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Registered: February 22, 2004
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you just gotta go all in the worst that can happen is them saying no quote: Self-depricating humor gets you lots of female friends. Self-aggrandizing humor gets you a girlfriend.
explains why I have so many gal pals and am extremely single most of the time
"The very existence of flamethrowers proves that sometime, somewhere, someone said to themselves, "You know, I want to set those people over there on fire, but I'm just not close enough to get the job done"."
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Registered: March 08, 2004
Posts: 1686
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Cockiness, when paired with humor, works miracles (for guys). I may not know much about this stuff, but I've managed to figure that much out. Self-depricating humor gets you lots of female friends. Self-aggrandizing humor gets you a girlfriend.
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Registered: October 28, 2005
Posts: 5354
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quote: Rule 2. Be cocky
DON"T BE COCKY That makes you sound like a jerk then therefore not a good canidate to be dating.
draft beer not soldiers...
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Registered: May 18, 2006
Posts: 3802
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quote: write note's to ask someone out
If you don't have the nerve to talk to a person you probably don't need to date them.
It must be lovely to wake up in the morning and understand everything.
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Registered: August 09, 2006
Posts: 1074
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Rule 1. Be Confident. Rule 2. Be cocky. Rule 3. Be funny. Rule 4. HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY IF THEY ACCEPT!!!
The original draft of The Lord of the Rings featured Chuck Norris instead of Frodo Baggins. It was only 5 pages long, as Chuck roundhouse-kicked Sauron's ass halfway through the first chapter.
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Registered: August 24, 2006
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Just be yourself...It's no use asking someone out if you're not doing it how y ou would normally act....I write note's to ask someone out because if they say no, I can just say "I don't know what you're talking about..Maybe (so-and-so) did that to get back at me" or if they say yes, you don't have to worry about being freaked out with the chance that they say no. It's alot easier in my oppinion...And I feel alot better then just walking up and saying it.
"Life is a treasure, even if digging to it or through it is a challenge." Mattie J.T. Stepanek.
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Registered: November 05, 2004
Posts: 6054
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Try to be yourself. First impressions mean a lot. But at the same time, try to keep cool. It doesn't help to stutter. Believe me, I've had that problem many a time. The best way not to embarass yourself when asking someone out is to graciously bow out if you're denied. If you go up and say, "Would you like to do [whatever]..." and get told some form of no, just say, "Okay, cool. Maybe some other time," and hopefully it will all be over. Just be casual and in control of yourself. Confidence helps a lot.
The more you know, the less you don't know.
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