yes, 'cause no boys that i know of like me, and i'm like the epitomy of skinny. but i'm no where near being boy crazy, so i could really care less. just don't go anorexic or anything, 'cause then i'll lose all respect for you... not as if you really care if you have my respect, though.

there are also tons of fat and skinny girls who go out with fat guys, so i don't see why it couldn't be the other way around.

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Originally posted by bauhaus:

matija, there are so many overweight girls because they don't know how to eat right.

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gosh! really? well not here! so okay, it is different there, but here there are not that many that are too overweight, as far as i know every 4th child or sth like that is a bit overweight here, tho i'm not sure maybe even less! and also not many are too thin!

Well yea but then there is some guys out there that don't want a skinny girl but either way any girl is beutiaful!!!!

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well, let's hope jamaica actually reads some of this before being offended and writes another generalization.

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Thats too difficult for her, because her mommy and daddy will make her think if she doesn't live like a nun she'll rot in hell, thus, she will always be an ignorant, arrogant, idiot.

Jamaica is one of those people who can't live life alone because they don't have enough of a brain to be independent.

I'd like to see her be thrown here in Moscow, she'd cry her *** off for hours and annoy the skinheads so much they'd beat her up. Then she'd tell the police, thinking they care. Then they'd take her to their home, rape her, and she's pray to God that she doesnt die, of course God won't come out of his high chair in Heaven, so she'd be kidnapped and thrown in Siberia. Then winter will hit, and she'll freeze in the harsh Siberian winters. But maybe, some poor old man will take her and force her to be his wife, and she's left to raise her 15 children somewhere in Dninaprovetrosk, Ukraine and tend her farm forever until she dies.

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there are so many overweight girls because they don't know how to eat right. You don't have to starve to be thin, just stop eating at fast food places. Make your own food, eat in moderation, don't eat until you are full, eat a meal, then eat little things through out the day.

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Exactly.

jamaica - You say you are so smart and know how to live, yet I remember you talking about how you have to move to the US and become a nurse because your parents want you to.


matija, there are so many overweight girls because they don't know how to eat right. You don't have to starve to be thin, just stop eating at fast food places. Make your own food, eat in moderation, don't eat until you are full, eat a meal, then eat little things through out the day.

gosh! buy yourself some glases! we don't have that many skinny girls!!!!!!!! but yeah, it's kinda sad as soo many girls starve to be "thin"(even if they already are thin or perfect) then you see there only bones walking!
we like curves!!!!!!!!!!

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those people who dont want to listen to my good views are the ones who will fail life not on this board, but life in general.

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i know i've written this before but it it seems as though you didn't fully read or care. i'm going to write it anyway: GET-OVER-YOURSELF!!! I'm starting to get tired of reading you go on and on about how good you are and how wrong everyone else is.

well, let's hope jamaica actually reads some of this before being offended and writes another generalization.

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Originally posted by jamaica17:
Since when is someone who just wants to help out and make a difference have a bad attitude???

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since people got sick and tired of reading your advice that always says the same thing, you're "so good and everyone else's choices are the wrong ones".
i know, this wasn't directed to me, but...GOSH!! can't you get over yourself?

You can only talk to one person at a time, Jamaica. And in all honestly, I don't care how anybody lives their lives on this board, just as long as they don't tell me how to live mine. (I think that's what people are trying to tell you. You're getting really close to telling people how to live their lives. I'm not trying to criticize you here, I'm just trying to help you by letting you know.)

Besides, do you really want a world where everyone acts the same? If we had a wrold of complete conformity (Which that may lead up to with everyone acting the same) is life really worth living?

To Everyone on this board: How about we all stop ganging up on people and insulting them in ways other than friendly banter? Or at least try?

[QUOTE]Originally posted by jamaica17:
coz im "too good" or a saint or whatever.. They just dont realize that im just trying to make teens realize that its time to make a difference...[\QUOTE]

you're too good? you're trying to make other people think like you?!! OMG!! run to the hills!! jamaica thinks we're all horrible people that should think and act just like her!!
WAKE UP AND SMELL THE ROSES, JAMAICA!! Everyone is different. just because you think something is wrong, it doesn't mean that someone else will.

jamaica-
i'm not taking sides, considering there are no sides to take. i'm just voicing my opinion, because (silly me) i thought i had freedom of speech here in the u.s. how could i have been SO wrong?! *please recognize the sarcasm*

I'm a little confused here...I'm left to conclude that she saw my post, but her retinas somehow deflected the words before they could properly enter her brain...

Oh well, I tried.

And to justsomegirl, no, this isn't how most of our discussions go, although a few do veer off in this direction. I think the reason we all let this get so off-topic is because this issue has been covered before.

Hi Ikkil4Reed.... im glad you told me about your life... Actually, let me introduce myself to you also... Im 18 from the Philippines. I dont do drugs, and alcohol and i made a promise to myself that i will not have sexual intercourse till im married so basically we have the same goals in life. I love to read, write poems and short stories and i am doing well in my studies also.
And oh, im not talking about you... Yes, one doesnt do unto others what you dont want others to do unto you but i guess you dont know... they are the ones who started this whole thing.. I am just also posting my views and im just trying to help out by making a difference in teens, not trying to make fun of them... I think they are the ones making fun of me coz they think im just one of those single teachers who keep droning on and on about whats right or wrong. In fact those who ganged up on me are the ones who are making fun of me... And oh, finally, with yout attitude, siding with those people who dont want to listen to my good views are the ones who will fail life not on this board, but life in general. People should know what is good and instead of doing and leading your lives straight into fire, why dont you take time to go and do something right for a change.
Since your life is pretty much the same as mine, im not mad at you and you are not the one i was talking about. Im just annoyed and frustrated how those people who are ganging up on me are so intent on giving me advices when they are not even leading good lives. In fact, they are the opposite of what i do, by taking drugs having sex and stuff and yet, when i just try to give them my views about how they should make a difference in their lives, IM the one whose wrong.. I mean, really.....And oh, before you do any criticizing to me Ikkil4Reed, i think perhaps you should review the lives of those people and tell me honestly, why they should make fun of me when im just posting posts here that are good and i certainly dont ever use cuss words or whatever and yet they have and now im the bad guy here??????!!!!

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You all have bad attitudes that you are just blind to see my points of view that im just trying to make adifference and help out.

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Actually Jamaica, I think it's the other way around.

And before you start making generalizations about my life, allow me to introduce myself:
Hi, I'm Ikki. I have decided I will never do any sort of drug or drink alcohol, and I have decided to hold off sex until I am married. I did volunteer work everyday after school until my schedule changed, and I plan to do some more soon. I am also an A average student.
Hope that clears some things up for you.

And also, Jamaica, if you're so good, then why do you make fun of others and wish bad upon others? Isn't it not: Do unto others as they would do unto you?

Finally, with your attitude, if any one fails life on this board, I fear it may be you. (I hope that's not true, and I hope everyone DOES succeed in life, but I really do think you need to become introspective and check your attitude at times.)

To JustSomeGirl: Since when is someone who just wants to help out and make a difference have a bad attitude??? I have noticed that many teens are leading their lives in the wrong path.. Im not saying that i would change them.... WHo am i kidding anyway? Me?! Change all teens to be good? Thats impossible... All im trying to say is that im just giving good advices and trying to help out as best as possible in my own words of what i think is right so that somehow in some teen's hardened heart, they will come to know their actions and they will change... for the better. Why do you say that them ganing up on me is weird? You shouldnt be surprised.... In today's world, people like the one who's ganging up one me are people who gangs up on people who interfere with their lives with good solutions and answers or good views.... I dont mind them ganging up one me... coz they certainly are a challenge... I love challenges.. It makes me even more competent to try to help solve teens problems.

Hey you JustsomeGirl.... Yeah, everybody is ganging up on me.... but you see, i dont really care coz its their loss.... I guess maybe everyone loves doing the wrong things.... I cant really blame that... I mean, sheesh... With the world crumbling into pieces and the wars going on, i think those who ganged up to me are people who drown themselves in their vices which i think they dont realize that its bad or wrong... I may be generalizing them, but see, they ae generalizing too.... Just because my views may seem bragging or whatever, doesnt mean i have a bad attitude.... Maybe it seems like that coz those who ganged up on me have bad attitudes too and like, when they see my posts and what i have written, they dont like what i have written, coz im "too good" or a saint or whatever.. They just dont realize that im just trying to make teens realize that its time to make a difference... Got that???!! Or are you one of them too???? Doing drugs and sex and getting abortion?! I rhought YN is supposed to be a wholesome website not some website full of American brats... Even though im not American but i certainly want to help out make a difference, not try to make a teen's life difficult and even more worse by posting cuss words or discriminating or by ganging up on people.... My goal here in this world is to make a difference not worsen it. As you can see, the world right now is having a major breakdown so just trying to help out bit by bit in my own ways to help people who have bad attitudes..... Maybe to all of you, i have a bad attitude... I guess i only have one conclusion to that... You all have bad attitudes that you are just blind to see my points of view that im just trying to make adifference and help out.

You know what LoudnProud904, CelticNewAger, Aguagon.... I dont care if you dislike me... Fine.... I dislike all 3 of you too coz you are so full of these little stuff of how the world turns around....in your own little world which is so stupid by the way. My attitude is like that coz i am trying to spread goodness around and by not pretending to drown into a world full of cuss words and drugs and sex or whatever, its like i am annoyed at how people could just be like that when everything is such topsy turvy right now. I am here in YN to help people realize that it pays to do good things and not do things just because others are doing it too... Oh well, i guess i cant do anything about you coz i know you are all so stubborn and full of happy go lucky lives to pay attention to what is right and good... I think most people nowadays are ignoring what is right coz they think there's no hope at all... Do you know what your problem Aguagon and CelticNewAger is? Your problem is that, both of you are people caught in the web of your own disgusting lives brought about by the things that exists around you. Your family probably dont care that you go and have drugs or get pregnant, most of all, your circle of friends are probably like yourselves, drowning in a hole of vices and bad thoughts and stuff.... You may say that i am annoying or whatever. I am annoyed at you also...
And oh, loudnproud, yes i am so intelligent that i fail to notice what a puny stupid person you are, siding with Aguagon and that girl celticNewAger who loves her bf who beats her up!!!?! I think you are siding with them against me coz you are just one of them.. And oh, yes i am intelligent enough to know that i will NEVER EVER live my life the way Aguagon or CelticNEwAger live their lives.... Some say that you are only mature if you have gone through a lot of experiences of life but thats not true. You are mature if you know the choices you make and not just make a choice coz everybody is making the same choice. Being mature also means striving hard to do what is good and right even if the world and the surrounding around you do not. I had hope you would be someone who is good and kind, just like yor Avatar... its a flower and it symbolizes something beautiful, but i guess you are just siding with them so you would be against me and i just realized you are all stupid.

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I am just frustrated because it makes me think that you all hated me coz im good...

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there you go again. brag, brag, brag