most guys r really stupid, all they think about is sex. in my whole life i have only come accross about 6 nice guys who arent always thinking or talking about it. i dont know why they feel so cool when a virgin loses their virginity to them. that just goes to show that most guys have sex stuck in their head 24/7.

You just have to find the rare gems of men in the world who do not treat virgins as conquests. Until you do (and trust me, you will, as I have.... ) you will not have any luck with these a$$h0les who love being a woman's first.

Some men are just ignorant...we can't hate on them because they weren't taught to respect women when they were younger...Sex isn't really that big of a deal to me, but I never was one to "save myself". I was one of the girls who just wanted to get it over with. I'm not a whore or anything, but I enjoy sex and a lot of girls like me, are smart enough to tell the difference between a guy looking for a one night stand and a guy who actually likes you. It all depends on the female...

I agree, I think it's pathetic for guys to do this. I think it's one of those universal guy things, and there isn't much we can do to make them stop it. When I was a freshman and dating a senior, I wouldn't have sex with him. That didn't stop him from telling everyone that we had sex, however. I don't know why guys get this great status because they have sex with many girls, or atleast say they do. I think that their willingness to have sex with anything in a skirt goes back to how we are raised. When I was growing up, I was taught to respect my body and I was repeatedly told the millions of reasons why I should not have sex. I'm 18 and I've only ever had sex with one person, my boyfriend of almost a year, and he is the only person I ever plan to have sex with. Many of the guys I know and have discussed this with were never taught to respect their bodies and to respect women. I think it's sad that they don't respect themselves or their sex partners enough to practice safer sexual habits.

I think that those guys are sick pr!x! We have "them around here too in Kc,MO. But the only thing I've ever got out of a guy like that when I asked him the same question was that it was a challenge. It's too bad that a lot of girls fall for their cheap lines. Now I'm not blaming the girls , but I've seen that situation happen to a lot of old friends. I'm glad to say I've never slept with anyone and don't plan to until I'm married. There is nothing you can do to stop this "game" really. I see little middleschoolers (about 6th grade) running around calling themselves "pimps". Now that is sick and they're learning that from older men/boys. Too bad because they are just going to grow up and disrespect women most likely for the rest of their lives. It's really sad.