It's because no one can fight temptation alone. Satan's always there to ruin their lives... (Sorry to any satanists out there) Most who do it aren't Christians, and they don't ask God for help.

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People are born free.

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Yes,confetti, people are born free and I agree that they should be able to make their own choices. However, I think that a lot of young people have NO idea of the possible consiquences(geez I need spell check) of having sex or have no idea of how to protect themselves. I think that pre-marital sex between adults is ok but I son't think that young people have ANY business having sex. Just my humble opinion!

Dolphins ARE evil...if you've ever read Jack, the webcomic, you would know this...

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I always knew Flipper was evil...

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Billy, you crack me up.
-Sunset

Did all of you know that Dolphins are also the work of Satan? That's right...Dolphins and Humans are the only mammals that have sex...FOR FUN!!


I always knew Flipper was evil...

I can't stand people who make the decions I make involving myself out to be an offensive act against their way of life. If I have sex before I get married it'll be because we both wanted to and didn't feel like waiting. Your opinions don't run the world any more than mine do so shove them.

Does anybody in our society have even a remote idea of what it means to have respect?

Oh! I'm scared! You just keep bringing religion into this. That is wrong. I brought up the love thing once, you just keep going 'oh it's morally wrong, save yourself from hell!' BS.

And, you do realize that I wasn't even talking to YOU? Yeah, that's what I thought. Another idiot.

Who cares, people can **** all they want. Their buisness, not yours.

Also, why does it say 'Check your penis as the door'? Men DON'T make that sex decision on their own. Men AND Women make the decision together. More men stereotypes. Wonderful.
-Sunset

"I should save people's souls from hell, so I should care."

the fruits are out of the basket around here...aren't they?

Save your own soul child, save your own...

People are born free. Let them do what they will as long as it harms none.

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don't tell me how I can and can't hold my topic and what i can and cannot start with...

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Let me introduce you to the concept of a messageboard. This is not "your" topic. It's a topic started by you. You asked the first question, now we're responding.

Pfft. Arrogant newbies.

Ok, to respond to the actual topic. Premarital sex isn't a bad thing, and it's not really a good thing. Kids just need to be taught that it IS a big deal and you have to be very careful with it. In the end, ultimately it's for the best to have sex before your married. Sex is a huge part of a long term relationship. If it's bad, then it can make both partners unhappy in the long run.

All in all, I also think virgins tend to make a larger deal out of sex than necceary. Which is why so many of them are dying to either preach about it, or lose thier virginity ASAP.

If it wasn't for premarital sex, I wouldn't be here, so I'm all for it.

Bex

don't tell me how I can and can't hold my topic and what i can and cannot start with...

and if you are going to anyway

don't start with that love ****.

I know. I'm just saying it is wrong telling people when to have sex and that it is 'morally wrong' if you have sex before you're married.

I get what you're saying, but people make mistakes. It's part of life.
-Sunset

Yeah, so you don't have to marry someone to love them, you're supposed to love before you're married. BUT, if you marry someone doesn't it say a little more about how serious your feelings are for that person? I mean, if you think you're in love with a person and you have sex with them, how many times is that going to add up to? How many different people would that be? I know I, personally, have thought I was in love a couple times. I've never had sex with any of them. But, after we've broken up I've always ended up falling harder for the next guy, when i'm older and a little more mature about my decisions. But im waiting for that one, the one i know i can't possibly love any more, and then i'll know i won't have wasted something so precious on a guy i'll never talk to again. Get my drift?

Maybe it's not about whether or not we (students) are having pre-marital sex or not. Maybe, and more logically, the only reason this is a debate-able subject is because so many of us aren't responsible enough to be having sex in the first place. Over 300 thousand teen girls a year have abortions, and you know way more than that are having sex on a regular basis. I'm not saying that those having sex aren't responsible, I'm just saying that those who should be having pre-marital sex should know what they're doing and the consequences that go along with what they're doing. On the other hand, those who are saving themselves for marriage, being monogomous should be well rewarded and severly appriciated. It's because of those marital people that one day we will end AIDS, stop premature births, and begin a less permiscuous (sp?) nation. Congratulations to those of us whom have saved ourselves so far! And to those of you who haven't... please just keep yourselves and your significant others safe. It's only fair.

Shut up, please, don't get inot 'it's morally wrong' crap. TO YOU it's wrong, don't have sex. For other people it isn't. Don't get into religion. Not ever have the same perspective. Also, what happens if a person never gets married? Not have sex?

You also don't need to be married to love somebody. It's just an agreement, it doesn't mean ****.
-Sunset

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it isn't going to change the fact that that's wrong morally

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From your perspective. From the perspective that many seem to hold, it's just ****ing around. No harm no foul, and life goes on.

Don't think you can boss me or give me your bull because it isn't going to change the fact that that's wrong morally. I should save people's souls from hell, so I should care.

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Here's a better question... why do you care? If someone wants to **** around, why should you care? It's his/her life.

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Exactly. Besides, the is such thing as a condom.

Here's a better question... why do you care? If someone wants to **** around, why should you care? It's his/her life.