Sex is sex man, it is and isn't something great. I don't know how to explain this really that well, other then when you are with somebody you care about it really does make a difference. But I also think that people put way too much on it, if you lose your virginity before your married big freakin deal, it is just a body function just the same as passing gas or going to bathroom. Sorry for the somewhat disgusting relation.

Sex is highly overrated. It isnt "giving yourself away" and if you have a mature relationship it wont make things awkward. MTV and bull**** like that paints a picture in your minds that sex is the ultimate goal. I tend to disagree. I think that sex before marrige is fine as long as you do it responsibly (and of course know your partner).

I think sex is sacred. If you have sex before you are married, you are giving yourself to a person you may, or may not, marry. Being a virgin, I find it good to know that I haven't given something that I can never take back. Of course,you are tempted to do it( I've been tempted quite a few times),but you learn to say no. I'm not against anyone who has had sex before marriage, I have a best friend who has and why get mad? It's their decision. Their choice.
Just be careful to who you give your virginity to.

Hey Everyone!
I dont see what the rush is for teenagers to lose their virginity. Most of my friends are like, "Im 17 and still havent done it Im so sad." The first day I asked my gf out she said to me, "Im not having sex till Im married," and it don't bother me the slightest bit, just shows me that shes willing to obide by her morals.
Cheers Steve

I think sex is something sacred. When you have sex, it's like giving yourself, your entirety to that person you're sharing it with. I mean, I wouldn't want to give myself away so easily and to just anybody. I'm not even sure if he's Mr. Right!
I'm 16, not totally unlikeable and definitely not unpretty and I'm still a virgin... and I plan to be until I get married! So? I'm fine! Truth is I'm feelin' GREAT! There's more to life than SEX!

Isn't it convenient that the entire female polulation of this planet are either virgins (which can easily be used as a mean term) or s|u†s? What a progressive double standard!

oh chill out all ya'll

lets have sense of humor bout the whole subject instead of being so serious. Sex is great ! we've all heard the statics about STDS and teen pregancy's but um what about all the girls who didn't get pregant ? or the teens who didn't get an STD from rolling in the hay ? nobody ever tells you about them huh ?

sex was meant to be enjoyed not scared out of us

Sex is looked at in so many different ways. Personally I do believe sex should be saved for love. But sometimes things don’t always work out and that’s something we have to deal with (and most people do). Adults try to scare pre-teens and teens into believing that sex changes everything. I was scared of sex when I was younger. By the time I was a Jr in high school I knew more stats on STDs (or STIs), HIV, and pregnancy then most teachers in my school. I spent a week in New York learning about it. With all of this info just floating in my head it freaked me out even more. But when I did make the choice to have sex, I knew I did nothing wrong. People say that sex can change a relationship drastically, but in my case it just brought us closer. There were no awkward stares or gaps of silence. It has been over a year since and just last week he asked me to marry him. So hey, it’s all good. ^_^

~Alex~

It might just big a big deal to the people who are called those names.

Words do have an effect on people.

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These days any girl that has sex is considered one. Any girl that wearts revealing clothes. Any girl that does something you don't agree with, basiclly.

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I disagree, if you think that then I think there is a problem. A whor.e is just another name for prostitute. (and of course is an insult as well).
A slu.t is a girl who "gets around" but no money is involved. (and of course is an insult as well)

its no big deal, just words.

S.lut and w.hore are words that should not be used lightly. I admit I say them a lot myself but I'm trying to stop. These days any girl that has sex is considered one. Any girl that wearts revealing clothes. Any girl that does something you don't agree with, basiclly.

when it comes to sex..i believe that u should wait until u are married...i alo believe that there is a differnce between having sex and makin love...that just my opinion i dont know about the rest of you..........although i said i believe in sex after marriage i also believe that if u completely love and trust sum1 and the 2 of u r not married u can make love 2 show that u love sum1 with all of ur heart
thats bout all of wat i have 2 say
kz bye
andrea aka Hey You

I was stating the obvious, which was the point, Blue.

sex is sex is sex.

i really believe that sex should be associated with love. your body is one of the most precious things you have and to go on and use it out there so lewdly, it just doesn't seem right. i'm a religious person, and i would like to think that as much as possible i will save myself for marriage. and though it sounds really corny, i think that sex will be all that much better if it's with someone you truly love.

i'm in no way putting down, or looking down upon people who do have sex before they're married. a lot of my friends aren't virgins, and i dont try to tell them that they should or shouldn't because it's their decision. but everyone should be aware of what they're getting themselves into and the possible outcomes (STDs, babies).

and as for continuing on the population? i think that the human race is doing far more than our share of that. the population is said to peak in our lifetime. doesnt that scare anyone but me?

Sex keeps the population thriving.

Meh.

Maybe it'd be better if the entire human race died out. I'd have no discrepancies with that.

I never thought I would have sex until I was married. And that's what I constantly told my mother with each new boyfriend and everytime I went out. But I did do it a little over a week ago with my boyfriend. And we did it again on Valentine's Day. I'm not proud to say that I did it and I'm not gonna brag, but I can say that I don't regret it. Even if we aren't together forever, I will always remember that moment.
As for teenage sex in general, be smart and use protection if you're gonna do it. I did. And make sure that you're sure. You don't wanna wake up and regret it. Just think about it before you do it.

Having never had sex, I don't know much about it but it seems to me everyone makes too much of a big deal. Yeah, I'm sure it's fun but it isn't the most important thing in the world (well… it is, as in continuation-of-the-species but you know what I mean!) I think people build it up to be something monumental when really it's just… sex. *shrug*.

Teenage sex: Use contraception and make sure you trust the other person and aren't being pressured into it. It's up to the individual how far they want to take it, whether they want to be totally in love before they have sex, or married or whatever. For me I think it'd be important to really care about the other person but for others maybe it isn't.

Bex