i have been going out with this boy since october and we have not kissed or any and it seems like it was better off as friends and i really want ot break up with him but i dont want to urt his feeling does anyone have a idea on how i do it ina a nice way but still be a good friend with him!

thanks for all the help.. i wrote him a letter and gave it to him. he was really upset but i think when i explained it to him on aim beter he unstood it a lot beter cause well yeah im not going it get into detils.

your name is stayoutofmylife yet you're asking help with your life... how ironic

I think that you should write him a letter in school or after school, and then give it to him. I didn't know how i was feeling about my boyfriend and then i wrote him a letter, then again it is not very easy for me to say what i am feeling out loud. So i decided to write him a letter, In that letter i explained to him how i felt and i essentially broke up with him, but i really did it because i didn't know how i really felt, and i still do not know. It is a hard thinkg to figure out, love. I guess you wont know that you are in love untill you would lose that person just to make them happy. I wish that i could say that i would do that for him but i can't, i can't lie about it. Well i gave you the advice that i can, and i rambled on and on. But you do not need to take my advice, you are your own person, so do what you think is right.

peace out dude.

You need to tell him that you're feeling this way. The last thing you want to do is lead him on if he feels strongly about you.
Try telling him that you need to talk. Then tell him that you think were happier when you were just friends. Make sure he knows that he is important to you and that you still want him to be in your life.
I hope this is helpful!

i really dont want to go out with him anymore but i still want to be friends with him. i want ot break up with him in a nice way. i have been dumped brfore i have never been the one who is dumping the person so i need so advice on how to do it ina nice way cause all the guys that dumped me werer like "i just dont like you anymore" or "i just dont feel the power we had before". so i kinda need some nices ways to let him down in a really nice way.

You should definately talk to him. Tell him how you feel about it in a nice settle manner and ask him what he thinks and feels. He may feel the same or may be too shy to try to make the first move.