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It is just like homosexuality, not a choice.

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dont think for one second that this is anything like homosexuality. what you're doing is not only gross (in my opinion, but one could say that about anything), but dangerous.

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agian church could help give you something to live for

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church is not the only answer. it isnt the answer to everything, you know. it works for some, but not for others. find something you really like and concentrate hard on that.

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you keep your heterosexuality undercontrol, and i'll keep my homosexuality under control.

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i think i'll join in on that, i wont ever look at a commercial for final fantasy x2 again. ever.

wow you guys were harsh on her....... do u really think she wants to be that way? obviously she came here seeking advice and what did you do???? treated her like crap......... wow....
onelove

I'm really sorry for treating you like this. Please accept my appologies.

-Nicole

Don't commit suicide. It's a permenant solution to a temporary problem.

"I don't know what to do."
I'd suggest joining SOMETHING to keep your mind off it, meet new people. Maybe you could volunteer at the local homeless or animal shelter, or tutor or something. If you can manage, join a church (that wouldn't be my thing, but maybe it's yours). I'm thinking this is just a crush type of thing, and if it is, it will pass.

-rito

Angstah!

nwh, i'll make a deal with you, you keep your heterosexuality undercontrol, and i'll keep my homosexuality under control. Besides, who are you to tell others how to live, you're not "god". (he doesn't exist, but for the purpose of my argument he does)

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Homosexuality may not be a choice, but it isn't beyond someone's control either.

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Actually, yeah. It is beyond someone's control.

And, freakingdeath, how old are you? If it's around 12-16, you'll be over it in a few years.

'Wow, You guys are har-ar-arsh. I mean I can't help this. It is just like homosexuality, not a choice.'

Homosexuality may not be a choice, but it isn't beyond someone's control either.

But this raises a very interesting issue, do you think that society should give you the ability to people to marry relatives?

'I cry about this every night and wish I was normal. Why do I have to be like this?!?!'

Have you ever tried to be pro-active? Have you ever tried to avoid these lustings? Have you ever tried to set a goal to see how long you can go without thinking these things?

'I often think about suicide, but I am to scared to do that. Somebody please help me before I fall deeper into this depression.'

I'd suggest tring to find God, join a chruch. studies show that people who go to church are happier. Also, try to contribute to the community (I know that sounds cheesy) maybe you could make some friends.

'I don't know what to do. Everybody at school hates me, my parents hate me, I have nothing to live for.'

agian church could help give you something to live for, but also, I'd put more effort into tring to find friends.

'Sorry to burden you guys with my problems.'

I only hope my advice helps.

I sure hope that its not her older brother. that would make him, like, 110.

Wow, You guys are har-ar-arsh. I mean I can't help this. It is just like homosexuality, not a choice. I cry about this every night and wish I was normal. Why do I have to be like this?!?! I often think about suicide, but I am to scared to do that. Somebody please help me before I fall deeper into this depression. I don't know what to do. Everybody at school hates me, my parents hate me, I have nothing to live for. Sorry to burden you guys with my problems.
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**Confused**

...I almost feel bad if shes checked back on her post. We've been so mean to her, we probably scared her away. It's not her fault she likes her brother.

-Nicole

well, freakingdeath hasnt been on in a while, think she's checked back on her topic? *ponders* nope, probably not.

HAHA

I remember reading somewhere that it happens to a lot of children around the time of puberty, but very rarely do people reach puberty at the age of 103.

Ill pray for you...

FD: Just get help......FAST!!!

Yeah um, thats kinda wrong, you might like him, but you can't do anything about it, its kinda illegal and gross.

can we all say..

YOUR DISTURBED.

Ooh. thats just wrong. ew. get a new hobby. please.

Point to depressed.