and here are my thoughts again:
It is difficult if not impossible to date someone you are not attracted to. Perhaps you will meet a girl that is 300 pounds and by working with her in close proximity and hanging out with her you find out that she is the coolest girl ever, but if you don't find her attractive physically then you probably aren't going to be more than just friends. Not everyone is born a Brad Pitt or an Angelina Jolie, we just have to play the hand we are dealt in life.

I don't remember if I ever posted on this thread or not, but I'll say my thoughts again:

Only shallow guys like girls for their looks. Sure, a nice bod is an added bonus, but when I go fishing for dates, it's based mostly on the personality. I mean, it's pure insanity to go out with the sexiest girl in school when she has a brain the size of a cashew and speaks in a highly annoying squeaky voice! Now, if she was hot and smart...

hey this is my first time being at this site and its for the opposite reason as most people. I am really skinny. i eat like a pig, but i'm 5'3 and about 90-95 lbs. im a cheerleader so i'm working off most of what i eat, but i HATE the way that everyone is trying to make it 'ok' for people to be fat. it sucks now because i constantly see people stare at me while i eat or watch me after lunch to see if i go to the bathroom and puke, which i DONT! i really just wish that people would except each other for how we are. we are all so different! everyone has a different matabolism and you can't just think that every bone-thin girl has some sort of eating disorder. i'm sorry for those of you that do, even skinny girls dont approve of their bodies. i dont want any one to be jealous of me or sorry for me or anything stupid like that, i'm just sick of hearing all the hype like "oh my gosh, you look like that sick olsen twin" or calling me 'rex' for anorexic while i walk through the halls with my other thin friends. i dont even like to hang out with bigger girls anymore because all they do is talk about how they wish that they could eat mcdonalds everyday and so on, and they make me feel like i'm not ALLOWED to complain about my body! I AM! when you are really thin, every extra pound is noticeable so yeah, sometimes im like oh my thighs have gotten bigger, but im not saying it in a bad way. and for you girls that do have disorders, theres nothing to be ashamed of, but there is SO MUCH MORE TO LIFE than appearance. 'beautiful' girls or 'popular' girls or even the famous people you are trying to portray usually wish they were you...the grass is always greener on the other side, and life is way to short to live it on a weight scale. sorry this was so long lol...
-lyddie

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I DON'T KNOW WHERE YOU GO BUT WHEN I WAS SINGLE ALL I WOULD SEE WAS GUYS WITH GIRLS WHO HAVE A LITTLE OF EXTRA MEAT ON THEM.I BEGAN TO GET DISCOURAGE BECAUSE I PUT SO MUCH EFFORT INTO GETTING A NICELY TONED BODY. ANYWAY MY POINT IS IN GENERAL GUYS LIKE GIRLS WHO ARE COMFORTABLE AND CONFIDENT WITH WHO THEY ARE. THEY DON'T GO SEARCHING FOR THE SIZE 0 GIRL.

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Bauhaus:

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my girlfriend said thanks.

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Which girlfriend? Mary Jane? LOL.

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I think that if a guy is superficial enough to base having a good relationship with a girl on looks, than he is shallow. If a girl goes out with him for whatever reason, than we only assume that she is shallow too.

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Well, the point is not to base what you go for on looks, but we have to admit we all know wonderful people we wouldn't date based on their looks alone.

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So are you forcing me to like fat girls?

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Well, first of all, "force" is a bit harsh. Secondly, I'm not asking you to like fat girls, I'm asking you to look at personality instead of looks. If your girlfriend that you speak of is not only skinny but has a good personality is well, hats off to you. That's great! But some of us are not so lucky. I happen to have sparkling personality (in not only my own opinion, but many others as well), yet I'm fat.

Just because I have a different body type but an excellent personality, would you just brush me off, simply because you don't like fat girls?
That seems very close-minded to me. And fat does not equal ugly. I happen to be a fat girl who is pretty as well. Not exactly model-type gorgeous but pretty. I wish that people would look past looks and focus on personality. Except in your case, most people seem to have progressed that far. I have a boyfriend who actually tells me I'm not fat---and, by the way, he isn't either. I know this girl who is skinny but actually pretty ugly and she has this really hot senior for a boy friend. So, at least in my HS, personality has essentially won over looks.

I think that if a guy is superficial enough to base having a good relationship with a girl on looks, than he is shallow. If a girl goes out with him for whatever reason, than we only assume that she is shallow too. Not every guy is shallow but most are. Here is my theory on the male gender: Boys have two heads but they only think with the one between their legs.

Not to cause a battle, but would you date a guy with terrible acne, bad breath, and who weighed more than a horse? No.

Would you, Bauhaus? No.

Would I? No.

I mean, let's all be honest, we'd rather at least decent-looking people. Maybe not models, but still, no one wants a partner who resembles a heavier version of Freddy Kruegger.

sometimes. i don't know why. i know there are plenty of girls that are like kinda overweight and they have b/f. like foreal. becuz i think those guys are like not into the outer appearences.

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Originally posted by ilovemum:
every wwhere i go i see boys going with skinny girls is there a chance for others?

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So if I liked fat girls over skinny girls would that make me shallow too?

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Oh yeah. tell your gf if she is enjoying having sex with someone who drinks, someone who probably had sex with a lot of different girls. I just wonder if she is even afraid of contracting STD from you or something.

So would you guys date really ugly people? maybe guys with missing teeth?

different strokes for different folks.

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because Bauhaus is a mean person... he only likes model-looking girls who would give him sexual pleasure all day long. He's not only mean, he is disgusting.

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my girlfriend said thanks.


So if I liked fat girls over skinny girls would that make me shallow too?

[/QUOTE]So are you forcing me to like fat girls?[QUOTE]

Noone can really FORCE you to like anybody. But we would all appreciate it if you would just open up your eyes a little more.

I have brittle hips...

Kidding aside...Guess I'm shallow, if you define that as being attracted to the physical side of girls. What do you expect though? I'm a guy, it's instinct.

Wait...who said girls don't like skinny guys? I'm skinny (125 lb of pure bone, baby)...and (apparently) I get hit on a lot...just too bad I'm a cowardly, shy guy

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So are you forcing me to like fat girls?

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because Bauhaus is a mean person... he only likes model-looking girls who would give him sexual pleasure all day long. He's not only mean, he is disgusting.

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Only shallow guys like girls that are skinny. If so, they're not worth your time. I hear that all the time from my friends...it drives me NUTS!!! they try going on diets...and they always ask me how i get skinny, and tell me i eat so much so how can i be so small. Some people just need to look at you for more enduring reasons than you're figure.

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So are you forcing me to like fat girls?

Do you like guys in wheelchairs?

Who said anything about girls not wanting a guy that's skinny or lanky? If a girl has a problem with that or you think girls don't like guys that are skinny, then you need to wake up. If a girl has a problem with how skinny you are, she's not good enough for you or she can go to hell. Plenty of girls want guys that are skinny. I'm living proof.

Yeah, I'm also a skinny guy... it can be tough (my friends make anorexic jokes, but always to me, and not behind my back, and I think they're funny) but it's a lot better than being too heavy, IMO.