I am not trying to say I am a really nice guy, sometimes I am really mean. I try to be nice to girls always because I was taught to respect girls and women. One thing I don't understand, is girls will complain about how they never date nice guys and when they meet one they go out with the biggest jerk on campus, and usually the only thing he wants is sex. I don't go out with girls for sex, and around my school I'm known by the girls as a nice guy, and by the boys either a sap or a mencae depends on when they met me.

But thats the thing I can't understand. Why is it that the bad guys can have girls now and the guys with morals gotta wait around indefinitely their whole lives. It just doesn't make any sense. No faiiirrrr! And you don't even know for a fact that its gonna happen in the future.

Ok I made my opinion the first time but i dont think that i made myself fully clear on what i mean. Ok first of all, i notice that "bad boys" usually get the girls because their honest to themselves and others they dont see the poit in being something their not. Which I dont know about you but i like guys who can be honest with a girl. And nice guys well... not to be mean but they're not usually all that honest with girls they just tell the girls what they want to hear not what they need to hear.And as for this tatto and piercing thing..whats wrong with it? I mean its a form of self expression and thats their way of telling you who they are. That doesn't mean the beautiful girls aren't gonna be with them. I hae a lot of respect for guys that are honest and have tattoos and etc. I'd rather go out with them because they ARE honest.

You seem like a nice guy and as a love expert let me let you in on a little secret. First of all, teenage girls are very immature right now because all they think about is looks and popularity but after high school and usually college they begin to look for a guy who gets her on an emotional level and treats her well so don't worry there just to immature to understand true love because write now they confuse lust for love but don't worry they'll come a time in your life where you won't be able to beat the women off...really its the truth.

I'm not one of those girls that want a "bad boy" lol. Most girls want someone that actually would care about them and hey we aren't stupid we know what the jerks want. Maybe there is some other reason your not getting dates. Don't change the niceness be yourself don't be fake we can tell and we don't like it most of the time its pretty funny. lol I like a nice,sweet,polite, (I'm not gonna lie)good-looking guy who has a sense of humor and if all goes well I can eventually bring him to meet Mom and Dad.

Yeah, a lot of girls just never say a word about it when they like someone. I never have! Sometimes you've just got to take a risk.

Bex

All I have to say is a lot of things change when you get out of High School, trust me on this one. Contrary to the social idea that girls are fully mature by the end of high school, when girls get into college there tastes in males tend to mature a large amount. I know how you feel though bro; I was a nice guy in high school. But also I will have to say it might not be that girls aren't interested in you, what I’ve found is that when I was younger I was just to stupid to realize that girls were interested and I just overlooked the signs and many of the girls are just to scared to approach you. I know it may sound like the typical speech you hear from an older brother but god the statement “I wish I knew what I know now" is so true.
Good luck to you and remember you have a long life to live and I’m sure things will go up for you.

I dont care what my guy looks like or what not as long as he is a "nice guy" to ME! but if he wants to go around robbing stores and gas stations
fine...which i would rather him not, but if that is what he likes to do im not going to stop him.I would rather sit and read a book in each others presence(sp?) i dunno im weird...i am a girl has alot of guy friends but not boyfriends, i have a boyfriend now, hes just...uhhhh we arent getting along that well....and i miss him...he lives far away....who knows....

Missy

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Yeah Billy, thing is, I've read your posts and I'm pretty sure you aren't actually a bad guy! Sorry to burst your bubble, I get the impression you've had a hard time but I think you've come out of it pretty d*mn nice!

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fine fine you caught me, I'm getting better....but I have my moments

just get me around ComradeSmurf or SeeYouIn2069 to see my bad side...

Nice guys rock! they're so cute! Lol...

about the tattoos thing... I found this quote, it's about piercings but I think it fits..."I think a man who has a pierced ear is ready for marriage - he's experienced pain and bought jewelry." lol. I don't remember who said it but it was someone boring anyways...

Lots of love,
Lynne

Yeah really Dream, that just hit me like a slap in the face, that's seriously harsh...

Lots of love,
Lynne

Yeah Billy, thing is, I've read your posts and I'm pretty sure you aren't actually a bad guy! Sorry to burst your bubble, I get the impression you've had a hard time but I think you've come out of it pretty d*mn nice!

I agree about the tattoos thing. I know a guy who changes his hair colour every month and has tattoos and is basically working the punk look to a T. He's got 3 kids and he's a fantastic dad! Being a good guy has nothing to do with appearance, lifestyle etc. It's to do with being a GOOD GUY.

Myself, I do stick up for the geeks. Good 'cool' guys get noticed, the 'geeks' often get overlooked even if they're just as nice or nicer. So I make sure I notice ALL the nice guys…

Nice guys do not always lose! Both my sisters are dating incredibly nice guys (unfortunately there isn't one for me right now!) Being nice definitely pays off. It doesn't always take 15 years, either!

Bex

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I thought you were going....somewhere??


and another thing....

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Look at who all of the amazingly beautiful women end up with. Its almost never the bad boy

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remind me to introduce you to my girlfriend some day.....

bad boys? how bout girls? i know this girl who works at 7-11. not all bad boys/girls are bad. they're actually really nice.

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never the bad boy working at 7-11. After college they want to settle down with a nice geek who has a 401K and savings of over $10,000. Oh, and who wants a guy covered in tatoos rasing you kids?

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whoa!!!

I like alot of your posts, but you just pushed a button!!!!

I am a self proclamied a-hole and I don't work at 7-11, I do have a 401k, over 10,000 in savings and my own place to live.

And my boy who is a DJ at a radio station, coverd in tatoos and just became a certified EMT(meaning he saves lives), is one of the best parents I have ever met. And alot of my friends in bands and what not have kids...and they are great with kids.

I think someone fed you a bunch of BS

give it 10-15 years. Look at who all of the amazingly beautiful women end up with. Its almost never the bad boy working at 7-11. After college they want to settle down with a nice geek who has a 401K and savings of over $10,000. Oh, and who wants a guy covered in tatoos rasing you kids? Give it some time and you'll eventually find yourself in higher demand than the bad boys are now.

OK yea girls go for the biggest jerks on campus. But thats usually because of the stereotypical things like popularity. And most of the time the nice guys girl sometimes think more of as their friends then a flame or what have you. And the more jerky guys get the girls because they let the girl know how they feel straight up no questions asked. But then when everythings ended she'll really realize how much that nice guy means to her. Nice guys dont always lose. I would rather have a respectful bring him to home mom than a jackass leave him at his house kinda guy. Dont worry. you'll end up winning.

Nice guys? Let me at 'em!

Stay nice, it works. It worked for me, even though i'm a sophomore and just now i'm with my first girlfriend. But let me tell you, we've been together for almost a month, and we're extremely happy with eachother and it's amazing. Stay nice, it'll pay in the long run =)

yeah you all say you want nice guys.....we know