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Registered: April 15, 2007
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So if a virgin female has sex with another girl is she still a virgin? What would you consider sex between girls anyway? Is a girl technically losing her virginity if she has sex with another girl?
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Registered: December 14, 2007
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quote: Originally posted by ampmaster: quote: But my definition's caused ache and despair for rape victims, who've lost their virginity from a waste of human genes (heart goes out to all victims...). Could we say "consental sex, no matter if it's heterosexual or homosexual"?
Regardless of consent it's still sex, which is what virginity hinges upon. Rape victims are no longer virgins, they may have had their virginity stolen but...
That's the truth. But...I've worked with abused children. When they ask me I tell them they're still virgins. It makes a difference. There's some things you have to believe in, or force yourself to believe in, so you can help out others in the long run. |
Registered: February 22, 2004
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quote: But my definition's caused ache and despair for rape victims, who've lost their virginity from a waste of human genes (heart goes out to all victims...). Could we say "consental sex, no matter if it's heterosexual or homosexual"?
Regardless of consent it's still sex, which is what virginity hinges upon. Rape victims are no longer virgins, they may have had their virginity stolen but...
"The very existence of flamethrowers proves that sometime, somewhere, someone said to themselves, "You know, I want to set those people over there on fire, but I'm just not close enough to get the job done"."
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Registered: December 14, 2007
Posts: 130
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quote: Originally posted by SLASHIROTH:
thats a question that bothers many just watch chasing amy it will explain it all
Chasing Amy opens-up really interesting questions, actually. But in my opinion, a "virgin" is someone who's never had any form of sex, hetrosexual or homosexual. But my definition's caused ache and despair for rape victims, who've lost their virginity from a waste of human genes (heart goes out to all victims...). Could we say "consental sex, no matter if it's heterosexual or homosexual"? |
Registered: May 08, 2003
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No you don't lose your virginity when your cherry is poppped. You lose your virginity when you have sex no matter what kind.
Heather
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Registered: November 13, 2007
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Uhhhhh, when you loose your virginity and you are a girl you will normally bleed, sometimes the suction from pulling a tampon out will make you pop it quicker but it normally takes a guys touch if you know what I mean to make it happen
If you are doing a girl that is a seperate kind of virginity to loose YOU LOOSE YOUR VIRGINITY WHEN YOUR CHERRY IS POPPED
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Registered: November 07, 2007
Posts: 9
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quote: Originally posted by Meagan87:
Virginity is a personal thing. It's based on what you believe it to be. In other words: you tell me.
Agreed. If you wanna say you're a virgin for the rest of your life, go for it. Unless, of course, a doctor or something needs to know if you've had sex. But, it's only a word to me, call yourself a virgin as much as you like. lol
-Mollie
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Registered: June 29, 2007
Posts: 17
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yes and no your a virgin in the sense that you've never had sex w/ a man.(which is the main thing) but you have lost you're lesbian viginity
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Registered: October 22, 2007
Posts: 306
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quote: Originally posted by clpo13:
This is one question I never expected to hear, but I suppose it's one that's becoming more, er, important to some people.
Anyways, I'd agree with both speed and Meagan. Physically, you "lose" your virginity when the hymen is broken. However, this isn't necessarily true for all people. The hymen isn't always present and it is often broken long before a girl even has sexual intercourse (for instance, I know a girl who lost her virginity, per se, to a poorly inserted tampon). So you really lose your virginity when you go all the way, or at least when you go past the point you consider "all the way." I don't really know what point that would be for female-female sex, but that's because it's something I don't usually think about in depth.
thats a question that bothers many just watch chasing amy it will explain it all
is it possible to fall in love if you have a broken heart?
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Registered: November 05, 2004
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This is one question I never expected to hear, but I suppose it's one that's becoming more, er, important to some people. Anyways, I'd agree with both speed and Meagan. Physically, you "lose" your virginity when the hymen is broken. However, this isn't necessarily true for all people. The hymen isn't always present and it is often broken long before a girl even has sexual intercourse (for instance, I know a girl who lost her virginity, per se, to a poorly inserted tampon). So you really lose your virginity when you go all the way, or at least when you go past the point you consider "all the way." I don't really know what point that would be for female-female sex, but that's because it's something I don't usually think about in depth.
The more you know, the less you don't know.
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Registered: February 05, 2005
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quote: Virginity is a personal thing. It's based on what you believe it to be.
precisely In a physiological sense you cant lose your virginity without penetration and fingers usualy dont do the job. I hope that wasn't to raw for YN.
If god existed he'd be right winged
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Registered: May 07, 2003
Posts: 7510
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Virginity is a personal thing. It's based on what you believe it to be. In other words: you tell me.
"Never doubt that a small group of committed people can change the world. Indeed it is the only thing that ever has." --Margaret Mead
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