I am never going to get a boyfriend I swear!!!All the guys either like skinny girls or popular ones. I am ugly, i am big, and no one luvs me. I see my brother and his girlfriend and I get so jealous. Am I really that unattractive? Maybe, my family is right, I will never get married......,no one will ever want me.

I'll just be blunt...the majority of guys don't like girls bigger than them.

I know how you feel No1luvsme

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Why Does All the Guys Go For All the Skinny Girls

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HAHAHA what a stupid question

Why do we like nice cars?

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"DUDE, How Bout Weight Watchers"

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___I think guys with unibrows are sexy beasts. It's so rugged and natural and honest to keep your body the way it came. (especially when mainstream beauty by means of pain is the only alternative. In my opinion self depricators are extremely unsexy)

I dont see why I should like someone Im not attracted too.. If i like skinny girls (which i do) thats my thing.. I'm sure none of you would date people in wheel chairs, or the guy with the unibrow.

You are in high school right? High school is high school, everyone has their shallow moments, girls can be the same way, I have seen so many girls say things such as i can date him he's short, or i can't date him he doesnt have the muscle i like or whatever. I mean yeah it sucks that some guys dont have the decency to see past the outside, but one day they will. They will realize that they will go for more than looks. But you can be so bitter about it, I know easier said than done. I am definitly far from being slim, but I have confidence. I date around, and guys are interested in me, it is really just a matter of how you present yourself. But if you are alredy in the mindset that you aren't going to get married, then well yeah most likely you aren't going to get married. Maybe you won't have a boyfriend now, but you will in due time. Just smile and keep your head up!
Shauna

Simply, because guys are shallow and well...are guys...

Yeah I have tried to act like I don't want a boyfriend, like I just wanted to live it up for now. But that is such a freakin' LIE. I get so jealous when I see people in the hallways holding their girlfriend/boyfriend's hand. I am tired of wishing that;thats me and my boyfriend in those halls!!!!!!

Trust me, you'll find somebody you like. Personally, I go for girls with personalities and looks, not dingy ****s with fat ***** and killer looks with no brains.

Conflictingzest, do you feel like calming down, now? I don't agree that porn does all of that either, but come on, let's keep our cool!

MTLBYAKY

Today we had a debate in World Studies about being gay and lesbian, and if it's right or wrong. Someone concluded that if your gay you try to isolate yourself from the opposit sex.

I thought, "oh crap, I've never had a good friend thats a boy. I must be a lesbian."

Oh the things I can make myself believe are unbelieveable.

-Nicole

Not all the skinny girls get the cute guys..I'm skinny and pretty. (I'm not trying to sound conceited but I am) I never had a boyfriend, and I'm not trying to have one(unless he finds me, I'm not trying to find him. I'm just going to concentrate on school and doing my best in life, I think thats what you should do to. If you don't have one, Don't worry about that now, just because you feel lonely or your friend has a bf and you don't.

No bf= Freedom

"This is why pornography should be outlawed. Those that watch see only the physical about people, and never get into knowing someone by who they are on the inside"

SHUT UP!!!! what the hell are you talking about, let's blame all the problems in relationships in the world today on PORN! people are getting divoreces, IT"S PRON"S FAULT! some people can't have children BECUASE OF PORN!!!

get a life, no one cares

I think everyone will agree that the first thing they are attracted to are the physical features of a person. The first thing i noticed about my g/f is her sweet fine deriere but then you start to find out other things about them, whether you like the new info or dislike. And ultimately it comes down to personality and how well they fit together. It starts physical and then goes to emotional. And besides why date someone who only likes the physical side of you, People are like onions there are many layers. I know for a fact that if you stop looking eventually someone will find you and it wil llikely be a friend. There is nothing better or more satisfying than marrying your best friend (of the opposite sex)

If all the guys are going for the pretty girls, then you want them anyway. Who wants a shallow boyfriend? The best people in life are always found by not looking. So be patient. Just know that you are beautiful, and one day, you'll find someone who thinks so too and will treat you like a queen. Don't waste your time wishing you had one of those popular, shallow, losers. They suck. Do something for me, ok? Smile.

___Just because there is more than one kind of sex doesn't mean all but one way should be outlawed. I for one enjoy sleeping with people I find attractive(and at the risk of sounding egotistical, they enjoy it too). Some people just come to a mutual understanding about how far relationships are going(or in this case not going).... so they just have fun with it while it lasts. As long as nobody is being forced into something against their will what's the harm?

This is why pornography should be outlawed. Those that watch see only the physical about people, and never get into knowing someone by who they are on the inside.

I find my biggest turn off is girls that always talk about how they arnt good enough. I really like girls that are confident with themselves just me though.

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"Two Feet Under": it's like HBO for cheap people.

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Thats funny. Anyways, I can't tell you that "There is a special someone out there for you" because I'm not God. But, what I will tell you that if you just be yourself and have some confidence, you will have better luck.
Love Jen