I find it sad that it's always the wrong people that get pregnant. People should be more cautious and responsible. Personally, although being not quite fifteen, I've desperately wanted a child for the past year and a half. Weird, yes. And stranger yet, I write notes to my not-yet-concieved child on a daily basis. I almost /want/ to be raped and get pregnant. Yeah, I probably have some sort of sick mental thing going on. Oh well.
And then there's those people who could care less about kids, getting pregnant left and right. It's sick.
I am seventeen and have been sexually active since I was fifteen. I have never been one for condoms but I have been on the pill for almost two years. I know a lot of teenage mums and believe me it doesn't have to ruin your life. I do not have children but if I did get pregnant I would not be worried because I know I could handle it with the support of my family. How can bringing a new life into this world be a bad thing it's just the timing that can be a bit off.
I truly don't feel sorry for teenagers who get pregnant. I really don't. With all the information that is out there about safe sex and abstinence and STDs it shouldn't happen. Of coure there will be a few accidents but this is getting outrageous... And well if you have nothing better to do than to have sex with a guy who's probably gonna dump you once you get pregnat then well it's your own fault and there's really nothing myself or anyone can do about that...
I thought this story was kind of funny personally... I Figured I'd share it with you.
When my mom went to school there was this black chik who got pregnant and when she went to her mom to tell her and ask her for help her mom said... "I'm sorry but I wasn't there when you spreaded your legs so I'm not gonna be there now."
in the 6th grade my sunday school class was told to read a flyer headed "Cartholics do not use condoms." Thankfully my teacher relized we were at an impressionable age and telling us something like that would not be safe. instead she simply stated "our religion tells us that sex before marriage is a sin. and any form of birth control is a sin as well. but when thease rules were written things like stds did not exsisted as they do today." she offered to talk to any of further if we had questions. i am now almost 19 at 11 years old i barely knew what sex was but trusted my church. preaching abstince is one thing but preaching unsafe sex is wrong. bottom line wait till you are ready and use a condom
I understand taking care of an toddler is tough.I care for my 14 month old nepfew,Isaiah. His mother is in korea because she's in the army,and he lives with me now.I love him but he's always energetic or hungry or sleepy.I am 14 and he's like my son.When it's all over and done, it pays to see him smile.
akzaman@gmail.com Teen should know more about sexual education before doing such lost job. And be sure that your partner take care about ur health before doing something. Emotion could make a great problem and you may fall in big trouble. So be alart now.
Well alot of teens are not comfortable talking to there parents about the subject of sex, so they are most of the ones that this is happening to. Some reasons for then not being comfortable is there parent over reacting and this is for most.
My cousin is 13 and pregant...shes keeping the baby. I don't think its right at all. But im supporting her. I wouldn't keep the baby. Adoption would be good for yourslef and the babe. My parents think its wrong, that how could someone so young even think about doing that, but i dont think they understand that she thought she was totally ready and thought she was too young to have a baby so she didnt use a condom
Respect your body and don't have um protected sex.
[QUOTE]Originally posted by krissy11: ok just cause a person may choose to have sex before they are married does not mean they will lose any respect aslong as they respect there selves and be responsilble when they are in the act of sex.QUOTE]
quote:Originally posted by briznand: Not everyone has a choice what about teenagers who can not even say no or i am not ready to yet who just have that choice taken away from them, so before you make a general statement think about it before you type .
Maybe if parents talk about the subject of sex and what are the outcomes before hand in a way that relates to the teenager not in the parents view of what happen to them when they where younger, also as a teenager myself this is a suggestion do not use your experience, religion, and your sterotypes to prevent this from happening. To all of the parents out there in the world just sit down a listen.Go to kids outing ,clubs chatting groups and more instead of going through there stuff and it will help. And as for tax payers money by stating hurtingfull things does not stop them from having another.
I have to agree with the whole if you decide to lay down in that bed......then it is your responcibility. Everything in life has consequences, well the consequences of having sex at a young age come around before u kno it
you should not have sex till marrige. Even if you dont believe in christianty. or the bible or have religious views on it...it shouldnt be done. the consequenses are far to vicious.
ok its not ok to have sex if u r not in love.And u need to be married.I think if u get raped its not your fault just keep telling the person no.Then tell an adult.My step mom had a baby at 15 and her step dad said my dad raped her and he went to prisomn for 2 years and my step mom was preganit.Now my dad and step mom have a 4 yearold kid to take care of and there going from job to job trying to raise 5 kids cause my mom is injail so dont have sex and dont have a baby till u r married or old enough to take responsibility.
My biological mother was 15 when she had me, 14 when she had sex. I've never met her. Don't go and have kids if youre just gonna give them up. It's unfair to them and you and you're boyfriend. Don't have sex until you are ready, say no when you need to. When you do have sex, it is a good time to be careful and use protection. I aam only 13, but I can understand people's problems on this beacause it happened to my biological mother. You can be ready for sex sooner or later, but protection is the best thing. And so is self confindence, you need that when you are asked that big question,"Will you have sex with me?" You have to know if it's the rite time and with the rite person. If he doesn't respect that you say no, lose him. He's not worth it. Don't have sex either just cause he wants to and you think he'll like you more. Sex does build up relationships, but not when youre young. Trust me, I know.
Then don't have the baby. Teens shouldn't rush themselves into something that they aren't ready for, physically or emotionally. Life is full of obstacles as it already it. Why make it any harder for yourself?
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