It's not premarital sex if you don't plan on getting married.

i do it. but it gets you attached so be careful. if you cant handle it, dont do it.

Moved here at last.

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married 3 years ago, no sex more than 2 years,we have a 1years old baby,and my wife does not like it any more,but its very important thing for me, so does any one know what should i do?

I just wanted to add to Ikkis advice here. Some women find it hard to lose the baby fat after having a child, so they no longer feel attractive. Therefore it's natural that she'd want to avoid having sex. Make her feel attractive and that you still love her the way she is. But don't pressure her, just let her know you still find her sexy.

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married 3 years ago, no sex more than 2 years,we have a 1years old baby,and my wife does not like it any more,but its very important thing for me, so does any one know what should i do?

Go to a couple's therapist, and if she refuses to go, go alone.*
Have her go to her gynocologist/Doctor to make sure everything is okay.*
Don't insist anything upon her-- babies can make a person tired, so maybe just talk about how you can help around the house and how she's feeling.

*Based on the advice of various advice columns.

married 3 years ago, no sex more than 2 years,we have a 1years old baby,and my wife does not like it any more,but its very important thing for me, so does any one know what should i do?



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Originally posted by pinkycuscidaro:
i think that people should not have unless their married. its just where i place my morals. and it shows that your life partener will stay by you if u get pregnant (i know alot of single moms. no offense ment to guys) and have a child.

what do you think about me i ve got married 3 years ago ,we've got a baby after a year,since then,we haven't had sex at all,as my wife doesn't like it any more,but i am still young,should i keep going as a good man and let life goes like that, or....

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I am a christian and I know how it will ruin peoples lives and I don't want anyone to be hurt.

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ok I often wonder how do you "know" anything about sex?

I have been having sex for years, it hasn't once ruined my life, in fact it makes my life all that much more worth living. I love to share intimacy with others, others I care deeply about. Others who yes may leave my life, but I will always have everlasting memories of them and the things we shared. Is that your idea of ruining my life?

I don't know what college you are going to, but for most it is an amazing giant party!! I often attend parties with friends, some themes include "dress to get laid" and some even better names. Alot of drinking, sex, drugs and people having fun like they never will again. This is waht I see, you may not. I know people who go to college and don't party, they want to and need to focus. What you see is up to you, but make sure what you see is what you want, this is your only chance to see it.

This is one of the best topics on sex that I've seen on these boards. I'm a Christian and all for abstinence. I mean, even if I wasn't a Christian, it's too risky to have sex without being married.

i think that people should not have unless their married. its just where i place my morals. and it shows that your life partener will stay by you if u get pregnant (i know alot of single moms. no offense ment to guys) and have a child.

I am a christian and I know how it will ruin peoples lives and I don't want anyone to be hurt. I just want to see what other people think, is that a problem?? I really want to see what I am gonna be getting into in college. I am homeschooled so I don't know what it is like to be 'out in the world'. So but your fat head out.

not to diss your topic, but this topic is a wee bit overdone. their are millions of topics about virginity, having sex before marriage, abstinence, sex, sex, sex, sex. It was a great topic a few years ago. now it's really getting old.

please, people, i don't want to be mean, but i'm getting tired of people creating new topics when their are fifty boards already made with the same topic.

Why can't you do a simple search, type in the word sex, and then post your opinion or read the opinions of others on THOSE boards instead of creating your own. i know that i always check to make sure a board i start isn't already been discussed by someone else.

please. i'm thinking about leaving youthnoise. i already don't come as often as i used to and the reason is because their is really nothing left to talk about that hasn't been talked about before.

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but i realise that it is inevitable in a society where rude and vulgar things play on the radio and tv. One thing is for sure, until we clean up the quality of our entertainment, we won't be able to stop teens from having sex and spreading who knows how many kinds of STD's to others.

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Nice to see you have an opinion Adolf, now what makes you think the rest of the world revolves around you? I don't think there is anything wrong with TV, and if TV influences you to do things...then you have other issues to deal with.

i'm not one to say what you can and can't do with your body. do whatever you want, just play safe.

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you will regret it.

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I thought that you were a virgin, so how are you telling other people that they'll regret something that you yourself haven't even experienced?

sex rox!!!!!!

Sex is sex. Teenagers are going to experiment. It's not that bad, as long as it's safe.

-Mary-

who thought it was wrong in every aspect. Makes me feel better about out society.

Lol. we always are talking about sex. I am too tired to write my rant about why it is wrong. lol. All I can say is I am a christian, and I am for abstinence all the way. Be smart you guys, think about it, is it really worth it? Forget about all the crap that people tell you that says it is okay, you will regret it. I was reading something where it said that about 79% of the teen girls regret having premarital sex. Unless you are bad at math, that is really high!!!! Think about it peoples.!!!

Yeah, I agree with all that, I just want to see what other people think about it.

And all you who read this I really would appreciate it if you would reply with even a two sentence idea.

I would also appreciate it if yall would rate this.

Thanks