Yeah, the jokes are bad when you get "big". lol Guys call me anything from "jugs" to "pontoon" to "life raft". And I get a lot of "pillow" jokes too. You just have to learn to laugh it off.

jamiaca, early menustration has nothing to do with anything, I was 9 too, and i started wearing bra's in the 3rd grade. I'm now a 34B, so, that squashes that theory.

Ok, i am embarrassesd telling you all this but i got big breasts.. I guess its the result of my very early menstruation.. I started when i was barely 9 years old and at that time, i was in the middle of 3rd to 4th grade and i think i was the early bloomer in my whole class... I would wear a baby bra and most of my girl classmates only wear a thin under shirt underneath their school uniform..
Having big breasts have advantages and idsadvantages.. For one thing, its good coz i think i look pretty sexy whenevr i wear blouses or dresses and it adds figure too even if im not skinny like those models.... My figure is ok to me i guess but i seriously need to lose some weight... I think i am in the middle.. hehehe.. oh, but having big breasts have their disadvantages too... Its like, guys would stare at you and i mean, i do like guys to stare at me but somehow its a little creepy and annoying that they are staring. I dont really want to be stared at... Also, people in my class would tease me for having big boobs and its kinda embarrassing.

^_^ Thanks Audrey. I thought it was only me.

lol, nightingale, I'm the same size as you chest-wise, but I'm 5'5". Personally, I'm happy with how I look. I didn't used to be, but I figure I might as well get used to it. My best friend has a cousin who is 30 years old, and extremely petite. She is about 5'1 and 32AA. I don't think she has considered breast enhancement, and she is engaged to be married. The way I see it, any guy who worries about chest size rather than personality is not worth hanging out with anyway...

redjill55, I dont think that you should get implants. Its very painful and the risks are extrodinary. Remember that everyone is beautiful no matter how they are shaped/colored, and if someone isnt willing to get to know you b/c of how you look they arent worth your time.

I'm 5'1 and a mere 34A. Some women love having smaller breasts, others hate it. I am definetely one of those type of girls, I hate them. Even though a lot of the guys here are saying that a girl only has to be herself, you make up 1% of the male population in my eyes. I have never met a guy, in real life, who liked small breasts. Guys are always rejecting me before they get to know me, and boys hardly ever like me. I consider myself a nice person, and after I get to know someone, we become fast friends. It has to be my body, because i have no other explantation for it...

Breasts are over-rated. People always want what they don't have. I'm 5'10", 190 lbs and most of my weight is breast. Sorry if that's TMI, but that's what we're talking about right? I'm a 38 DDDD, and it really really hurts. My arms go numb and my back hurts really bad all of the time. I can't even get back massages because of the pain. So, be happy with what you've got. Bigger is not always better.

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i appreciate natural beauty in it's purest form. i hate things like silicone and razors. i think that a lovely, makeup-free, unaltered, unshaved, naked body is much more beautiful than the toothpicks that walk around.

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ok, i agree with you copletely except foor unshaved part. but seriously, breast size isnt everything. im a guy and what really matters to me is personality, i dont want to fall in love with someone for their boobs. i want to like them for who they really are. and big boobs intimidate me. : :hides in corner of orange abode: :

dont go out with a guy if he just cares about your bust. if a guy really likes you he will see you for you and all those letters and numbers wont matter. just be confident

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"trust me, sweetie, small boobs are a gift."

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AMEN!!!

I've found that excercise helps reduce your bust size. (That's why a lot of athletes are flat chested). ALso, some weight-lifting regiments can help increase your muscles in your chest, which will tone and help you not to get saggy in the future.

It's just really annoying when I want to go running, too because I have to wear like two or three sports bras lol.

I'm tiny, in all aspects. I'm 5', weigh about 100 lbs, and wear a size 34A. Anyway, I think its because I've been going to either 6 or 9 practices a week for swimming since I was 8 years old. So, yeah, I guess that would make me smaller. But I like it. I don't have to worry about my boobs popping out, getting in my way, moving when I run, any of that. I know all the guys I've dated have liked me for me, not just my body. I think there is an inbetween line most guys walk on. Yes, guys are attracted to girls physically (this may include the boobs depending on the guy. Another part is the butt. That's another story, though.) But most also wouldn't date a girl just for physical appearance. They look at what is inside a girl. If they like the girl is all about they are more likely to date her then if her boobs are huge. That's been my experience at least.

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i'm 5'1 and wear between a 36DD and 34D, depending on the bra. i tell all my small-chested friends this exact quote: "trust me, sweetie, small boobs are a gift." most have heard my problems with my boobs before so they dont say anything, and a few roll their eyes, in which case they get, "hey, two words for ya. back, problems. these things are freaking heavy, man! not to mention the complete objectification i get every time i wear a tank top. when i CAN wear a tank top, since most of them are self-support, and i'm sorry, but a strip of elastic under my boobs instead of a bra is neither comfortable nor supportive." this is usually enough to shut them up. but i can tell very few actually believe me. i tend to wear band shirts and jeans, or capris when the florida weather is hot enough, to hide my body so i don't have to deal with all the *******s in my school (i live in central florida so my school is about 1/2 to 1/3 hispanic, and my town is extremely close-minded and snooty, so most of the school can be labeled *******). i hang out with the rockers at my school so it's not necessarily as bad as other social groups (other than just jokingly), but the skimpiest i will get in public is a babydoll tee. occasionally i'll wear spaghetti straps, but i always put a buttondown over it so i can cover up if i feel the need. the last time i wore a low-cut shirt and a skirt to school, guys were looking up my skirt and down my top on the stairs, and being 5'1 meant that half the high school's male population could see down my shirt without the aid of the stairs. the last time i wore a low-cut top out to a concert, a guy drove past me and my friend honking and whistling. how would you small-chested girls feel being completely objectified and harassed every day because of a physical feature you can't control?

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Agreed. It's uncomfortable to wear fitting shirts because you think everyone is staring at you. I wore huge sweatshirt all school year because I was uncomfortable.

It's horrible thinking guys are looking at your chest and only wanting you for your chest. I'm 5'2 (yes, I finally got taller!) and I'm a 36D, it looks funny on my frame and it's really uncomfortable. It hurts to run or exercise, they always seem to get in the way and bra shopping is a nightmare. It causes back pain too and my breast always seem to hurt. Trying to find supportive, nice looking swimsuits is nearly impossible and you're always 'popping out.' I can never find a swim suit that fits my chest. It's expensive getting breast reduction. So all of you small chested girls, consider yourself lucky.
-Sunset

An update,I'm 5'7 and 117 pounds, barely a 34B, and i want bigger boobs, not just cuz guys like them, beccause i feel like small boobs on a larger frame look strange.

I've heard that guys like smaller breasts these days and if, say, a playmate were to get breast enhancements she would ruin her career. Guys want real, besides who wants huge **** anyways?

Also on the internet i saw this thing about Britney Spears's rack. Her size had gone from a B to a C to an A then a D and when she was in a really skimpy bikini top, she definatelyhad A boobs. Ah the mystery of Britney Spears's Breasts.

i think more guys are interested in you than in your body. im busty for my height, but guys like me because i'm not too girly and im easy to talk to.

i'm a guy. i'm all comfortable with myself and all that. but i'm not bringing up my penis size here... not unless anyone asks.

yeah. nevermind that part...

so what i was eally going to say was that i think i must be some sort of a rare breed of guy. i appreciate natural beauty in it's purest form. i hate things like silicone and razors. i think that a lovely, makeup-free, unaltered, unshaved, naked body is much more beautiful than the toothpicks that walk around.

you should feel comfortble with yourself. be open and vulnerable. if you're closer to your natural self physically (and i'm speaking to guys and girls here, by the way), then i think that helps you to be more natural mentally and emotionally.

Yeah I know what you mean I'm only a 34B. But I have never had problems with guys. I found out as long as I be my self, and don't care what others think that I do just fine. And when people tease me I just don't care so they don't tease me b/c it does not bother me.

i'm 5'1 and wear between a 36DD and 34D, depending on the bra. i tell all my small-chested friends this exact quote: "trust me, sweetie, small boobs are a gift." most have heard my problems with my boobs before so they dont say anything, and a few roll their eyes, in which case they get, "hey, two words for ya. back, problems. these things are freaking heavy, man! not to mention the complete objectification i get every time i wear a tank top. when i CAN wear a tank top, since most of them are self-support, and i'm sorry, but a strip of elastic under my boobs instead of a bra is neither comfortable nor supportive." this is usually enough to shut them up. but i can tell very few actually believe me. i tend to wear band shirts and jeans, or capris when the florida weather is hot enough, to hide my body so i don't have to deal with all the *******s in my school (i live in central florida so my school is about 1/2 to 1/3 hispanic, and my town is extremely close-minded and snooty, so most of the school can be labeled *******). i hang out with the rockers at my school so it's not necessarily as bad as other social groups (other than just jokingly), but the skimpiest i will get in public is a babydoll tee. occasionally i'll wear spaghetti straps, but i always put a buttondown over it so i can cover up if i feel the need. the last time i wore a low-cut shirt and a skirt to school, guys were looking up my skirt and down my top on the stairs, and being 5'1 meant that half the high school's male population could see down my shirt without the aid of the stairs. the last time i wore a low-cut top out to a concert, a guy drove past me and my friend honking and whistling. how would you small-chested girls feel being completely objectified and harassed every day because of a physical feature you can't control?

I have a 36DD, I am 5'0. Now, do not tell me that you want big breasts. It hurts to even freaking move. Let alone exercise. The move constantly and it looks like I have implants. Come on.

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so yeah..guys only think with the penis

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Your stupid enough to go out with guys who only want sex. That doesn't mean the whole male population is like that. You're just too dim to see that.

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its gross, i mean come on big brother, lose the **** and get on with your life

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Can anyone say jealous? So what if your brother is attracted to her, who cares. You just hate girls with bigger boobs than you. Shut up already. Girls can't help what their chest size is.

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most of my (STUPID) x boyfriends were only trying to get into my shirt, so YES i think that most males are drawn to bigger boobs and also appreciate the site of them. its mean, but the girls at my school 95% of them dont have boobs, or boobs bigger than a 28b ?!!?! if thats a size....

so yeah..guys only think with the penis

*hate the player not the game*
~rosesRred15~