I think Sex is GREAT! It is a gift given by God, but why waste the extraordinary wonders of my youth? Who cares what other people say about me, because I honestly don't. What better way to get to know your body? I'm 18 and I lost it about a year ago, and I don't regret having sex with anyone of my partners---and yes I am totally clean, I'm careful who I sleep with!
How is this topic shallow? I think, as with most personal questions, one can answer it in a shallow, or "safe" way, or go in depth and really ask it of themselves.
Like I said, I really, really don't get how it's shallow. I'd love for someone to explain it to me though.
quote: Ah, it's so nice not believing in God. Any statement "You can't do _____ because God says so/it's a sin/it says so in the Bible" is rendered useless.
Agree, God didn't write the Bible with his own hands. You don't know who really was inspired by God, or who just made it all up.
You idiots anyone who even thinks of havin sex before you are married is stupid.Do you know how all these sstdf came up?It was Gods punishment on those who had sex outside of being married.
ideally, i would lose my virginity to someone who was free of STDs, someone of legal age, someone who could speak english at least functionaly (i.e. "where is toilet?"-quality grammar), someone who knows my name (or at least something close/rhymes), someone i would deem (in a sober frame of mind) at least average in attractiveness, and someone who bathes regularly. oh yeah, no back hair, too.
i dream of her all the time... sometimes i even dream of her twin sister too. happy hunting for your boff buddy.
are you guys serious?! this is so incredibely shallow! i hope that you aren't actually considering the possiblility of meeting this "someone who truly loves me" any time soon. i mean really...let me know when you find a guy in our age group who fits into that category and then let me know if you're still together a couple of months after you lose your virginity...no wait--make that a couple of days! give me a break!
Jeremiah--you seriously need to rethink your answer. Technically by your answer, you would lose your virginity to your mom. (Ick) You know...its alright to be picky when it comes to sex.
The male version of myself. No, I'm just kidding! It would have to be someone who truly loves me and cares about me. I would not want to loose my virginity to him unless he was truly commited to me, and we both wanted to spend the rest of our lives together.