Why are guys all sef-centered jerks? seriously i know that is a stereotype, and i used to give guys the benefit of the doubt and came to my own conclusion that guys can be good and that not all of them are selfish....until last night...it took one selfish guy to show me that all guys can seem really nice but be all about themsleves, they dont care about anyone else, no matter how nice they seem they have alterior motives.
Jookly, every reply i've heard from you was really rude and "i'm holier than thou"ish . I don't get it!
And malibubarbie, not all guys are self-centered jerks. just %90 of them. I know, someone will quote me on that and say "How'd you get that number...huh, huh?!"
hey i speak for us guys when i say we can be jerks and i know i can be a b but you cant give up on us at least this soon in your life cuz you could be missing out on a lot
Guys are douches, that's okay. I would make some stupid crack about being lesbian, but that's not really the point. It's a phase they go through - most make it out and are quite awesome people, but there's always a few idiots left.
Not all guys are jerks. Just 75% of them. Most guys are just egotistic or just too plain stupid to understand that girls actually listen to half the things they say and actually judge them by their personality. Guys just need to pay attention to their actions.
The man who smiles when things go wrong has thought of someone to blame it on. - Robert Bloch
Yeah guys can be real jerks sometimes but you also have a lot of nice guys too. So I guess their just really different from each other. Last year my Ex-boyfriend told me he was 16 years old when I was only 14 and so that was totally fine with my parents, but then I found out that he was 19 (he just looked younger than his age) I totally got all pissed off at him. SO YEAH I DO UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU'RE COMING FROM, their are some true jerks out their.
quote:Originally posted by MalibuBarbie6088: Why are guys all sef-centered jerks? seriously i know that is a stereotype, and i used to give guys the benefit of the doubt and came to my own conclusion that guys can be good and that not all of them are selfish....until last night...it took one selfish guy to show me that all guys can seem really nice but be all about themsleves, they dont care about anyone else, no matter how nice they seem they have alterior motives.
I agree and disagree. Boys totally suck. I was like you, giving them a chance to prove themselves. But in the end, no matter how deep down it is, the jack*** jerk side comes out. However, we girls are also b*tchy, so I guess it evens out. But yes. Guys do suck, and if you ever find out why, please post. I'd like to know.
Oh, and no. Take a look at the economy, babe. Bush is NOT the way to go. But lucky for us, hope is on the way. KERRY/EDWARDS: A stronger America.
~*the only thing that matters is just following your heart, and eventually you'll finally get it right~* -The Ataris
I am a guy and I suck. I wouldn't call myself self-centered though. At times I can be but doesn't everyone. That is sort of human nature. And I understand only to an extent and some guys are royal jerks but hey...you're bound to meet a few. Muah dear.
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an' kharybdis get a freakin life before ya hurt yerself.
-Some call me a wandering soul. Some call me a traveler without a purpose or destination. Some call me diffrent, resevered, maybe even dangerous. What I truly am is what you'll have to find out for yourself.
some are idiots. some are sweet. some are badass punks. some are jerks. some are *******s. some are tough. some are stupid. some are nice. some are mean. some are dumb. some are cool. an' some are fake. the list goes on an' on.
-Some call me a wandering soul. Some call me a traveler without a purpose or destination. Some call me diffrent, resevered, maybe even dangerous. What I truly am is what you'll have to find out for yourself.
im a guy. and i do agree with you that most guys are ***** and are just egotistic or self-centered. but there are the few that actually care. and even they, at some times may seem like a typical guy, but you know their real intentions. there are those few genuine guys out there, and you shouldn't brush them off like you would a typical guy. thats all i have to say.
quote:Originally posted by Tabb: I have to say that all guys aren't self centerned. Yes you're going to run into some freaks that only one thing. You're going to run into some jerks that say they love you, but are freaks at heart. But then when you feel like giving up on guys, you meet a guy that steps outside you're definition of what a guy should be because he's everything that you ever wanted and dreamed of. Don't stop looking because he'll be wroth the wait.
Kindness is a voice that the deaf can hear. -Blessings
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Last year my Ex-boyfriend told me he was 16 years old when I was only 14 and so that was totally fine with my parents, but then I found out that he was 19 (he just looked younger than his age) I totally got all pissed off at him. SO YEAH I DO UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU'RE COMING FROM, their are some true jerks out their. 
