see .....DONT LOOK ! its your face you can move it , in school , well mines bad , there are rulees basicly you can kiss , but no longer than 5 mins , ya thats rite we get minits ,any more than that and you get yelled at . so what , its there lives and they can embarras themselfes , or w/e how ever they want . its not you your aganced it dont do it , you dnt wanna see it , then dont look its as simple as that . wow thats hard think that you can drive your eyes away from the site you dont wanna see ?...............i thought so ! well ya thats my view
and the whole locvker situation , next time just push them outta your way and tell them to take it to another area! b strong not a push over

At my school they won't really let you show any affection (with the exception of certain people). They'll let you hug and they kinda let you hold hands, but more than that and you get in trouble if you're seen. Personally, I don't see the problem with PDA. People should be able to show affection for each other in public if they want to. At school maybe you should limit the making-out (milder than that GO AHEAD!), just cause it's school. Some people can't see thier bf or gf after school so when do they have a chance? if they're at ur locker tell them to move, it's your space, but like at lunch or in a corner, they're not in ur way...if you don't like it just ignore them. Nobody's gonna stop me, I never get to see my bf and when I do I'm gonna take the chance to kiss him all I want. Just ignore it, it's a free country. Get over it, it ain't killing you.