bearhug: I'm so glad I made you happy. Feel free to send me NOISEmail any time.
bauhaus: What do you mean "You have no idea how hard it is to try and stay in shape." I've tried to get in shape and I've gotten so frustrated that I've almost given up (almost, not quite).
I'm taking you up on your offer and I have added you to my buddy list. As soon as we're online at the same time, I want these magical tips you have to offer. I have to say that I have never found it to be easy to lose weight.
Belief makes things real/Makes things feel, feel alright/Belief makes things true/Things like you, you and I
The reason why fat people cant get a date is because people think they are lazy people. You have no idea how hard it is to try and stay in shape. And america wants everything BIG, big cars, big homes, big seats, big clothes. You grow into your enviorment. Its the same thing if you put a gold fish into a big tank.
Its really easy to loose weight, I'm sure if you actually did what I say, you could loose 10lbs in 2 weeks, probably more, and you wouldnt even have to work out.
if you want some pointers, IM me on AIM bauhausbold
Okay, yes, I know this is a dead thread, but I will say this. WorthWaitingFor has made my day today. Thanks! I was all depressed feeling today, and I went on here, and now I am happy. God Bless ya! Lisha
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Jenos, I guess I'll say it first: This thread is dead!
But, I still want to reply to bearhug:
I think it's awesome that you are comfortable the way you are and have high self-esteem. But I am also glad that you understand that the weight you listed is unhealthy. I am very concerned for your health. That is only a little less than what my mom weighed before she had gastric bypass surgery. She had tried several types of diets, exercise, etc. over the course of 20+ years and nothing worked. Now she has lost over a hundred pounds and is about 50 pounds away from her goal of 150. She feels so much better and happier and I even like being around her more.
What I'm saying is that, you can be overweight and healthy and happy. But it is not good to be overweight and unhealthy. I'm not urging you to get skinny (I'm definitely not skinny myself---I weigh about one hundred pounds less than you) but I am urging you to get healthy. You may not think it will change much but it will---I've witnessed it myself!
And that whole not getting a date thing? Well, it's not impossible at your size (I know someone about your size that has a boyfriend), nor should it be, but in our society, it is. If you get healthy (diet, exercise, etc.---surgery may even be an option), not even skinny just healthy, and with your sparkling personality and self-esteem---a date is in the bag. Like I said, I'm definitely not skinny but, hey, I have a boyfriend!
Belief makes things real/Makes things feel, feel alright/Belief makes things true/Things like you, you and I
Oh, yeah, I almost forgot. I am quite happy with my self image. I have a fairly high self-esteem level for a girl my size. That's about it... or is it? DUHDUHDUH
Banned books are the green apples in the red bushel. Too sour for some, yet the most interesting
[QUOTE]Originally posted by HeliosLoire: I don't go for girls at all, in the dating sense. I'm going to wait for a girl that isnt dating like a sexless prostitute.[QUOTE]
Hehehe Yay you man. Darn those sexless prostitutes...
Banned books are the green apples in the red bushel. Too sour for some, yet the most interesting
Originally posted by Pink_Ladyz525: Listen no is as fat as me i weigh 107 and that is alot !!!!!!!!
Hun, listen, lose that bad self-image. My gosh, I wish i weighed 107, but unfortunatly, I am horribly over-weight. Guess my weight! I weigh... 284! Yup, Fatty I am. But to tell you the truth, I don't mind all that much. I am really overweight ad I know that it's NOT healthy, but people like me for me. Unfortunatly I STILL can't get a date... Probably because I avoid people at almost all costs...
Banned books are the green apples in the red bushel. Too sour for some, yet the most interesting
Originally posted by cutekaykay: I think that being skinny does matter because, guys want a girl who takes care of themselves, and if your here all chunky and sh** then they won't go with you because you don't know how to take care of yourself which probally means that you have a pretty low self esteem and most guys don't want to be depressed too by being with you.
naw whatever chica u must be in barbie land cuz look at j.lo and beyonce they got some fat but they still look good so wake up and come back to the real world and leave all that **** in barbie land. why would u want a gurl with no body and just bones? well hope u like my reply!!!
I think that being skinny does matter because, guys want a girl who takes care of themselves, and if your here all chunky and sh** then they won't go with you because you don't know how to take care of yourself which probally means that you have a pretty low self esteem and most guys don't want to be depressed too by being with you.
Okay Speaking as a girl, who is well 14 in a sophisticated, suburban area where all people care about is how you look, i am just very stressed. I have just resently lost 40 pounds and felt great, but now i feel like i am putting myslef in bad sittuations with eatting disorders and then now binging. I don't know what to do. I don't understand why guys don't like me...i am now 130 pounds and hope to soon be 100 within the next 3 months, but i am now stopping all my exercises due to the weight i want to be. It's not that i am a horrible person, i am TOTALLY to be around fun and all the guys like me as a friend it's just that i find myself concerned about what i look like and worried that EVERYONE is looking at me. I just want to know when i should stop this obsession, should i continue with my goal or is it that guys like a bit curvey girls? Do they acutally like the thin thin thin girls, or should i continue to be atheletic? Would guys rather have thin or atheletic musscular girls? Just curious
I have to agree with the poll. I'm the type a guy that prefers a curvatious woman to that of the supermodel... no meat just scares me and most of my friends will agree with me on that. I could only not like a girl for weight problems if I knew for a fact she just didn't take care of herself
I would have to agree with Lyddie16 about one thing, I am also very skinny and many people assume that I must be anorexic or bulimic. It does get annoying to have people constantly bothering you about whether or not they think you have had enough to eat or if you go to the bathroom asking if you are going to purge. I wish people could mind their own business, I understand that having an eating disorder is very serious and I appreciate that people care about my health, but people need to know when they have crossed the line. As far as guys only liking skinny girls I don't think that is true. It varies from guy to guy, some like small girls others like big girls. Some guys like both.
Originally posted by Lyddie16: hey this is my first time being at this site and its for the opposite reason as most people. I am really skinny. i eat like a pig, but i'm 5'3 and about 90-95 lbs. im a cheerleader so i'm working off most of what i eat, but i HATE the way that everyone is trying to make it 'ok' for people to be fat. it sucks now because i constantly see people stare at me while i eat or watch me after lunch to see if i go to the bathroom and puke, which i DONT! i really just wish that people would except each other for how we are. we are all so different! everyone has a different matabolism and you can't just think that every bone-thin girl has some sort of eating disorder. i'm sorry for those of you that do, even skinny girls dont approve of their bodies. i dont want any one to be jealous of me or sorry for me or anything stupid like that, i'm just sick of hearing all the hype like "oh my gosh, you look like that sick olsen twin" or calling me 'rex' for anorexic while i walk through the halls with my other thin friends. i dont even like to hang out with bigger girls anymore because all they do is talk about how they wish that they could eat mcdonalds everyday and so on, and they make me feel like i'm not ALLOWED to complain about my body! I AM! when you are really thin, every extra pound is noticeable so yeah, sometimes im like oh my thighs have gotten bigger, but im not saying it in a bad way. and for you girls that do have disorders, theres nothing to be ashamed of, but there is SO MUCH MORE TO LIFE than appearance. 'beautiful' girls or 'popular' girls or even the famous people you are trying to portray usually wish they were you...the grass is always greener on the other side, and life is way to short to live it on a weight scale. sorry this was so long lol... -lyddie
not all cheerleaders are skinny either, i'm a cheerleader and i'm 5ft5 and 136-140 pounds, i'm not skinny but i'm not fat either
I don't go for girls at all, in the dating sense. I'm going to wait for a girl that isnt dating like a sexless prostitute.
Of course, if you're worried about how you look, think this- not all guys really give a flying flip if a girl has a perfect butt or designer jeans. At least I don't. Plus, I mean, think about how bad these girls are going to look in the future- all these tatoos on the very top of their butt, at about age 50, are going to be IN their butt (Sorry for the explicit explanation, I apologize for the loss of your appetite).
Basing your opinion of someone off of how much they weigh or what they look like is always shallow. It always has been and always will be. And, just for the record, I am not asking anyone to like any type of person. You can like fat people of skinny people and anyone in-between. I don't really care. But for those wondering, though I have decided that pretty much everyone has their shallow aspects, there are people deep enough to care more about who you are than what you look like. I would also have to say that good hygiene is very important. It shows something about personality as well as makes you more atractive to the shallow parts of a persons mind.
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