You people are mean.

I just read that girl bitnygurl's topic about trying to stop cutting. Some of the responses like "people dont care about you they lied" and "dont stop now" and "i got over my problems get over yours" dont help a person at all.

I know there are a bunch of great people out there really trying to help but saying like "i care about you dont do it anymore" doesnt help much either. i mean hellooooo this is the internet you dont even know me well enough to give a seagull's shit about me.

Now being in the same boat as bitnygurl i could give her some advice and stuff but i cant tell her to stop. thats something she has to do by herself. everyone has their own time to deal with the shit they go through. saying that you got through your problems and they should get through theirs is a pretty stupid thing to say considering that their promblems may be :

1) more serious than yours
OR
2) harder to cope with. it may personally take that person longer than maybe it would for you


i hope not all the posts are like that...



yeah im a newbie. im not gonna tell you my story though. i dont want your pity. i want to help people in the same boat as me and maybe get over my problems while im at it.


so send me a noisemail if you wanna chat.
we'll get down to the nitty gritty.



-- Ams

long gone are the days when we offered the short rope-tall tree method of problem solving, I think things are getting better