if you're so concerned about why i post my problems on the internet, why the heck are you replying. honestly. if you don't want to hear about my petty problems, just don't come here. get a life.

I agree, Ohio. If you don't want the advice of people on the internet because tyhey don't know your friend's situation personally, then don't post asking for advice.

Well then in that case I don't think that people should be on-line asking for advice on a situation that nobody on here knows about. I just meant that if the problem is that bad then avoid the stress and worry. I do believe that I also said to try talking to the friend and work out whatever problems they have. Van should talk to her other friend I mean, the one causing the problem for the other.Over the internet nobody can help just give advice. People handle things different for themselfs then what others may.

Hm. i just realized something. when you hear something over the internet you give general advice, but when you truly know the person who's going through it, you're views are different. ohio, just imagine if you were doing that because of your friend, you can't just drop it and forget about it. you can't just forget about people unless your heart is really made of rock. Don't tell someone how bad their personal problems are unless you really know what you're talking about. please.



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Ok I really don't know the situation but from what I read, I think that if she was gonna do it she would have already done it by now. She really needs to forget about that other friend if they are causing her that much stress. She should maybe talk to them and if that don't work then just forget them. Life does not revolve around high school trauma. What appears bad now will seem small later in life when you look back on it. She really needs to get help. If you were her friend you would know that this is a secret that you just can't keep for her. Later she will even thank you, I'm sure.

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Look Yogore, i've always thought you're ideas are good and you've been intellegent, but do you have no empathy? Vin has a problem, and if you don't have anything else to say besides trying to look her down, just don't reply. *sigh*, sometimes i just don't get this place.

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I gave advice "tell her to calm down. And then get her professional help. Cutting and suicide because of a friend is pathetic."

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Nah. i doubt she's faking it. she's not like that.

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Go tell an adult in person. How do you expect people to help over the internet?

If she told you not to tell, don't listen, everyone says "Don't tell anyone". She'll get over it.

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i dont want any one to give me sympothy, i want some advice.

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I gave advice already. Look at what I said to Bella at the beginning of this post.

I thought Cinderella was Bella's sister, was I misinformed??

Then talk to her.

ummmm.....NO, i dont know cinderella in person, the only person in real life i know on yn is bella.

From what I've read, the three of you seem to know each other in person. Why not deal in person then?

yes u know that i am stuck up!

Sure i am so nice in that i am welcome to help.

thank you cinderella, at least some one cares about some one other than them selfs. like i said, i dont want any one to give me sympothy, i want some advice.

I personally tink tat you should tell an adult that you trust, or just help her to redescover the beauty and fun of life, and tell your other friend to back off for a while.

Nah. i doubt she's faking it. she's not like that.

A new idea I've on the topic... if she is faking the suicide calls and just wants attention, then she still needs help because she's got self-esteem problems.

Gem, please don't take this personally:

The only time i see you reply on a board is when you make snide remarks, i've never seen you back up your ideas or make an intellegent post. Sorry if i'm wrong, it's just my input.

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Christ, just give me a machete and I'll finish the job.

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That's advice. Happy?

Christ, just give me a machete and I'll finish the job.

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First of all, learn how to spell. Second, we (as in the older people on the site) have already been through the same thing. Listen to us.

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wow, i spelled one word wrong, whopped de freakin do. besides, most of the the other topics or what ever, are not the same sitution. like i said, if you dont have advice for me, dont reply.