What do you find attractive in a girl/guy? Do u like someone with certain features, personality or both?


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Hmm...I like a guy who is shy, because I'm not. I also like a guy to stick for me, though, when It needs to be done. I don't like body possesion. i.e. "this is mine" ect... Um, physical features? Doesn't really matter as long as they atleast try to take care of themselves or are health conciouss. Black, spiky hair does it for me.

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he finds out I'm using her

LOL, which is it celtic? sorry I just found that really funny.

My god Jamaica, I really hope that you have sex one day.

"is SEX all that matters to you??? Gosh, i bet that is why many young girls get pregnant these days coz all they think about in a relationship is sex"

Is that the only thing you can think of when someone starts talking about a relationship, sex? And you think we're the perverted ones? Especially me? Who was being professional about it?

I'll have you all know, because this isn't directed at anyone in particular because I realized my wording was not expansive enough for some people, that I was implying the differences of what one gender looks for in a spouse/life partner/lover/mate/wife/husband/needanymore?

I'd like a guy with an accent.

Yes, peircings are hot, as long as there aren't TOO many.

I like a man who is tall, with long dark hair, a lean body, and has peircings. I don't know why but peircings are freakin' hot.

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really??? that is kind of... dirty or something.... Me, if i have a bf, i would like him to call me sweetie.. hehehe.. I know it sounds corny or something but i think it is sweet.

It was a joke..... if I start calling a guy "my b.itch"... well, I don't date a guy if I hate him that much. In any case, I usualy call them "hun" or "baby".

I just hate food names..... "Muffin", "Pumpkin"

And now I'll go.... my friend will kill me if he finds out I'm using her PC.

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That don't sound corny at all. That's what I want to. A guy that will love me for me. I like intellegent men with a boyish charm. A guy that will take care of when I'm sick, send me flowers when we argue over the little things. Oh how I dream!

yes, i so totally agree!! LOL... and yeah, personally, it doesn't seem corny at all, but i have heard some people said it is.... And yes, i also love to have a guy who'll take care of me when I'm sick and to hug me and other cuddly stuff.

I hate pet names. I want to be called by my name, or a shortened version of my name. I don't know why, but I've never been fond of pet names.

A random hun is fine, but other than that...

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i would like him to call me sweetie.. hehehe.. I know it sounds corny or something but i think it is sweet.

That don't sound corny at all. That's what I want to. A guy that will love me for me. I like intellegent men with a boyish charm. A guy that will take care of when I'm sick, send me flowers when we argue over the little things. Oh how I dream!

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I like guys that will let me call them "my b.itch"

really??? that is kind of... dirty or something.... Me, if i have a bf, i would like him to call me sweetie.. hehehe.. I know it sounds corny or something but i think it is sweet.

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Oooo.... this could turn into a pretty hot debate if I were to post the psychological mating patterns.

is SEX all that matters to you??? Gosh, i bet that is why many young girls get pregnant these days coz all they think about in a relationship is sex.

I like guys that will let me call them "my b.itch"

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AND I KNOW THIS MIGHT SOUND WEIRD BUT I LIKE A GUY WHO IS COCKY.

Don't worry you're not the only one. I kinda like those guys too.

Looks are nice, but if they can put up with you and let you vent and you're able to be yourself around them, than that is a good catch.

Hmmm....
Dark-haired.... I'm not into blonds.
Can't be shorter than me... he'd be a midget, then.
Must be intelligent
Must have goals
Thinks for himself and needs no one else to shape his views/opinions/decisions
Similar interests, of course.

I HAVE TO ADMIT LOOKS DO MATTER....
I LIKE A GUY WITH SEXY EYES
A GUY WHO IS IN SHAPE ... ABS TURN ME ON
SOMEONE WHO CAN EXPRESS THEIR FEELINGS
AND I KNOW THIS MIGHT SOUND WEIRD BUT I LIKE A GUY WHO IS COCKY.

i'm gonna admit that if a guy is the most hideous man i've ever seen i would definitely not consider him. But then again, looks are not everything. What i like in a guy is someone who adores me and someone i can trust.We have to be able to make good convo as well. I hate it when i'm talking to a guy and like every 5 minutes theres an awkward silence. we HAVE to be able to talk on and on because thats when i'll know he has real good potential. Also i hope he can make me laugh 'cause i luvv to laugh.