Well first off all of you ladies are just plain sick. Not to be mean but who cares if your boobs are zzz or aaa cups, (why do they measure them in cups anyway?) if you have a problem with your boob size then that means you are shallow. I know that there are tons of guys out there that look at a girls breasts and then her face before they ask her out but man not all of us are that way. We feel the same way you ladies do, we work out and use cologne and any other gimick so we can be more attractive to the opposite sex and it is getting rediculous. Most of us guys dont want a girl who has big boobs, (because we are affraid of suffocation in bed. J/K) what we want is a girl who wants to be with us and doesnt care about all of that junk. Now dont get me wrong, I love a made up face every now and then but I know you cant be sexy 24/7 neither can I so just be yourself and dont sweat the small stuff. Enjoy what god gave you, besides big boobs sag when you get older so enjoy the fact that your shape is great and you are alive and in good health.

Pick up your heads and be happy with what you got, and if your boyfriend wants bigger ones make him get a boob job. Stay strong and confident even in the face of ridicule because you will always come out on top if you are kind and considerate. (oh yeah if any of you are single send me your name and # ) J/K unless you really want too.

Gosh. All of this stuff is fun to read, but so redundant... All of this stuff about "a guy that only likes you for your breasts isn't worth having" bla bla bla... Have you ever cried yourself to sleep at night? Some girls would kill to have guys look at them for their breasts, or b/c they wear a size 1. Face it- you know in your hearts that "personality" isn't what originally attracts people together most of the time. Not all guys that look at a girl's body are shallow jerks; they just got attracted, and want to know more. Look deep inside yourself: do you know someone who is totally ugly, with a great personality? I know I do. Would you date them? Or would you leave it up to someone else, rationalizing that "he/she's just not right for me, but the right person for him/her will come along," knowing in your heart that if they were even slightly cute you would date them, but you just couldn't do it?
Don't hide behind the anonymity of these boards, giving people what they want to hear.
I know some of you are fighting the silent battle of your bleeding heart-- I am too. Just don't let it get you down, because after all, God made you perfect in His eyes. Not that you think His opinion matters now, but it does.
~*~Kris~*~

You women should not care about your breast size, that is the concern of your husband or other male figure to worry about. You need to stop thinking about yourselves and get back to working to please men !

I'm a big chested girl. Where I'm from that used to automatically make you some kind of ****. Probably because some other big chested girls were sleeping around. I had to break down the barriers to show people how I really am. When people saw that I wasn't that kind of girl, they warmed up to me. Now, my breast size doesn't matter anymore. People like me for who I am.

I'm a big chested girl (c) and it can really suck sometimes. guys only like you for your breast or your body sometimes and that sucks. but i guess it works both ways. just be happy with who you are and what ya got. i always say i'd rather but messed up in someway because then the guy that fell in love with me would actually like me for me. that's my opinion.
thanx love you all!

As far as the image out their about having big breasts, I try not to read them. I, a fellow A cup, am obviously small. Not totally flat, but small, and of course guys don't drool over the size of my breasts or anything, but I feel comfortable with my boday, my WHOLE body and I think that's what matters. I once heard that a guy likes a girl w/ confidence. So my thing is, if you have confidence a guy really won't know the difference, he thinks well, she's ok w/ it and I am too....that's my theory, it could be totally wrong, but oh well....plus you hafta have more than just big boobs to succeed in our world, you hafta have SOME intelligence! Looks aren't everything...and hopefully some guys realize that or will...sometime in the future!

The guys that don't "give you a second glance" aren't worth it anyway. We(small chested gals)should be thankful if a guy looks past our image and is smart enough to walk up to us and get to know us. I do admit though that it would be nice to have the Junior shirts fit me better.

Okay.....this is what I think...
My breasts aren't that important to me,I have more interesting and productive things than just slump around groaning,"I wish they were 'bigger'".
All I care about is retaining my intellagence and the love for myself.
I'm not conceitted but in order to love someone you must love yourself.
I would rather go out with someone who appreciates me for who I am,guys who go out with you for you'r breast size are just lookin for sex.

I like my A cups. I can fit into the shirts in the boys' section of thrift stores, so I have all sorts of wacky stuff. It'd be nice if all non-knit dresses and shirt didn't hang off my chest, though.

dante, thank you for watering down the topic.

here's my view on breasts (uh, don't take that the wrong way):
some guys say it doesn't matter, but most high school guys i know think it does. it's unavoidable but, guys will mature a little bit (or get seriously hurt) and realize breasts are not as facinating and wonderful as their hormones told them they were.
see, but in all reality WHO CARES what the guys think? you need to be comfortable with your body, because there's not a whole lot you can do to change it (without surgery etc.) or at least accept it.
i did. and i couldn't be happier. it's like, i hardly even consider them anymore. they're sorta like my knuckles or feet or earlobe. i know they're there, but i don't dwell on them.
the important thing is that you're happy with yourself for who you are--not for who society tells you you should be.

1. Girl lamenting the fact she has big breasts. (Not going to get much sympathy in this culture)

2. Girl speaking encouragingly about how breasts don't matter or how they have small breasts and like it or "it's ok".

3. Guys saying (paraphrase) "All you need is a handful." Speaking encouragingly about how breasts don't matter.

Anyone have anything new to say? Experiences? New Ideas?

I have big breats, bigger then normal for a girl my age. And I sometimes hate it because it seems like thats the only reason why guys like me. And sometimes I like it because of the attention I get from it and from guys. But in the end it hurts to think guys only like me for that and not for my personality when I think if they REALLY got to know me they would like my personality 10 times more then my breasts.

I am a size A. Sometimes it's a little depressing, but I try to concentrate on the rest of my body instead. It's hard for me cause all you folks want people to look at your face, I do to but I sometimes feel embaressed cause I have bad acne. I do like the rest of my body though, I have a flat stomach and I'm really strong. I have bigger muscles then a lot of the guys in my class. I kinda wish my boobs were a little bit bigger, but I'm so glad they're not too big, cause I do a lot of sports and that would suck.

PS I really appreciate how MOST of you guys out there are saying that boobs aren't important. That rocks!

Serously,all of you girls complaining that your breats are too small,I'll give you some of mine..I'm fortunate in the fact thatI have some pretty good friends who really know ME,but still,I can't wear cute lil shirts and I bounce terribly when I run..they get in the way too much,you are def. lucky!

Peace,Love,Empathy-
~Elizabeth

I'm 18 and a girl and I just don't get why guys are obsessed with breasts. They aren't that interesting...they're just there. Is it because they don't have them that they think they are so great? I just never got the fascination with them...

so what if you have a small chest? It still might grow! Don't get cosmetic surgery, it's painful, expensive, dangerous, has serious health risks, including DUN! DUN! DUUUN!! death!!!!! What's the point in risking your life to have a bigger chest? Plus, it's a proven fact that 6 out of 10 guys don't want a girl who's had breast implants! As my b/f says "No more than a handful, that's a risk of a sprain." Be proud, no matter what bra soze you are!

I am less than a B cup. Way less... almost less than an A!! Maybe this clears up a few things...

You are worried about haveing small boobs! If you had huge boobs you would not like it eaither. I am 27 and i have been in a D cup since i was 15. It is not fun. When you try to talk to a guy you never get eye contact all they seem to see is you boobs. I would love to be a B cup again. That is just the right size. I hate having big boobs. If you meet a guy you think all he likes about you is your boobs. Be proud you have small boobs.
QT

Thanks you guys. It really helps me to hear all this. I don't know why I feel bad about my chest: I'm dating a guy who loves the way I look (including in the chest; he'd HATE IT if I got a boob job), I don't believe that women should be judged by their looks anyway, and most of the time I'm fairly content with the way I am.
MOST OF THE TIME... you see, whenever I see some girl with cleavage sticking out, or ads for all kinds of breast-size altering things (pills, exercise, surgery, etc.), or whenever I hear a bunch of jerks talking about some girl's big boobs, I feel so envious and so angry... and pretty self-conscious. I also hate that I can never find a bra in my size!! So even though I don't like the idea of plastic surgery, sometimes it does seem rather tempting... Sigh.

think. Breasts are cute no matter what; complimenting a girl on them would be rude (and redundant). I'm jealous. They're sensitive to touch and be wonderful for a couple to share. Guys dont have that, we just got one variable, and it's not all that interesting.
No one should worry about breast size, not because of an image thing, but because they have a function, pleasure and food. Size is not one of those functions. Big or small is irrelevant as long as they are breasts.