Question:
have u had sex with a boyfriend or any other male in the last 6 months? If so how old r u and why?

Choices:
No 13-15
Yes 13-15
No 15-18
Yes 15-18

 

Ok...I am not a virgin, I respect others opinion on this subject. I do not regret having sex. If you are safe and you feel like you are ready than i believe you can do whatever. Just make sure you are ready, and if you have been raped , I dont consider that loosing your virginity.

Melissa

I lost it too a boyfriend who is now an ex but we still have sex sometimes and the two other guys I am currently open to, no pun intended and yes he does know about the other two, are tested and always have to get retested or use a condom with me if they fool around with someone else. Also, I am on Depo Provera. I enjoy sex, and while my views on sex are not required as a juggalette, I think they are a part of it, not being clingy and ****ty, but more like "you want it, I want it, and we're both single, so if we're responsible about it what the hell is the problem?". Sex is wonderful, (well, sometimes, other times, not so much...*shivers*), and I don't have any religious or moral beliefs that explicitly inhibit my having sex before marriage, so I do what I do and have a damn good time doing it :-P.

~Kitty

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havent you always thought that you loved your boyfriend/girlfriend?

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No. I've had a handful of boyfriends, but I was never in love with any of them. I didn't even like them a lot. The only guy I've ever been in love with was a friend, not a boyfriend.

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Being pure is a quality in a woman that makes her a woman.

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Not exactly. If you have a vagina, with or without a broken hymen, you're still a woman.

I think sex is apart of life but some people just care and worry to much about it! if your not having sex then it shouldn't be a big deal and don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything you don't want to it's called rape if you said no, no matter who is. if you are having sex and enjoying then good for you and don't let anyone make you feel uncomfortable about it or guilty. Just try not do thngs you will regret!

I'm trying to wait until I'm married as of now. I mean if I find someone I'm completely in love with and I want to do it then I will. But I know a lot of girls who only have sex because boyfriends want them to not because they're in love or aren't really into doing it in the first place. My reasons for waiting until marriage is all of the STD's and I don't have to worry about pregnancy or what my parents will think. But pregnancy is the main thing. I don't think 15 year old girls have any business trying to raise a child. I also kinda think purity is a sexy quality for a woman to have. If you don't have sex with a guy you can really tell if he loves you or if he's just in it for sex. I don't think virginity is something that gives you bragging rights or it should be broadcasting it (well im kinda doing that now...) I think my virginity is a gift that I want to give to my husband on my wedding night. Most of my friends aren't virgins and they really respect me for staying one for so long especially with all of the temptation out there. So staying a virgin also shows strength. Guys also respect me because they don't see me as some hooch they can get some from anytime. (I'm not calling non-virgins hooches!)

I'm still a virgin...plan on stayin' one for a while. I don't think I'll wait until marriage, but I'd at least like to wait for the person I think I'll be marrying.

i was raped at 12, but i considered myself a virgin because i felt like i didint have sex, i was just attacked.

so i really lost my virginity now at 15. im happy with whom it was tho.

I know that this sounds totally lame but I haven't had a boyfriend or a first kiss yet so obviously no sex. I just dont' see the point in it right now. I mean like I dont have enough problems in high school wihtout that? I'm not saying premarital is bad but I think you have to be very comfortable with the person. And to those of you out there under 17 watch out cause in some states it's illegal and if your partner is over 17 and you're not he can be arrested.

Having sex before you are married is breaking the purity you had when you were a virgin. Being pure is a quality in a woman that makes her a woman.

no i'm not a virgin and i am 15 years old and i have had sex with about 10 guys!!!!

Im not a virgin. I lost it when i was 13years old and it just happened. But im happy that the person i lost it to..im still with him. It was oo i made u lose ur virginity now im gonna dump you.

im a virgin- and most of the people that i choose to surround myself with are too, not that i have something against non-virgins. I think that i have been greatly influenced by them. it just goes to show that you are influenced by the people you choose to surround youself with.

"You really think nobody falls in love before they get married?"

havent you always thought that you loved your boyfriend/girlfriend? every single REAL boyfriend I have had I can say that at some moment I loved, but not now. You can fall out of love as fast as you can fall into it. "Loving" someone doesn't mean that you are ready to have sex with them.

Ya know, this "I'm a virgin and proud of it" stuff is overrated. I'm not saying that it's bad to be a virgin, I just don't see the point in broadcasting it. Besides, I've found it's more fun to keep people in suspense.

I'm not a virgin and I don't see it as a mistake or something I regret. If you want to wait till marriage more power to ya, but don't critize others. If your ready, I know you will know it, you just have to be emotionally mature.

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I think people who have premarital sex dont have true feelings.

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…Shows how much you know.

You really think nobody falls in love before they get married?

Bex

I am a virgin and well... im proud of it...I dont have to worry about anything... I think people who have premarital sex dont have true feelings. They are just driven by their hormones. In my opnion, i think you can hug or do some kissing stuff but not sexual intercourse. I think it is so special and very hot too if you save it for your marriage.
Im saving it on my wedding night...

I've had sex a few times this month. But I don't reccomend it for the average person (no I'm not calling ya'll average, but if you're a virgin stay a virgin til you're ready)

much luv

~*FOXY*~