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Registered: June 09, 2005
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But you have to realize that at 15, chances are she couldn't possibly give you the quality of life a child needs. A teenager most likely (though I won't generalize and say this is the case for all teens) won't have the responsibility to care for a child.
But aninvertedlove I didnt give the whole story.. i hate the parents im with.. i wish that my mother would have kept me.. i wouldnt have cared how irresponsible she is because i know she would have been better than the ones i have now..
I love you moer than life. And i mean that.
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Registered: May 25, 2005
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AMF8... ok now what if the girl was on birth control? that certainly dont put her at fault, she was trying to be safe about it... not all teen mothers are idiots..only if they are sleeping around TRYING to get pregnant.. teen mothers have to go through enough with out having people telling them if they have the baby it will ruin their lives.. my friend jessica is 15 and she just had a baby boy.. well shes doing great.. shes a proud parent.. shes doing the best she can, she isnt an idiot.. at least shes trying to give the baby every thing he needs.shes a great mother so dont just stereotype teen parents. it isnt necessarily that they want kids, most teens figure "im the one that got pregnant its my responsibility to take care of my child" it may not be simple, raising a child at all isnt simple, but they made the mistake. look alot of the teen pregnancys that occur were while using condoms or birth control. obviously tho you wouldnt know about that.... seeings how your saying the teens that get pregnant are to f'in stupid to use anything...
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Registered: June 20, 2005
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yeah ok suck ur parents retiremnt funds away on another kid they cant afford because you and your friend were too Fuc*ing stupid to use any contraceptives. If ur condom broke go get plan-B from planned parenthood. BABY WHILE UNDER 20 = BAD MISTAKE Congratz you keep that baby and you most likely ruin both of your lives, and you wanna drag your parents into it. Misery sure does love company. I dont understand why anyone would want kids anyway. The world has enough people, and enough idiots, and chances are if you have given birth to a baby while you are in your early teens you are an idiot and you r baby has inherited your idiot gene making one more idiot for the world. Mayb idiot is too harsh, but certainly careless
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Registered: February 02, 2004
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Tinkerbell, you made a good point. quote:
But you have to realize that at 15, chances are she couldn't possibly give you the quality of life a child needs.
But you're excluding the help that comes from the parents of the mother. "You learn about equality in the classroom but you find out about it in life" - Campus Confidential www.myspace.com/yogore |
Registered: May 25, 2005
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some kids make mistakes sexygurl15... ok so if ur daughter came up to you and told you she was pregnant you would kick her azz? yeah great mom you would be.. if she trusted you enough to tell you and not just go out and abort the baby before you knew.. then she trusts you to be there with whatever decision she comes up with.most kids these days abort the baby and never tell their parents so the parent has NO IDEA what the kids are doing. if my daughter came up 2 me and told me that i would be right there with her no matter what age, kids hormones get to them, even at such young ages.
~*~T*I*N*K*E*R*B*E*L*L~*~
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Registered: May 31, 2005
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quote: Originally posted by forevertears14:
Well.. im not really against it because my mom was only 15 when she had me.. her parents made her give me up for adoption because they didnt think she was responsible enough to keep.. I dont know her but i bet she would have been a great mother.. age shouldnt matter when it comes to having children.. it should be about responsibility..
But you have to realize that at 15, chances are she couldn't possibly give you the quality of life a child needs. A teenager most likely (though I won't generalize and say this is the case for all teens) won't have the responsibility to care for a child.
*-- I don't know what awaits me in this love. I merely take your hand quietly and wish for it to last forever. --*
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Registered: May 13, 2003
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"10 and 11 they need to get they *** kicked.. couldn't be my kids.!!!" - ***ZY quote: Originally posted by Tinkerbell2005:
ok now... kristy33... congrats!!! and congrats to your sister. lol you were talkin about her only being 10... yeah well my friend was 11 and she just had her baby, no one thought she would be able to do it but when the baby got her she did great. she may not have been able to support the baby money wise cuz obviously she was to young to get a job, but shes still a great mommy. and if u and your sister try you can be great moms 2....
ok now all these people look down on teens that are pregnant, i dont see why,i know one girl who is 25 and shes been on birth control since she was 15 and still got prgnant TWICE she now has 2 sets of twins.. she didnt want any kids till she was living in her own place, and had the money for them, well when she found out she was pregnant she thought about abortion cuz it would be right for her kids not to grow up in that enviorment. but then she decided she couldnt take another kids life..people may think its the teens fault for getting pregnant, granted yes we are a lil to young to be having sex.. but if the teen was being safe about it. you cant put then at fault, they wernt trying for a baby but it just happend.
im not telling teens to go out and have kids or what ever but i know what they go through seeing my friend struggle to raise her kids and then seeing my brother and sister in law who just had 2 kids in a year try and give them everything in the world. its not easy being a teen parent at all.
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Registered: May 13, 2003
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"you sound like my mother!!" hahaha quote: Originally posted by AMF8:
Ring Ring....its capitain obvious
most people view teen pregnancies as they realy are, a disaster
Its not a miracle, its not a great moment. Its a wake up call that you have made a mistake that is not just going to go away. If you have a baby when you are not responsible or mature enough to take care of it (ie you dont make a stable paycheck and havent finished puberty, which is most people under 25) you shouldnt be allowed to take care of it. Unfortunately love is not enough to support a baby now, you need cash and a head that is tight on your shoulders. Yes people will support you, but is it right to exploit them because you made a mistake? I think not.
Birth Control
Condom
Plan B
These are some (and not by any means all) of the ways you can avoid ruining your life.
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Registered: May 13, 2003
Posts: 24
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All I can say is " You sould of kept your legs closed." if you knew how to have sex. You knew well enough how to keep your legs closed. You knew the CAUSE & EFFECT!!!
well do the best you can!!
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Registered: June 20, 2005
Posts: 337
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Ring Ring....its capitain obvious most people view teen pregnancies as they realy are, a disaster Its not a miracle, its not a great moment. Its a wake up call that you have made a mistake that is not just going to go away. If you have a baby when you are not responsible or mature enough to take care of it (ie you dont make a stable paycheck and havent finished puberty, which is most people under 25) you shouldnt be allowed to take care of it. Unfortunately love is not enough to support a baby now, you need cash and a head that is tight on your shoulders. Yes people will support you, but is it right to exploit them because you made a mistake? I think not. Birth Control Condom Plan B These are some (and not by any means all) of the ways you can avoid ruining your life.
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Registered: June 23, 2005
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hi im kinda new but if i can lend some advice on the subject... my best friend is 12 and 8 months pregnant she came to me for advice and you wanna know what i told her i said that it was you who got pregnant. and i am sorry that im being harsh but it is the truth but i want you to know one thing if you ever need my help with anything just come to my door it is always open.i think that young mothers need to know that someone is and always will be there for them. kind of like a support group thingy.
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Registered: June 09, 2005
Posts: 75
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Well.. im not really against it because my mom was only 15 when she had me.. her parents made her give me up for adoption because they didnt think she was responsible enough to keep.. I dont know her but i bet she would have been a great mother.. age shouldnt matter when it comes to having children.. it should be about responsibility..
I love you moer than life. And i mean that.
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Registered: June 16, 2005
Posts: 9
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Tracie i totally agree with you!
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Registered: June 16, 2005
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right now i am 6 months pregnant and i have a sister with 2 kids ( girl:3 years boy:6 years ) she had them when she was younger.. a teen and she is now 20 and now im like her cause im not just going too have one im going too have 3! Cause im having triplets! Thats what the doctor told me anyways i dont think that its good that all these teens are having unprotected sex.
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Registered: May 25, 2005
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ok now... kristy33... congrats!!! and congrats to your sister. lol you were talkin about her only being 10... yeah well my friend was 11 and she just had her baby, no one thought she would be able to do it but when the baby got her she did great. she may not have been able to support the baby money wise cuz obviously she was to young to get a job, but shes still a great mommy. and if u and your sister try you can be great moms 2.... ok now all these people look down on teens that are pregnant, i dont see why,i know one girl who is 25 and shes been on birth control since she was 15 and still got prgnant TWICE she now has 2 sets of twins.. she didnt want any kids till she was living in her own place, and had the money for them, well when she found out she was pregnant she thought about abortion cuz it would be right for her kids not to grow up in that enviorment. but then she decided she couldnt take another kids life..people may think its the teens fault for getting pregnant, granted yes we are a lil to young to be having sex.. but if the teen was being safe about it. you cant put then at fault, they wernt trying for a baby but it just happend. im not telling teens to go out and have kids or what ever but i know what they go through seeing my friend struggle to raise her kids and then seeing my brother and sister in law who just had 2 kids in a year try and give them everything in the world. its not easy being a teen parent at all.
~*~T*I*N*K*E*R*B*E*L*L~*~
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Registered: June 16, 2005
Posts: 9
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Look people i have a little sister and she is 10!! And she had a big crush on this boy her age in her class and she is in 4th grade! And Denny ( the crush ) had sex with her that one night he slep over and she is PREGNANT! And she is NOT A TENNAGER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Tell me that she is going too have her baby like in a week! And she did not get a abortion and she is too young!!! But you know that all girls have too have their period and my sister does!Just saying its weird cause she is only 10!!!!!
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Registered: June 16, 2005
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I think that all teens have the right too be pregnant but usilly you try not too get pregnant even if you think it is true love.. There is a possibleity that it was not love you know but im pregnant and having a baby is a great REWARD! You know that most of the teens that are pregnant are probably scared and worried like i am but one bad thing is that i have parents that dont even think about me.. And i know that they love me and my dad beats me and my mom just died because she is a alchohlic and i still love her.. but all im trying too say is when you think its true love from the outside dont trust it you need too know from your heart! And the inside not the outside! and also please teens be CAFFUL!!! And make sure that nothing happens too you like me..
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Registered: June 16, 2005
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I think that teens should pay attention in sex ed class like me i know that sex is dangerous and i have a baby on the way! and im only 15 1/2 years old.. but i didnt have it really cause i got raped ( forced ). and i dont want kids well i do when im alot older you know but i also have too say that boys have NO RIGHT think that they can rule a girls life and.. all that i just think that nobody should rape anyone! And nobody deserves too get raped but these horrinle things do happen!
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Registered: June 16, 2005
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EXSACLY! if you are even ready for the baby and dont have a job then you arnt ready! Because you need the MONEY and you need too aford the FOOD,DIPERS,BOTTELS,ETC. and you know its not easy and a baby is a great reward and im just saying in my opinion that it is really mean too give up a baby or get a abortion cause its like KILLING ANOTHER LIFE! If you think about it you will agree with me..
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Registered: June 16, 2005
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Hi my name is Kristy and im 15 going onto 16 and im pregnant ill tell you what happend it is that one night i went and it was my boyfriends birthday and we got drunk and i know im too young but i just did and somthing happend that was not supposed too.. and that is that we got too drunk and he got me pregnant. And i am really worried and scared and my boyfriend hates me but i dont care and that is because i understand what happend and all i have too say is that theres a baby on the way!
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