I want my brother, I often have fantasies about him and wonder what it would be like to kiss him. I even put on his briefs and walk in on him while he's taking a shower "accidentally"

is that bad?

You know thar incest is illegal in all 50 states right? You've got some problems!!!! Get help!!!

I used to like my brother when I was younger. Let me restate that... a LOT younger. I was stupid and he took advantage of me (molested me). I now look back on it and regret it. I wish I could erase it from my memory.

May God have mercy on your soul. I think that you need to talk to someone because I am sorry but that is really not normal.

I can't make decisions for your FD, all I know is that ending your life, by whom which GOD gave to you, is not the answer. It doesn't have to be the end I swear to you.

I have done all I can to help you, and if you continue to need help I will do my best to get you through your triumphs...Now it's up too you, because I told you all I had to say, I hope you make the right choice, God i hope you do, but now, Its you against yourself ...

Either She lives, or she Dies......

You decide your FATE...

Your truly a wonderful person, but just stuck in a ditch of mixed emotions, and random thoughts. Maybe you need time to be around the ones who love you. I think that you need someone to hold you in your life, if not already,llike a boyfriend I suppose? maybe that whole thing about dreaming of your brother is a cry for affection, and maybe your brother was the only one who gave you that certain crave you've been looking for to feel your emptiness.

And I know for a fact your Family does not HATE you, for hate is such a powerful word to fall upon someone of your on blood don't ya think? You guys just need to communicate with eachother better.

As for the people at school "not liking you", well screw them, you don't need them, you can do better all by yourself.

Have faith in yourself girl, and I guarentee you'll get your tire out that ditch.

Good Luck! And may Peace & Love Be With You.

You can't help who you have feelings for it just comes natural. I don't think it is weird or anything, its just new to me. There is a difference between loving your brother and actually loving your brother, I think your just caught inbetween the two. You can't help who you love, your not supposed too. If you feel that you need to tell your brother the way you feel inside, by all means go for it. Just remember to consider your other family members feelings. Just want you to know, that your taking a BIG RISK. Your jeoperdizing you and your brothers relationship. All I am saying is that when you tell him don't not expect a big feeling of oddness. If he starts laughing and think you are joking, laugh with him and save your self the embarrassment.

i cant say i ever felt that way about a sib, but these are your emotions and sooner or later your gonna need to face them. at some point, if you ever feel up to it, you shuold tell your brother.

This again?!

um, I think it's ok, I used to fantasize about my brother and this exchange student we had, and it's ok. *cough* I'm not trying to make this some huge unburdening of the soul board, I'm just saying that it is normal and ok as long as you don't act on it, cause incest is bad. Very bad. bad bad bad...

- Lynne Marie

wow.....haven't heard that one....but anyways sorry i now i m being a b**** right now but i have had a really ****ty day...sorry

Whoa that's kinda nasty.

homosexuality is most definitely not a choice..im gay and i dont think that u can just say its a part of growing up...is heterosexuality only temporary..no ur either have a genetic predisposition or u are a cause of ur environment..ps . if ur not gay, dont intend to know whether or not its dangerous...straight sex is JUST as dangerous..why because there are still STDs..and u dont have a problem its merely an infatuation...try to get another crush like some hunky tv personalty or somethin lol

uummm let me see here how do i answer this uummm no i dont think you are strange i think you are normal because your hormones are flying and yea that stuff hmmm hopefully it doesnt last but if it does then i guess get help or a bf.?!?!? i guess!

This is not typical YN at all. Man, freakingdeath is gettin slammed for this one. I don't think it's wrong, you can't control what you're attracted to, it just happens. None of you had had fantasies bout your brother, might be hard to imagine, or gross to you, but it's not something she can just say "k, i'll stop now".

It's different. But it's not hurting anyone. Animals mate in family all the time. We are animals at our core. Lol, i loved the posts that said things like "GET HELP!!!!" and so on. Not very helpful, or nice, posts at all.

Lol, and omg, depressedwavemaster, you surprise me on this one. You're saying it's so gross, it's not, if you don't like it, then don't do it, but don't complain about it, especially since she didn't even DO anything.


CONSIDER THIS:

What if someone and a sibling they never knew of were separated from birth, and by coincidence met up and fell in love somewhere later in life? THEN would it be gross? It's not like it would be their fault, and it's not her fault either.

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For others, it's as real as heterosexuality. Real and natural and beyond choice.

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Believe me, I agree! I was just saying that in some cases, people seem to be attracted to the same sex for a little while and then stop, and often don't even act on the feelings, just sort of fantasize. Sort of like the "are you bisexual, or just sexual?" thing. But I didn't mean to imply that if you're actually homosexual, you'll just grow out of it. I just want to make sure everyone's clear on what I'm saying.

Love, Jen.

I was honestly reluctant to believe this topic was serious, as many people make stuff up on the internet for attention. I'm sorry for being insensitive.

I think that it's likely that if you get to know other people any attraction to your brother will pass. Jen speaks wisely, as she usually does!

Don't act on it. Incest. Not good.

Bex

Jen, you're more right than I'd like to admit. About the homosexuality, I mean. For some people, it is just a phase, another stage of development, another stupid step with hormones and becoming an adult. *shrugs* You live, you make mistakes, you learn. This is just one of them for some people. For others, it's as real as heterosexuality. Real and natural and beyond choice.

Freakingdeath, I'm thinking this is maybe not quite as serious as you think it is...it may be more a case of just beginning to notice that he's a guy. Would you really, honestly have actual sex with your brother? Or is it more a curiosity thing? As others were saying, I would try to find some interests outside your house...get out there and make some friends, guys and girls...find something you're interested in and don't give yourself so much time to brood. If there's anyone out there you could talk to about it (a hotline, in person, online, whatever) I would do so. I think you may be so caught up in worrying about this that you're only intensifying feelings of curiosity and such into a borderline obsession. You may find that you don't really love him like that at all. I don't know this for sure, obviously, but it's just speculation. I've heard that a lot of girls often get "crushes" on their female friends that are more of a combination of curiosity/hero worship, and may fantasize about kissing them or something like that, but they're totally straight, and grow out of it once they become more comfortable with themselves and their hormones stop screwing them up. I'm not trying to compare incest to homosexuality, I'm just saying that maybe it's the same thing: a combination of curiosity and hormones that latch onto the nearest target that you have any sort of feelings for (though those feelings may not necessarily be romantic at their core). Hope this helps a little. Love, Jen.

I agree with you depressedwavemaster..it isnt anything like homosexuality.. but then again what do I know, im not a homosexual..