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I dont hate others. I hate the evil ways that they are doing. And no, I am not going to end up hating everyone. I just want to make this world a better place by telling people to lessen their bad ways and bad habits.

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You can tell them, doesn't mean they'll follow you. That's something you'll learn eventually and then realize I am right but likely won't admit it.

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First of all, I was not talking to you. Second, you are not American. Third, it's not liberated, it's LIBERAL, they have different meanings.

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Yes, i know YOU'RE not talking to ME. I was just making a comment on your post.

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Really, if you don't stop hating and judging people because they like something different from you, you are going to end up hating everyone because no one will have your exact views on everything.

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I dont hate others. I hate the evil ways that they are doing. And no, I am not going to end up hating everyone. I just want to make this world a better place by telling people to lessen their bad ways and bad habits.

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it is BETTER to be conservative than be liberated. Liberated people are like people who just run around with no principles at all, and even if they have, they dont stick to it. They easily get influenced too.... well, im just saying anyway.......

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First of all, I was not talking to you. Second, you are not American. Third, it's not liberated, it's LIBERAL, they have different meanings.

Fourth, I am liberal. Yet no one sways my views. If I believe something, no one's changing it, therefore, I am not easily influenced. I am me, and whomever does not like it can just shut up because I frankly don't care unless I respect them. Fifth, we have principals, they're just realistic and different than yours.

Really, if you don't stop hating and judging people because they like something different from you, you are going to end up hating everyone because no one will have your exact views on everything.

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So am I

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That is really nice, geraldine!!

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Geez, Americans are so..... conservative.

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it is BETTER to be conservative than be liberated. Liberated people are like people who just run around with no principles at all, and even if they have, they dont stick to it. They easily get influenced too.... well, im just saying anyway.......

Geez, Americans are so..... conservative.

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I am committed whole heartedly to staying abstinent until marriage.

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ME TOO!

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So am I

I agree with the whole staying a virgin until married, but i really don't think that i will actually live up to it. I mean, if i get married in high school i might be able to but if i don't get married before college i probably will not, not to say that i am proud of that, i am proud of my virginity.

I think that this game you're describing is utterly and completely terrible. We women, no matter what anyone says, are still taken advantage of today which is totally wrong. I am with you because I too want to stay abstinent until marraige, and I think this game stuff is just disgusting. Most men (not all) think they can do whatever they want to women, and its terrible. What gives them any right to do those things? Nothing. Absolutley nothing.



x0x0 Emily

Well honestly being a guy, i think sex is good. Not just for the pleasure but expressing your love in such a good way. But i do addmit boys look at things differently. I think Boys look at the body in a girl than thier personality. The girl im with, she has both and if she wanted to break her virginaty than that would be OK with me. I mean, not being a virgin doesnt mean your a **** or something

I have the realistic mission of only having sex with those whom I love.

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I saw the most amazing thing the other day. I was watching a band perform and the guy had a shirt that read "VIRGIN UNTIL MARRIED" on it. I thought it was amazing

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I am amazed too. I think boys should abstain too, not just girls. I sure dont want to have sex with some guy who has already had about 15 sexual partners past and present. That is like... ewww..... Not only is it dangerous, but it is degrading as well.

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I am committed whole heartedly to staying abstinent until marriage.

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ME TOO!

Yeah, that's pretty cool. It's a brotherhood thing

I saw the most amazing thing the other day. I was watching a band perform and the guy had a shirt that read "VIRGIN UNTIL MARRIED" on it. I thought it was amazing just because most guys aren't that open with their virginity. I'm not here to judge whether someone is wrong or right with their sexual choices. I'll just say that I would hate to be the guy who tries to take virgins. I know how much it means to most girls. How the boy could live with the guilt of taking something away that means so much to someone I don't understand. If the girl gives it up though, whatever. It was their choice.

i dont think virginity really matters because everyone is going to have sex in their life and if a girl is ready to have sex, then she shouldnt care about her virginity.

wow!

Let me tell you that while, yes, you will be the one and only person to take her virginity, it really sucks as a position to be in. Being first isn't worth it. If it's a one night stand and that all it's supposed to be, that's different. The burden of being *the one* for tat girl is more than anyone should be required to carry.

Not every guy is always stuck on the sex thing. Sometimes it seems that way, but if you were to look harder and get to know some of them, you'd realize that. There are alot of freaks out there, I've lived my entire life around them but shouldn't you be able to distinguish the good from the bad?

I really don't know why any guy or girl would wanna have sex now. I personally don't like the idea of being a father at the age of 14 or 15.

actualy we love them and that's why we get so annoyed. We've gone through our whole life thinking that we were going to find "prince charming" who was going to sweep us off our feet and we would live happily ever after. When we finaly realize that very few guys are prince charming, it makes us mad. It's realy hard to find a guy that's sweet and caring (especialy in high school) but they ARE out there (look at the post below mine, he's a true sweet guy. do you have a girlfriend? JK) and the jerks usualy do grow up to be nice guys, it's kind of a high school phase.
cheers
KC

Hey I have never taken a girl's virginity. I wouldn't want to. If it didn't work out between us i'd feel bad for taking it, besides that sex is for marriage. I hope maybe you will all find out someday not all guys think about sex.

DrakaiPrince