It can be a challenge to find clothes when you are a double D - but I have found that V-necks and half-sleeves can help. Also, I avoid clothes that are too thin because you wear a tough bra when you are big and you don't need to be able to see everything through the clothes.

It takes time, but finally you get your own style.

I've seen some men that could wear bras. But no one that has to. Maybe A cups. A girl with an A cup can go bra-less as well.

Fetch, I'm afraid I have to disagree with you... there are some guys that need some support, if you get my meaning.

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I say who cares what boys think. How many boys do you see walking around wearing bras?

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Uh... guys don't wear bras because they don't need to.

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There many women who have gotten their breasts done for their "man" rather than getting what they want.

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True, and that's really sad. I heard about a girl who got a boob job, and then she thought her boobs were too big, so she took the impants back out. What a waste of money. You should try to feel good about your body- and trust me, I know it's hard. But plastic surgery can be for a good cause- some girls have back problems because their chest is too big, or have some other problems with their bodies.

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I don't understand why a woman always has to look her best while a man can... well, you know.

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Guys put effort, too, even though not as much. And you don't have to take four hours, either. ::shrug:: There's nice guys out there, and crappy ones, same as there's nice girls and sucky ones. It's all a matter of who you know.

I say who cares what boys think. How many boys do you see walking around wearing bras? Women shouldn't base their sex appeal on how a man or boy thinks a woman's breasts look. I really think that men don't understand what a woman has to go trough with her breasts. There many women who have gotten their breasts done for their "man" rather than getting what they want. In fact, many women who get their breasts done end up with back problems(if they get the breasts larger). I mean come on, I have seen alot of men out there that need to wear "something". I don't understand why a woman always has to look her best while a man can... well, you know. If women and men were created equally then why is it that we treat each other like dirt. Frankly, I can't tell you anything except that we are only human and we have to accept the choices that life has given us.

from someone with big breasts- I'm way past a double d lemme tell you its no fun-all my shirts are too tight around my chest and I now must buy bigger size shirts so my shirts dn't make me look like i'm trying to sell myself
I wear minimizers only because other wise it just looks really nasty and they are extremely uncomfortable and very expensive. Also, my breast are very heavy and when I take my bra off to go to bed, it actually hurts me. So please everyone be satisfied with what you have because at least people look at our face and not at your chest right away and make stupid comments or noises.
Thanks for listenig

Honestly... I don't know what all the fuss over having bib boobs is anyways....But I do have to admit when I was smaller "up top" I wanted to be bigger..... But now that I got what I wanted...It's not so greate.I am a 36-DD and All I've gotten from them is back pain... moronic jerks stareing at me...or them, And now I cant even where any of those cute tops or sexy bras....I've thaught about getting a breast reduction, but then again I figuer if I can't be happy w/ myself now....I wont be happy then either.
So all you girls uot there who are smaller "up top" Be happy and find someone who loves you for who you are!!! And stay cool!!!
*****~~Aussie~~*****

i feel that the females shouldn't be worried about breasts. cause you start growing them in puberty. if you fail to attempt to grow them, you have to deal with them cause i dont see a point in getting implants cause that will make you look worse, not beautiful.

**** R ****. I am not a flat chested female, but I am not a double-D either. Bt honestly, why let your breast size worry you? It isnt worth it. I wish I was a b cup or even an a cup at times. I sometimes find guys lookin at them and not me. Guys should like u 4 wo u r, not for what size bra u wear. Smile and keep confident - youll find the right guy who like u 4 u!

In response to Jill's last question in the initial post... Breast size means absolutely nothing to me as far as making a girl less attractive. With complete honesty, I actually find smaller girls more attractive. This may sound sort of cliched (I know I missed the accent, too lazy to open up the character map...) but to all the less "well endowned" girls and women out there: anyone who's only concerned with the breast size of a girl isn't worth the air they breathe.

The chemical (saline) is non toxic and doesnt escape the sealed pouches it is put in, but the problem with breastfeeding is that women with implants are 3 times more likely to have inadequate milk supply.

okay...honestly i used to think the bigger the breasts the more attractive to guys i would be. now i dont really care what guys think of my breasts or body image. you see the only reason girls want implants to fit into the society image of attractiveness. i wear 34 B and am 14 and always thought i need bigger breasts to look good but what really counts is who you are on the inside not what you really look like on the outside. anyways if your planning on having kids after you get implants, do you really want to be putting chemicals in your babies mouths?

look my boobs arent the greatest things in the world. i mean im not flat im just small! and some days im cool with em and others im not but all i can say (to all those other small glas out there!) is that hey..if a guy doesnt like you cus your breasts arent so big..forget about him! he aint rite for you neways! one day you'll find a guy that loves you for you! and..im living proof my boyfriend loves me for me and not for whats on mah chest!

I just wanna say something to all the girls who don't like being small, or who feel like should get breast implants. Many girls think that big breasts are great. They think that's how to get guys' attention, big breasts will make them look better. Well, let me tell ya something. I am 14, and I am a 34 DD. All my friends think I am so lucky. Well, I'd like to tell you what I tell them. Big breasts are not that great. It's hard to find clothes that fit well, let alone swimsuits... And the guys? I don't get the attention, my chest does. A lot of guys won't look me in the eye b/c they're too preoccupied with my chest. And, there are a lot of freaky guys out there who don't care how old I am... that's not what they are seeing. I mean, a big chest isn't awful.... but it's no reason to go get implants. So, I'm just asking that you be happy with who you are, don't wish to be or look like someone else. ~*Princess*~

I don't care.I am kind of large in the chest.I don't really care.It doesn't matter how big I am.My family will support me if I ever want to make them any larger.I don't think the size of your breast tells anything about you at all.

**Courtney*

ok, so I'm a little flat- chested.. but i'm also a 16 year old, confident, outgoing, honest, level-headed girl, and no bra size could change who I am INSIDE. peace <3

I'm a 36B, but my breasts don't look as big as they really are. Because of my figure, I can hide certain things better than others. I don't mean to make my breasts look smaller, they just do. And I REALLY don't mean to make my butt so noticeable, but it just is. I personally, like the attention I get, but when guys start looking down my shirt when I bend over that ****es me off. I am a person, not an object. If people think you are less of a person because your breasts are smaller than others, so what? They're not worth a second glance. Be proud of what you were given! As long as it looks good in your eyes, that's all that counts!

im like a 38B and im not Jennifer Aniston thin but im average 4 the real world like a size 10. Now im not some s**t but it flatters me when guy notice my chest!! It makes me feel good, BUT thats not the only reason i want him 2 like me! And also 2 all the guys: dont make comments out loud when u 1st meet us think them 2 yourselves or tell your friends when u get home, aight?? Besides its like biologically programmed in a guy's head 2 be attracted 2 breasts, its a sign of fertility, your dead set 4 havin kids. It true, i read it in some magazine!! Love your body girls, every1 is different!!
~Peace~

i have big boobs and they aren't all they're cracked up to be....but i don't hate them...i am a big girl...not huge but not tiny...average i guess... and guys would only look at me cause i had big boobs...they would come talk to me for a while and then hit on me and grab for my boobs...it was degrading...now i am not saying all guys are like this trust me i know..i am with one guy now who is a frieds ex and he couldn't care less about my boobs...look girls i know u think its all about boobs but its not...not all guys are obsessed with looks...but some are..you just have to find one tu ur liking

I'm not into the gigantic DDD porn star breasts. I like "Cute" girls...meaning someone who's breats aren't bigger than my head. Large breats are cool, but sometimes they're so big it's a turn off. Breasts really don't matter as long as they're not ENORMOUS...that's how I look at it.
A cute body and a pretty face say so much more to me than big knockers. ;p