Hey Everybody,
Guys I have a question for you, that I'm pretty sure a lot of girls would like to know. How do you let a girl know that you like her? I'm in love with this guy, I want to ask him out... but, I don't want to make a fool of myself. Also is it OK for a girl to make the first move?... If you can answer my questions that would be great. Thanks,
-Sunset

Talk about a REVIVAL... two and a half years old... sheesh!

i dont know what to do i like this guy and he just found out i like him but it is my friends xboyfreind they just broke up today. some one told me that he likes me i dont know if i should ask him out because thats my friends xboyfriend i am trying to find out if he likes me i was just going to ask my if it is ok if i go out with him but i am not for sure i going to because my freind might get mad at me and freinds last longer then boyfreinds and my freind really likes him. so if you were in my place what would you do i dont know for sure what to do my mom said if i like him just ask him out but i dont think it works like that see i dont want to lose my freind ship so if any of you know what to do please write one of theses and help me out please. i am going crazy.
heather12192002

it cool if a girl makes the first more guys like that but some girls prefer for the guy to make the first move if you think he likes you go for it also good luck

[QUOTE]Originally posted by sammy2000:
some people what to know how and what to say to a guy when u like him.well I wish I knew the answer but I dont. some people dont think that a girl should make the first move. well if u really like him u will take the chance of everyone talking all over. Why should u care what other people say if u really do like him u should follow you hart. .being cool is being you and standing up for what U THINK IS RIGHT. I warn you when u make the first move its not all ways going to go the way you want it to, so be carefull on what u say if u dont want to make a fool of yourself. . You dont have to all ways go what you friends or other people say, but most people do. Some times I wish I knew what to do when it comes to guy.Some guys think they know what there talking about when it comes to dating girls or when it comes to knowing what a girl is thing well they dont. Trun it around, like a girl think they knows what a guy is going to say or do but we dont, we might wish we knew but we dont. Not in less u could read minds which most of us wish we could do but we can't. Dont u wish guys was as simple as us girls, instiead of being so hard to understand. If you really could go inside of a guys mind u might not under stand that well. Now dont think that im say guys are hard to understand and us girls are short and smiple because im not. Not all girls at lest. I my self is hard to under stand because I swich modes alot.. And when I do say something some people take it the wronge way or just dont under stand.Any way if you want to try to under stand a guy inside his mind good luck.

some people what to know how and what to say to a guy when u like him.well I wish I kew the answer but I dont. some people dont think that a girl should make the first move. well if u really like him u will take the chance of everyone talking all over. Why should u care what other people say if u really do like him u should follow you hart. .being cool is being you and standing up for what U THINK IS RIGHT

I have to agree with Bex that you really only want to see into the mind of this one guy. I'm not going to make any predictions about his behavior because you know him better than I do. If you're really embarrassed ask some of his friends.
Look what happened to me based on making sexist assumptions a few weeks ago: I quit talking to a friend for a month (not going to get into the reasons; they're not relevant). In my email at the beginning of the month I just told her that she'd next hear from me in a month, and that it wasn't her fault. I asked several females how she would react to this, and eventually why she sent me a couple IM's cursing me. I expected them to be able to understand "the female mind" better than me. They all predicted wrong. None understood her. I discovered in hindsight that I could've most accurately judged her feelings and predicted actions based on having known her for so long.
Ok, rant about my personal life over. The point is, if you want to understand this guy you'll have to ask him or his friends.

I don't think you want to see inside the mind of guys, I think you want to see inside the mind of this one guy that you like. And there is only one sure way to do that.

Want to know if he likes you? Ask.

Never let embarrassment get in the way of going for something you want.

Stop being such a pansy and go for it!

Bex

just be your ****ing self. who cares if girls make the first move or not? its a damned free country isnt it? cant a stupid girl ask a guy out? god, in twenty years youre gonna look on this and laugh, thinking it funny that you made such a deal out of NOTHING. sheesh.