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Picture of hollaifuaballa
Registered: August 30, 2002
Posts: 69
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Well here it goes...I am 3 months pregnant and i just recieved a phone call from my childs father telling me he knew the baby wasnt his and i was nothin but a b*tch and stuff so.I was in a bad mood that was about noon when he called. When i proceeded to get ready for work and it was about 3:30 when i was on my way out the door when my younger sister started talkn stuff. Like i was a good for nothin h*e and she was gonna tell my babies dad i was nothin but a h*e and stuff so i yelled at her and she was like yell in my face again so i did. Then she came over and threw a punch but missed so i threw 1 back and hit her in the head because she dunked down. Well i was like i am leaven i am goona be late for work so i get outside and my car had snow and ice all over it so i started wipen it off then i got in to start it. Well her boyfriend that lives with us who is 10 years older than her! Came out to my care pounded on my window opened my door up dragged me out my care and started pushn me around,spittn in my face and calln me a w*ore. It is now 2 days later and i havent felt my baby move and me and her are not on speaking terms because she picked him over me. What a i supposed to do? Please help... confused
Registered: January 30, 2002
Posts: 680
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Well I would go see a doctor because it is always better to be safe than sorry especially when you are pregnant. Now as for the guy knockin you around tell him he can come see me any time and take some of that frustration out on a man not a woman! Now again where are your parents? If they are there then you need to inform them about this because if you dont then you are opening up your self for a lot of hurt by that jerk. Now as for you being a bad person for getting pregnant thats stupid. You are not a bad person you just made a bad choice that is life altering. I know you are upset about the guy that got you pregnant talkin trash but ask yourself this are you any of the things he said? Probley not so dont sweat it. Your life will go on and peole talk trash no matter what so forget about all that junk! You need to focus on whats important for you and that childs future not a foolish sister and her dumb boyfriend. Or even your ever so loving boy friend. Move on and focus on that child that is what you need to do. Tell me how things go and I will check up on you. big grin
Picture of jayb87a
Registered: July 13, 2002
Posts: 490
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Damn, I have no advice for you because I've never been in your situation. Where are your parents? Don't they care? Your family should love you no matter what. They need a big reality check.
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