Question:
If u like someone a lot, and he/she just doesn't like u back, how far would u go to try to get this person to go out with you? and once u guys did go out, what would u do to impress him/her?

Choices:
Do anything it takes even if i have to show him/her my love by jumping off a bridge
try a few times, and if it's still no, then forget him/her
don't do anything

 

Try to make the experience of being together fun. Don't be into yourself so much, and so nervous about what to say, that it makes you too shy to have a fun or reasonable discussion.

Caring makes others care about you.

is there anyone here besides me who finds it hard to be yourself? i feel like i'm trying to mold myself to fit what i think other people want. it's kinda depressing to think about, but i try to fight it as much as i can.

about guys, i've had tons of crushes where it just didn't work, because maybe i wasn't in the right "social circle" or something. those people just aren't worth your time, and i try to find people who don't care about shallow stuff, though it can be hard. usually the latter don't need to be impressed, which is just fine with me.

Peace!
~Cb526

Trying to impress people is a mistake. Whenever I tried to do that it just damaged my self-esteem. Beee yourself…
Hehehe just reminded me of something… one of my friends has quite a few guys liking her at the moment. Another of my friends liked one of the guys who likes this friend (following me so far?) she was like 'how can I compete?' to a boy mate of ours (who also happens to like this girl) and he said 'oh, you could easily compete…'
Good! she thought. A compliment!
'…you just have to be more like her!'

Sometimes you just can't win.

Bex

I agree...just be yourself. Ive had a lot of boy friends because unlike tons of girls, i act real, not fake. Just sorta pretend like their your best gal pal, and talk away! Guys love when your in there face, and your not scared to be agressive. Dont sit back and watch, go into the game!
***Much Love***

you dont have to ry to impress the person you like.. just be yourself and try to actually become friends with the person, that is the best way to get to know them and it will be less awkward when you make a move to a deeper relationship.

All I know is, I would never try to fake someone out to impress them. If somebody dosen't like me the way I am already, I don't think they're worth my time...right?

Flattery is the best form of flirting. Oh yes.

Me, I like to run around naked on football fields yelling at the top of my lungs "I love _____". If that's not the best way to say "I'm a gutsy girl", then well, I don't know what is!

well i would try to impress him by trying 2 talk 2 him about some interest that we both share, or even learn about someting he really likes.
i would try and flirt with him, and even try to get 2gteher with him outside of school. but if things dont really work, and i find out that he dosent like me, i decide that he's not worth my time. but i will still remain friends with him, because though i might of given up on him, i havent given up on the idea that maybe he will beging 2 feel the same way, and i am open to going back 2 how i used 2 feel about him