Why does everyone have sex befor they get married? This pisses me off to a great extent!

What are the perks? and orgasm? That's not good enough for me! If you want an orgasm just Masterbate!

Because of love? Please, if you respect someone, don't **** them up because you want some ***!

People, think!

Lord! Post comments.

My first time was in 10th grade. Now I'm a senior and still with that guy, the only guy and we are going to get married. Personally, I don't really care about marriage before sex but I do believe that it should feel right. There should be no doubt about whether you're ready. If there is doubt, then don't do it, you're not ready. Sex is a very emotional thing (love is a big one). I know I've said all this before. My point is: be safe, be careful, and KNOW how you feel first. There's more to it than just fun.

WHY in the world are u so worried about other people having sex. As long as u aren't the one gettin ****** up why WORRY

It's weird, because ive been thinking about that lately. I mean, everyone teaches us that sex is not OK when your not married. But its a right of passage as a human being. If you are emotionally ready to take it on, (and you know how to use contraceptives) sex doesnt have to wait. Its pure pleasure, and it should not be thought of as a sin in any way. Anyways, thats my opinion...

*Becca*

A lot of you seem to think that young people making bad choices is an evil thing. I admit it is unfortunate but it's not all bad. The fun of making mistakes is learning from the experience. That's how humans grow! Please, next time someone makes a so-called stupid mistake, you don't need to have a frickin' hernia over it. It's not the end of the world.

How can you type something that long without breaking down laughing at the title of this topic? "Check your penis at the door.." Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha...
You people amaze me.

Personally, I am saving myself for marriage. I have a promise ring that says "God, I am going to be different from the world's standards. I am going to exercise my self-control and abstaine from sex and keep my body as a temple for you and for me. I KNOW I am worth waiting for and I don't have to prove anything to anyone by having sex!" Someday I hope to give this promise ring to my husband.
And that is what is so special about keeping your virginity for your husband. No matter who you are, or what your religion is, or even if you have screwed up before, you can make the committment to not give into hormonal desires. I just can't imagine any better way of saying "I love you" than to one day be able to say to my husband "I kept myself pure and saved myself just for you. You get a part of me that no one else has ever had."

In the Bible it says that you need to abstain from having sex until you are married. I know there's a lot of pressure on teens today and we all think that everyone is doing it, but we're wrong. TV is showing all these teens having sex. On the O.C. last week, Seth lost his virginity. He's only like eighteen! At school that's all people talk about is sex! You can't go to school ever without hearing about 13 and 14 year olds talking about sex and talking about how they're gonna convince their girlfriends into having sex with them or telling someone that they had sex with so-and-so last weekend. It's disgusting!Why do we act as if sex is just something that we do to have fun? It really confuses me!I know that it sounds kinda childish, but I really don't wanna hear about someone's sex life! Our virginity is really something we need to hold on to for that one special person. You don't want to lose your virginity to just anyone! You may think you really love someone, but you may not! I know not everyone believes the same way I do, and if someone has anything to say about anything that I've put in here, you can e-mail me at CHESTERANDPIERRE@aol.com

Hey guys well i think if you really do respect someone and want to **** them DON'T it might be different for you but Ive seen it to many times after you have sex, you feel like you don't want to be close to the person anymor...Has anyone ever heard the frase "**** "em and forget 'em" does that phase bring to mind... Well I hoped I helped and anyone out there who doens't believe me or knows it's different for evryone but this is what happens to the majority well i hoped i helped ggpeace

i find this kinda funny in a way. If you love a person and they love you back, and you have a great deal of feelings for this person, then there's nothing wrong with having sex with them... even if it's before marriage. I personally think that if you are in love with someone, have been with them for a long time, are like 16 and older, and have had the both of you tested for STDs, Aids and whatever, that it's fine if you want to take the next step as long as you feel it's right and you use protection, but that's just my opinion. I'm still a virgin because i haven't had a really serious relationship yet, but i can wait. and i also don't think i'm ready for it yet, but i don't really plan on waiting until marriage. If it turns out that way, then it just turns out that way!

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an orgasm

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Only one?

i find these threads hilarious and pathetic at the same time. Why would you wait to have sex with someone until ur married? What if you die at age 15? You wouldn't know what it felt like.
(Just to let you all know, i don't think its a good idea to have sex when you are like 13 or whatever...i just used an age where you probably wont be married.)

People have sex because they are biologically programmed to have sex because sex makes babies and reproduction is the basic purpose of life. It's...not...that...hard.

well seeing from your last line "lord..." then i will take it as you are chrisian or catholic. so look at this link everyone http://www.christusrex.org/www1/CDHN/sixth.html#CHASTITY if you believe in the catechism.

What if you're gay and can't get married? You don't want them to remain chaste all their life now do you?

I think sex before marriage is fine, though it must be consensual and thought out before hand (not the actual act planned out, but if you're ready or not).

much luv

~*FOXY*~

well if you think sex before marrige is wrong, chances are your religious right? So if you are religious, you would also know that masterbation is a "sin".

You do realize that even though you (and some others) have spent hours writing about how bad pre-marital sex is, the "rebels" who have it will still continue doing it. And those who haven't but plan to, will most likely do it anyways.



It's like schools teaching only abstinence, or my swim coach saying no one on the team should drink or smoke during the season....if they want to you're not going to stop them.

Oh by the way...I'm not saying I drink, smoke, or have sex. Just making a point.

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Dolphins and Humans are the only mammals that have sex...FOR FUN!!

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Chimps do, too (I've seen a lot of nature documentaries in the course of my life).

Bex

" Yes,confetti, people are born free and I agree that they should be able to make their own choices."

Haha, I think I have a disease where I see words but I jumble them so that tey don't say the same thing. I read it at first and I thought it said, "Yes, like people, confetti are born free and I agree that they should make their own choices." and I was like, "wait...confetti are free? decisions...oh... PEOPLE are born free. hmm. didn't see that."

MOST Christians do not have pre-marital sex because it is in our beliefs that it is wrong. You can't ever speak for everyone of anything, even if it is like 3 people, you really don't know everything about them.

I strongly agree that you shouldn't have sex before you are married, protected or unprotected. Masturbation is (in my opinion here) still wrong, but it is better than losing your virginity to someone you probably won't love in a year. people don't think that it is much of a deal whether you have had sex or not, but it is. it doesnt matter if you are "old enough" or "ready", if you aren't married, you aren't either. girls check your vaginas at the door as well. guys that have sex a lot are considered "players" but girls that do it a lot are just called "sl**s". its how it goes girls, and even though its unfair, deal with it.

I'd like to see where you found proof that most christians dont have premarital sex.