sometimes i feel like such a whore cuz i have big breasts 4 my age. all my friends used 2 tease me about it, and i don't think they realized how much that hurt me. i used 2 sit around and wish my boobs were smaller, not bigger like some girls do. i used to feel so insecure cuz i thought every1 hated me cuz of my breasts. u have 2 learn 2 at least appreciate your body cuz it is something reall special.

Whoever thinks that big breasts and a thin wasteline is absolutely critical to their image is really shallow.

I have a small chest, am average in looks, and don't give a damn what people say about them.

Norrow, That's the funniest post I've ever read!

I know what you mean about short boys, as well. I resolved a while ago not to be shortist, and I can imagine the breast problem you get, particularly as some girls approach guys sticking them out like torpedoes. (don't fall for these girls, they are like preying mantises, ambushing a guy with their irresistable boob powers and then INGESTING THEM… ok, well, the human equivalent…). By this I am not dissing girls with big boobs (I'm growing pretty rapidly myself) but some of them sort of walk from their chest… the boobs go out and the rest of the body follows, it's not really giving the poor boys a chance to do anything BUT stare at them.

Ahem… got a little carried away there… Basically, don't worry about your ****, or other aspects of your appearance. There are people out there who don't judge you for it, and they're the ones who are worth it.

I'm a guy and I would like to expand (tee hee) this topic to include other aspects of body image, espescially body image guys have.

First of all, guys that stare at your *ahem* are not thinking for themselves, but are letting their id tell them what to do. They have a lack of imagination, and are only acting like immature kids. It's kind of like food. We eat because we're hungry and our id tells us what to do: YOU ARE HUNGRY. EAT. Guys who ogle are doing something equivalent to eating a lot of junk food: they are ONLY letting their id tell them what to do, and aren't thinking for themselves. So girls, guys who stare aren't doing it to deliberately annoy you; they do have a real attraction to your breasts, but it's like eating a lot of junk food: they are only thinking, WOW, BOOBS, and not, WAIT A MINUTE, ISN'T THERE MORE TO A GIRL THAN HER BUST?

Girls, if you only want to date guys who don't stare at your breasts, think realistically: there are only currently 43 such guys in existance, and they, like the other good ones, are all gay, taken, or both. Rather, consider guys who look down momentarily, then wrench themselves from your boobs and look at your face. This is an incredible display of self-control and willpower for a guy. His mind has been battling between good and evil, and has chosen good over evil, similar to my example of a guy choosing not to eat junk food.

I myself have to deal with this problem a lot, because I'm rather short, so short that whenever many girls walks up to me, I am at eye level with her breasts. (I'm not a dwarf, I've just not hit my growth spurt yet.) This is why I vastly prefer a converstion with a flat-chested or small-breasted girl to one with a "well-endowed" girl.

Big mistake for guys: Saying "Hi" to a girl's breasts, not her eyes.

Actually, the proper way to ogle is quite an art: you can only do it when the girl is not looking at your eyes. This is difficult because both a girl's breasts and her eyes on on her front, which means that you can only look for a few seconds before she notices.

My shortness comment brings me to my other point about guys and body image: I'm short, and I can't change that. There is a steryotype running about that in every couple, the guy must be taller than the girl, which means that I have a very limited pool to choose from. Or I could just wait until I'm taller. Also, I wear glasses, so everyone's like, "Oh, you're a geek." There is, of course, no connection between eye failure and doing well at school. The whole "geek" steryotype works because it is self-fufilling: I have no one to hang out with but other glasses-wearing "geeks".

If girls get to rant about their bodily flaws, then us guys get to rant about ours. I'm not talking about "Oh no, I have tiny balls" because girls don't care about ball size as much as they do about hight, age, "cuteness," acne, etc.

Oh, and one more thing: Guys, the last thing you should ver say is "Nice breasts." Thank you and good night.

I can agree, a lot of emphasis is placed on girls with big breasts. For instance I am an African American and to be so skinny I have big breasts. (I'm a 32 D and only 130 lbs.) and so I feel awkward, because I know guys are staring at my breasts when I get up to throw something away, or bend down to tie my shoe, it's not only awkward for girls with small chests but big breasted girls as well! Besides in PE, I have to wear three bras just to hold my breasts in place! And I can't wear some shirts that are real cute that other girls cane. So they're are advantages and disadvantages to having a small chest and a big chest. I feel that breast implants aren't the way to go, due to the fact They're FAKE and not REAL! Why can't we all just be proud the way God made us. Boys grow out of this: I'm going to date the girl with the biggest boobs phase-eventually (I hope.) Cuz in the long run, what's love really about? Big boobs? I don't think so!

Sure, when guys look at you, they see the outward apperance. If that's all they go for, than feel sorry for them! Here's a scenerio: A guy looks at a girl and loves the way that she looks, but does not even consider her personality or heart because he is soooo blinded by her looks. He get's to know her and even marries her. Now one of two things can happen here. She can either get pregnant or grow old. Either way, you're looks take a downward slide. Now if this guy who this girl is with is all into looks, he will dump her like a used napkin. The moral: Looks are going to go, but a person's personality, thier heart will stay and define who they are inside and that is what you should truly judge a person by, really. Something to think about huh?

I DO NOT HAVE BIG "BREASTS"
AND EVERYBODY IS TELLING ME I DO. BUT YOU KNOW WHAT?? I DONT CARE BECAUSE THEY DONT BUY MY BRAS. KIDDING
AT FIRST I WAS ASHAMED, BELIEVE ME!! I THOUGHT I HAD THIS BIIIIIIIIGGG BREASTS, BUT THEN I LOOKED AT MYSELF AND REALIZED THAT I DO NOT. IT WAS JUST THE IMPRESSION OF SOME FRIENDS BECAUSE YOU KNOW WE GROW AND SOME BODY PARTS GROW FASTER THAN OTHERS
BE PROUD TO HAVE OR NOT TO HAVE. BECAUSE I WOULD LIKE TO BE A LITTLE BIT PLAIN.

Ive heard different people say the bigger the better,but its all in the way God made you.If you are small up top,God made you that way so be proud of what you have,and if you are bigger up top,be proud of what you have.God doesnt make mistakes and he says that everything he makes is perfect,so think of yourself as perfect in Gods eyes,as long as long as you do that with a positive attitude you will have a better outlook on your life!

I find that weather you have big or small breast you will always be self conscious. For me it is i am self conscious because i am 34C and sometimes that is all people see me for and not who i am. But i used to be Small on top and complain that i am so small i cant fill the tops of my shirts right. i find it that it is a matter of just being happy with what you got dont sweat it!

Look its like dis: if its ther guys are gonna look, it beeen like dat since tha begging of time, and if u put it out there, we(men) will look. But to change ur apperance surgically cause u dont like ur looks is just like saying that ur creator made a mistake, and really do u think that that would happen? but n e way, i beleive if u gt it flaunt it, and if u dont, flaunt it anyway!!!!!!!!( just be tasteful in either position)

hey NyBaByKaY that's the truth. just how old are you? ne ways. peeps with extra large breasts end up having back problems and neck problems. most times they aren't even proportionate. if u think the bigger the better, u gotta think the bigger the heavier too.

redjill i kinda kno wht ur talkin bout cause i'm still growin more, but i still get some ppl to like me, for my personallity though...i think, well i have a cute face n i'm deff not fat, but i' kinda small on top, although i repeat i'm still growin cause every1 in my family is like a d or dd, neway, i feel like lots of guys give more attention to gurls tht are umm big or bigger then most gurls my age on top... some day wen all dem gurls wit big breats are old, then they'll be drooping down to the floor, lol i'm soo mean. naw, but thts wht happenes so let the truth be told!

i'm a boy and i find myself critquing girls sometimes. i mean we play around sometimes yeah, but when it comes down to it, even i wonder what the big deal is. Breasts aren't everything. Do you talk to a girl/woman or her breasts? personally i'd rather like a girl for who she is rather than for how big her breasts are. you gotta look past the outside and look on the inside.

i really don't care about the chest i care about their pack but i don't want that chest like sisqo i want that ll cool j stuff and itz okay for boys to like girls with big titebitties i'm saying i have some but boy i know what ya'll want tites and butt i know ya'll do but holla who every naw mean 1

ok
i just want yall peaple to know that i have issues
i wear a 34a and i hate it most of the time
but then when i get to talking to one or 2 of my guy friends i realize that it doesnt matter
it all depends on how you think of yourself boo

I don't understand why everyone is so obsessed with size. Not all girls look like Tyra Banks and Britney Spears. ANd I'm one of them. I know for a fact that I have a very small chest. But that hasn't stopped me from having what those girls have that are very big. My boyfriend loves me for me. I also have other features that make up for it... like my personality. Look don't matter... I don't know what all the fuss is about. Personality matters. I think we all need to realize that.

I'm with Proteus. Girls who are not as big in the chest usually make up for it by being pretty in other aspects. Trust me, because as the name implies, I live for the ladies. Any guy who tells you otherwise isn't worth a pound of rat sh!t. Girls who are smaller usually know how it feels to be put down and can comfort her boyfriend better than a large, stuck-up girl. Not that I'm saying all large girls ARE stuck-up.

I am 13, I wear a 36C, I weigh 105 lbs. at school everyone thinks I stuff my bra because I'm skinny, I was about to be in seventh grade when they popped up. Anyway, breast implants are a stupid way for girls to become "normal", let me tell you, it's not easy being big and skinny. You lil ones shouldn't be concerned about breast size until you are in you twenties. Calm down, you won't need them for a while.
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ok I am 12 and going to my first year of Jr. high and i am not flat chested but i have got little ones if u know what i mean. the boys that i am growin up with are so dumb! They **** me off all the time! All they want is boobs this and boobs that! its like if u don't have boobs they won't even hang out with you. There are some boys who are so mean and say to me," get some boobs u are so flat!" and i tell them "i am not flat!" and they go " yeah u wish" sometimes when they say that too me i think to myslef "i want to get boob inplants!" but i know it can be really painful! But then there are some boys who are nice to me and don't care about boob size. I just wish all the other boys could be nice and not care about boob size. i see the boys fallow these girls around and just stair at their well sized boobs. Its like once they see a girl with nice boobs they go ," oh my god she is nice!!!" with out even lookin at her face! i just don't get it! whats up with boys and boobs?

what i'm having a difficult time understanding is why is everyone complaining? the girls with big boobs are complaining of back pain and the girls with small boobs are complaining of not getting attention. since when are the size of boobs so important? i am a 36DD and i don't complain. God gave me my boobs. everything has a purpose. boob size may seem like a curse to some people but it really shouldn't matter. god has blessed us with life and made each of us different in our own special ways. we all bleed red so we're all the same. flat chested or big breasted we are all the same.