Okay, this is mostly directed to the girls out there. What do you think of all the emphasis placed on having a big chest? As a small (but not flat)-chested girl, I can't stand it. I think I look pretty good, esp. since I've lost a little weight and have been getting more exercise (no dieting or starvation for me...), but my chest got smaller!! Most guys don't even give me a second glance because I'm so tiny, and I've been called names as well. Sometimes I think about getting breast implants just to get up to "average" size!!
As for the guys out there: is breast size really THAT important?? Tell the truth, now...

I agree with Katie33o, you will feel beautiful as soon as you DO something for others! I have always has a big butt and thighs, and guys used to call me "Thunder Thighs". It really bugged me. Now, I just laugh, cause I am busy helping my friends build a dormitory in Kenya for girls, so rock that haters! I'm feelin good about myself! Love Others, Love Yourselves! Love ya, Spygirl International

I believe that we girls tend to focus on the wrong issues. When was the last time you helped someone in need, or did something that made another human being feel good about themselves? How did it make you feel about yourself? Pretty good, right? THAT is what self esteem is all about! The next time you start to worry about your body, take a moment to redirect your thoughts to what you can do TODAY to make a difference in the world, or impact the life of another. You will feel good again!

Okay. It is honestly hysterical to sit here and read all the things that people have to say about breasts.

Okay. So on girls. They are there. No duh! We can't help how big or small they come out. If you think your boobs are too big. Then that is just one thing. A minor flaw. It doesn't matter. As long as your bra fits, then hell who cares. I'm not saying I have big breasts. I have small ones yea. But some shirts look better with big breasts, others small.

I know this guy. He says that if your breasts are big then, wow something to look at from time to time. They are a distraction. Like video games when you should be studying. Small breasts mean that when your talking to a girl, you can focus on what she is saying because she doesn't have something that you constantly have the urge to look at.

It doesn't matter what you have. It matters what kind of personality you have.

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Just think Keira Knightley. Completely and absolutely flat woman there.

so true, so true Keira Knightly is extremely hot

I have large breats and I hate it... No one is ever happy with what they've got and if they are, good for them. I know girls from cup size D and up who wish they could have surgery to descrease the size of their breasts because they just get in the way so much.

You shouldn't worry about the size of your breasts, if a lad doesn't like you for who you are, then they're not worth thinking about. The same goes for lads - if a lass doesn't like you for who you are yadda yadda yadda. People are cruel and superficial, breast size doesn't matter, your personality does.

I think what some guys see behind some big breasted girls is confidence.

I'm not as flat-chested as any of my sisters, but I'm still a B or so. I really don't think it's that big of a deal. Breasts are so annoying when running and jumping...just obnoxious.

Think a boy couldn't think a girl pretty without breasts, you're wrong. Just think Keira Knightley. Completely and absolutely flat woman there.

I have breastes, and I don't like them. Of course, I'm male.. I don't know many males (with male-identity) that would like boobs on themselves...

that's because many chicks aren't as active as you are and thus shut their brains and common snese off this allows them to ratlionalize getting a surgery that impeds them in activitys sucj as boxing, snowboard and running

when i was seventeen i had a breast reduction. i am always confounded by girls who go the other way (implants) because having large breasts was a burden. it was a handicap while running, boxing, snowboarding, etc. and also hard to find nice dresses that fit, they all either were too ultraconservative (think mumu) or looked like they were made for porn stars. I know plenty of men (and women) personally who actually have expressed a preference for smaller breasts, and combined with the runway model flat-chested image of beauty, i've actually had problems coming to terms with the insecurities of having large breasts (even now, after surgery.)

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Originally posted by ampmaster:
hmm nope personalty and just plain being healthy is more important than chest size

ampmaster, you are so correct, you said what I was going to.

NO, IT DOESNT MATTER, chicks can look really good even if they have a small chest...i dont date people because of their breasts, nor do i date them because of appearence...i dont see how other guys can sit there and drool over a girl they dont know just cuz the girls hot! it makes no sense, to me, a girls attractive after getting to know her and liking their personality...so maybe i wouldnt go out with a really ugly girl, but they dont have to be perfect, and they certainly dont need a huge chest

hmm nope personalty and just plain being healthy is more important than chest size

i don't see nothing wrong with having small boobs.

I'm a guy and i think that breasts are more of an attention grabber. the "dream girl" always has big breasts, but i think that other things are important also, like a great personality. we have a big breasted girl in our class, and she is a total b****.

I like thicker women! Breast size doesnt matter much too me!

It shouldn't matter, mine shrunk a little too when I lost alot of weight. I don't really care. You shouldn't really care what guys think, if they only care about looks and your breast size, they are probabally to shallow to date you. Mine are average, but my friend says shes thinks hers are too small. Personally it doesn't matter to me as long as my bra fits.

I agree with y'all, it is personal preference. Guys go for certain personal characteristics. Each guy is different.

Hydrok...LOL

I have a friend who is totally obsessed with how small her breasts are, and constantly wishes (outloud) that they were larger. It gets really annoying when we're all trying to eat lunch and she tells me that she wishes hers were bigger like mine. We all have things that are not our favorites about our bodies, but you have to deal with it anyway. Her other option is surgery, but personally, I think that just shows someone is really insecure if they think they need bigger breasts or a prettier face to win in life.

It's definitly a personal preference whether or not breasts are important. A lot of guys really like when girls are small, or they don't even have a preference. Myself, I have really large breasts, and I can tell you that they are definitly overrated. You think guys just go for that, but that isn't what happens a lot of times. Yes, attraction plays a large role in a relationship, but people are attracted to different things...so guys like big @sses, some like really short girls, some like bigger boned, etc. It's really a personaly preference, so you can't say that all guys like big boobs. Just be happy with what you have, and dont try to raise your self esteem by getting implants, it isn't who you are, so don't try to be something your not.

34,36,b,c any combo of those is good in my book