Really? your first kiss was with the girl next door?

That's so weird. I have gotten SUPER close to getting my first kiss like three times already, but its never happened. And the guy that i've been getting really close with is the boy next door. We've known each other since we were 5 and i don't have a crush on him or anything but for some reason, i just want to kiss him.

Is that what happened to you? i feel really weird but yeah, i don't want to go out with him, i don't have a crush on him , i just want to kiss him. Just for fun, i guess. And i think i'd rather have my first kiss with him than with some jerky boy i've barely met that'll probably end up breaking up with me after a week anyway.

What do you think about all this

I think I have figured out the problem: I have strayed from God. He is no longer the most important thing in my life, but now my boyfriend is. I need to spend this summer with the Lord and not concetrate all the time on my boyfriend. I need to think more about my spiritual life right now. I still love him, but I'm pretty sure it is the Lord's will for me to concentrate more on Him right now.

By the way, thanks to everyone who responded to this post.

This is kinda what teddy said, and i was reading a cosmo girl mag and i read that if you have sex, or do anything sexually and it doesnt feel good, or have no feeling at all you are numb to sexual feelings. theres nothing wrong with you, it just means that you are not comfortable or not ready. maybe thats the same with a kiss? i have gotten kissed before but i didnt feel anything either, i felt skin against mine, thats it. so maybe u should just wait a while and make sure they are the right person.but i nor anyone can tell u that but your heart, so listen to it!

Missy

Thanks, Jookly

well then just chill for awhile and kiss him later right? It doesnt sound like you are about to break up or anything and the kiss will always feel the same.

Have fun at camp.

The thing is, I won't be able to kiss him again for awhile because I won't see him for a couple of weeks and then it will only be for church camp, and they are pretty strict.

Dont worry about it.

Dont expect to feel anything, a kiss isnt very important and doesnt mean that you are "in love" or anything like that.

It is just a good way to show affection for people and not something to be worried about. If you want to do it again then just do it again, there is no need to say you have to wait weeks or months inbetween kisses.

There is no "normal" feeling that you should feel. It really just isnt a big deal.

Unless you're worried about getting cooties or something

Anyone else?

Oh I was trying to say what Billy said but I didn't know how to put it in the right words. Thanks Billy!!!!!!! or like I said the other thing could be that maybe it wasn't the right time and you should try one more time.

But I really don't know

I'm really trying to help here

Bye N Have a nice day

hmmmm

Ok my first kiss was from the girl next door

we grew up together, and well I felt something, but it wasn't like what I feel now. It was nice, interesting, and we kissed alot more. But it was sort of just a curiosity for us. Well I think she really like me more then I liked her, we were good friends and that is all it ever would be.

Now, my first kiss with a stranger as I like to call it, was a girl from school. When I kissed her it was very uncomfortable, I know she was nervous...but so was I....I really just wanted to get it over with. We broke up a few weeks later...sometimes to this day I still talk to her. There is no hard feelings, and I think she is alright with the fact I was her first kiss.

What I'm getting at is....maybe if you don't feel it...it might not really be there, you may just be good friends. Later on when I was with a couple girls I was really interested in...it was great the first kiss...the whole leading up to it, you get all sweaty and tingly and then you kiss...and...I thought I would explode, it had to be a dream, that's how I know...it just feels so right.

I never been kissed or had a boyfriend but I think it's normal for that to happen in your first time.

Look I know this is way off topic but this is actually relating to this topic also. Um, I was reading an article that states it takes a while for a woman to feel something during sex so I came up with the conclusion that it might take girls a while ALSO to feel something during kissing.

However, I could be wrong.

I'm sorry, I just think that would help but it didn't, didn't it? Um, I'm not a girl who only thinks about sex, I just read a lot of useless junk at the doctor which is basically about sex.

Oh Gosh, I'm sick!!!!!!!!!

I need to go!!!!!!

BYe N Have a nice day