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Picture of SpazmicTwitch
Registered: July 25, 2004
Posts: 45
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I use to cut all the time, and now I'm about to start again.I've got a razor and I have already made one small cut. I know it's bad, but right now it seems alot better then how things are going right now. Can someone please just help me!? I'm so...ahh! I'm afriad that if Icut anymore I might go too far...

Please can someone help me?
Picture of x0xbabygerlx0x
Registered: February 15, 2004
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ive been a cutter in the past ive wanted to lately cut......ive also been erasen stuff ive been tryn ta say 4 the past 10 min...so i guess i really dont kno what to say but just think on that 1 day your gonna be able to start a new life i dunt kno how old you are im sure ya not 18 neither am i so i may not be the best person ta say anythin but when ya 18 you can leave you can start a new life and you can think of that that your gonna be happy 1 day your not gonna be like this all your life....i may erase this 2 or not i dont kno but im just tryn ta fnd the right way ta put or maybe a way not to cut yourslef....idunno maybe this was just a stupid thing to put i dont no but life isnt worth killing your self there to much to see and do if i could id travel the world and go to every place you could imagine but...i guess im gonna wind down even tho im just babbling but think of the 1 thing you love to do and do it dont waste time just do it if theres something you like to do at home do it everytime you wanna cut your self myabe itll help you its helped me threw some rough times and probly many more to go but just try and if it doesnt work i kno it may sound weird to every1 who reads this even to you but maybe you need to pray and ask god 4 help....maybe thats what eveyr1 should do with there problems i dont kno and im sure im def not the right person to say it but maybe just if you try somethin will happen...


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Picture of megsaidso
Registered: July 25, 2003
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I think it is really important that you talk to your parents about it, or a school counselor. They can get you help. You have a bad habit that probably isn't your fault but you can get rid of it with some extra help. For now please try to do something else instead of cutting, like every time you get the urge to do it write down 3 positive things that have happened to you, or something you would like to happen...start writing a journal.
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Registered: June 23, 2004
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cutting as i'm sure you are aware, is an awful habbit. i personally don't think you should pierce yourself as someone said, because it is still self mutilation. whoever said that nasty comment about people starving and you feeling not loved really is ignorant. apparently they don't understand. i've been there myself, but it's not worth it. it doesn't solve the problems. find someone you can talk to. i think writing the letters was a wonderful idea and it might be a good idea to try that.


.Rachel.
Picture of blinkatheworld
Registered: July 07, 2003
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Talk...write letters to yourself or to the people/things you're angry at (you don't necessarily have to send them)

Get a hobby...find something that makes you happy. Soon enough the cutting will go away, youll realize its not worth it.

What you need are better coping mechanisms. Finding those is up to you and on what is making you cut.

hope this helps.
Registered: August 12, 2004
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ok my advice
1. keep EVERYTHING sharp away from u
2.buy tha Grand Theft Auto video game shootin ppl in video games is healing and gets out anger
Picture of YNmoderator
Registered: August 04, 2003
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It is very brave to admit you need help.

If you (or someone you know) have been cutting or hurting yourself, call the Self-Abuse Finally Ends (S.A.F.E.) Alternatives Program Information Line at 1-800-DONT-CUT (800-366-8288). For more information:

www.selfinjury.com

www.coolnurse.com/self-injury.htm

If you have been thinking about suicide, call 1-800-SUICIDE or 1-800-564-2120.

And remember, if you ever need immediate help, call 911.

Learning to Cope With Self-Injury
Picture of CelticNewAger
Registered: December 11, 2003
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pierce yourself a lot....... it worked for me
Picture of depressedwavemaster
Registered: June 09, 2003
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Oh. I'm sorry. (cough) You think that's real pain? Ha! One little cut and the next thing you say is "pity me! pity me!" Shut up. You're not woth my pity, you're not even worth these words I waste on you, except for the fact that I need to yell at someone, and you are that one. You remind me too much of a younger me, a me, oh six years ago. What a sad day that was when I started self-injury. Know why I did it? It was to hurt people. Yep. That's right. But guess what? You're hurting no one. And as far as I'd care to know, you'd be hurting no one if you killed yourself. Remember, up the arm, not accross, slit the vein, not cross it.
Picture of bunni88
Registered: July 21, 2004
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quote:
your life is not that bad, people are dying of hunger and you cut your wrists because you dont feel loved? sorry, but youre not special.


You're an ignorant *******. **** off.
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Registered: December 13, 2003
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your life is not that bad, people are dying of hunger and you cut your wrists because you dont feel loved? sorry, but youre not special.
Picture of sleeprocker
Registered: July 30, 2004
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I don't really have any good advice except for what I did. I used to cut, too, and I stopped eating and would sit around and do nothing. I started writing, and playing guitar a lot, and I've felt better.

But that wasn't really the end of everything.

See, I kept getting little urges to cut - I started thinking I was just sick and should just go and die anyway, but for some reason I couldn't bring myself to cut anymore. Instead I talked to people. I talked to my best friend, some other close friends, the school psychologist, the social worker, and eventually my parents, and I got set up with a therapist and it really helps.

I don't know if you'd really want to see a therapist, but you don't have to to get a lot of the same results - just talk to people; reach out as much as possible, and talk to anyone you trust (even if it's someone you meet online that cares) because as long as you keep talking, it's possible to shed most of the need for cutting.

I wish I could be of more help... You could IM me if you want to, or if you have AIM.

~M~
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Registered: June 15, 2004
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cutting, as you've probably been told, is a way to forget emotional pain by masking it w/ phsical pain. but there are other ways to channel your energy. write poems or songs or stories. go jogging or play sports, help animals or paint pictures. there are better ways to deal with things
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Registered: July 21, 2004
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You have to help yourself. You have to stop for yourself, and no one else.

Call somebody, and talk. You need something to distract you.

Get help. Please. I've been down that road one too many times. It's not worth it.
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Registered: January 15, 2003
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Go to a therapist.

No one can stop you over the internet.
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