Ok, so from what I've heard by most teens about the topic of "sex" and what is sex or what counts as having sex, many teens believe that oral sex is not actually sex. Many people have very different opinions on this topic, but I recently found it odd how opinions differ so much from our parents generation to our own. Oral sex has become so common in teen relationships, that many people don't even consider it to be bad. It's almost scary to think of what our kids will think about sex. What do u guys think about this whole issue?

Oral sex is one of the worst decisions you can make. It is also one of the least enjoyable and most dangerous sexual acts a person can engage in:

1. Only one person gets pleasure from it.
2. You can still get an STD from it.
3. You do still engage in pre-martial sex, which is very much an evil thing to do. I'm not mincing words here, its wrong to toy around with the creation of life or something that normally occurs in marriage like that.
4. Its a perversion of real sex, and in general is repulsive.

I could go on and on, but really I see absolutely no reason why anyone would want to have oral sex. Its a clearly a perverted practice, its very one-sided when it occurs (normally its just the male that get oral sex), and you can get in serious trouble with not just your parents and religion (if you have one) but in some cases the law. Having oral sex is wrong and potentially dangerous to people, and it should be avoided. I don't care how relaxed people's attitudes towards sex get, some things are better left alone, or you will regret them.

Oral sex is definitely sex, no matter what you call it. I mean, even when you kiss somebody, you're giving away a part of yourself, so how much do do you think you give away when you have oral sex or intercourse?

Nothing is wrong w/ thinking that, my whole point was that although, I think it is okay my mom and most of her generation totally disagrees. The way society views oral sex and sex in general is becoming much more laid back w/ every generation. Or it seems to me that it is.

What's so wrong with thinking oral sex is okay?


Love, Jenny