I have a few questions that i need some answers/advice to;

1. I like doing sexual things with girls, but i am not fer sure if i am bi/lesbian. And i think i might "like" one of my close friends..thats a girl. How would i know?

2. I am a recovering cutter. I have been cutting for 3 years and my boyfriend has gotten me to stop. For 2 months now i havent touched my blade, but i have had many times where i wanted to. Any help on how to not think about it?

Any advice or answers would be great! Thanks!!

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1. well if you feel the way you felt when you started to like your b/f. I would say your bi.

2. well its great that you haven't cut I am also a recovering cutter and I havent cut in a5 mths and there have been many times that I have wanted to but the way you got to think about it is is it really worth it. You've gone all this time not cutting so is that one second worth it. Also if you just stopped cutting for your bf that isnt right this is something you need to do on your own.

if you like girls than you like them and you obviously like guys too so i would say your bi.. as for #2.... it's best for you to always have someone to talk to.

I will let you know that "do what feels good" is not good advice. Just a warning.

bout the first q
just go for it ur'll evenually find out and don't worry theres like a millon diffrent leveels of biness if that makes sence lucky for me i'm pritty even split
if u enjoy it then do it and if strong fellings develop then great
and second one no idea never done it best thing i gess is to aviod situation where u mite want to do it

WOW. A classic representation of our youth today. Sad really. "I hurt myself and I might be gay." Kids today are forced to grow up fast thanks to unwed mothers, broken homes, daycare, latch-key kids, lack of moral teachings, and many other cherished traditional values. All of this extra stress and resposibility makes it so kids can't actually be kids. See, they are given responsibility but no real power to actualy make choices. In order to feel like they are doing something, they hurt themselves and become gay (as well as many other "trends"). It makes me feel really bad that our parents and society as a whole can't understand what their "do what you want if it feels good" attititude is doing tto the kids.

1. You are still fifteen years old. Have fun with your friends, enjoy high school...wait a while to date, and maybe with time the "who" will become clearer for you.

2. Find something else to do with your time. Join a club, take up a sport, volunteer your time in your community. Find something that you enjoy doing, that makes you feel good about being you and hope that that is enough to refocus your attention.

Good luck!