Does any1 have any advice for me to make them pay more attention to me?

I suffer from the same problem but my issues go much deeper then that. (social anxiety disorder, among other problems)

Maybe you should just stop the flow of whatevers going on and tell them that they (at least to your eyes) don't treat you the same. Or even just walk up to one or both of them when they aren't doing anything. Tell them how you feel. Try not to swear if possible because it kind of just nulls you argument with most parents.

I can't give you much more then that unless you give more detail.