Hey girls (and guys ) This may be a touchy subject and everything but someone had to bring it up. I know plenty of girls at my school who aren't virgins any more and many whom are pregnant. What is up with that? Well to be homest I can't talk like that because this summer I got pregnant with my boyfriends baby but 2 months through I had a miscarraige. It hurt me and hium both but we pulled through. But what is up with these girls who will open their legs and have sex but as soon as they get pregnant they either want an abortion or they are ashamed of it. I am ashamed of the way that I lost my virginity but not that I was pregnant. That was one thing that I was willing to flaunt and even told my Mom when I found out. She was going to support me through it. What's up with all of these girls doing this to themselves? It's stupid! If you can't handle the consequence then don't do it. Ya feel me?
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Smartass.

Well duh.

Virginity is overrated.

Why do girls want to lose their virginity? Because. Some. Girls. Enjoy. Sex. End of story.

i understand, i don't understand why girls want to lose their virginity early to someone they probably won't be with for the rest of their lives. don't people understand some of the consequences of having sex at an early age. I know that teens are having enough sex ed to supply them with the right answers, but i don't understand why they want to have sex.
is it that they feel that they are fulfilling something that their friends will be envious about. the situation to me is sometimes unfathomable.
i'm not saying that i'm against pregancy of a teen, i have had friends who've had children when they were young. i feel that if the girl has sex and gets pregant and she doesn't feel ashamed of it, meaning she won't have an abortion. i feel that girl understands her situation and should be rewarded for the action she is going to take, either keeping the child or giving it up for adoption.

Well I guess that you have to think about WHAT consequences you're willing to deal with. My aunt got pregnant when she was sixteen and I was eleven, and I was so upset by it, although I didn't even really understand. I was more upset when, through a lot of really DUMB MISTAKES on my own part, I lost a friend in both my aunt and another friend...and then my aunt got pregnant again. THAT one felt like such a betrayal. She's told me that she's not ashamed that she kept her children, and she's now married to the second kid's boyfriend. I loooooooove my cousins, but I have such a hard time accepting my aunt. I think that before ANY teen gets pregnant, she needs to think about her family and, even though it's not their choice, if she's willing to be letting them down. Thanks for listening, if anyone has advice on how I should work on accepting my aunt....let me know.

Well to me der is nuttin wrong wid teenage pregnancy cuz 2 good friends of mine recently had children and der bout only 16..... if u feel ready to have sex u sud but u sudnt let any1 force u to do something u dont wanna do.... i also nearly got pregnat recently but i went and got the morning after pill..... i was ready to have sex but wat i didnt realise was dat i wasnt ready for da responsibilities dat came wid it....

NOT THE WORST THING IN THE WORLD

personaly imade the choice to have sex and i got pregnant, i know have two year old daughter and have custody of my exs four year old son. nd i dont regreat it i made the choice and now im dealing with the responablity. i think if you are grown up enough to have sex ,then you are big enough to take care of what some people call a mistake!!!p.s. GROW UP!

Not trying to be rude but your not a virgin either so you have no room to talk... if they think there ready then let them do what they want to do... it's their life & they can screw it up if they want to. Their disicion(SP?), their problem, their life, not mine. I will stay a virgin as long as I can. I'm waiting till I acutaly love a guy & not sleep w/ someone because I feel like it, that's just nasty. But I will wait till I'm ready to deal with consequenses(SP?) If I ever have a friend that gets pregnat I will help her, but I might lose some respect for her. Becuase she had sex so young & screwed up her life for one moment in her life that she thought would be "special" But if she did keep the baby & is a good mother I will have a whole lot more respect for her because she delt with her mistake. Always remember: USE PROTECTION!
Always & Forever,
20Chick03

Even though our great God will forgive us for doing it it is still wrong and u should at least wait to have sex until ur past collage or married. If u cant wait for some reason then at least wear a condom . Not to mention most people cant support a baby at that age!!
Most people dont think of this before they start to go at it....Plus ,and im not trying to put down guys cause I am one, most fathers of the children leave and the girls will most likely go through abortion unless they actually have the money to support the baby.
This is the sad but true truth .

well i feel u there. well getting pregnant isn't a sin, but fornication is. So i am upset when gurls lay there and sleep wit this dude and the moment htey get pregna t they start crying and all that other crap . but what really makes me upset is whent hey want to have an abortion. well at lest u didn't have an abortion. God let that have a reason. So still stay strong gurl holla .

one of my favorite subjects....not! listen i understand that you think that if girls can make a big decision about having sex and they get pregnant , that they should deal with it. But ya know you have to think about it this way too..if they're big enough to make the decision about having sex they're big enough to make the decision about whether or not they keep this baby. And you never know sometimes it may be best for the baby. Like take for example me, my mom had me when she was 16 and my biological dad left. I dont know him and i think about him all the time. I mean girls could leave their children wondering who their father is and what not. And i understand that your boyfriend was with you through your pregnancy but thats not for sure. I mean he could've later ended up leaving (im not saying he would've just hypathetical) and it might've hurt you and ultimatly ended up hurting your baby. Not everythings for sure for your baby and sometimes people realize that more than others. And sometimes people have no choice but to get an abortion in order to save their baby.

in my opinion girls should do what they think is right i know that me and my boyfriend are planning on haveing sex as soon as i get back into town and I am a virgin right now but i know im ready so i say do that you think is right for you........

I am 17 years old and 8 months pregnant with my first child. I'm expecting a baby girl in late June or early July. I regret getting pregnant; it wasn't planned. But my boyfriend and my family have been supporting me every step of the way. I don't care what people think about me being a pregnant teen. I know I made a mistake and that's all that matters to me.

creeker04 you have no right to say any thing about girls opening there leg and then after they get prego they eather want an abortion or are ashamed cause you opened your legs so you need to shut your mouth.

Yeah having sex is your choice but why is it "ok"? It isn't something that is necessary to do at a teenage level. Having sex is supposed to symbolize a love and a committment not just something to do because you can! Having sex is a special thing and why has it become something that "everyone is doing?" having sex also comes with many responsibilities. Responsibilities that us as teens aren't ready to handle by ourselves without a spouse or someone to stand by us and with us, and even then it can be hard.

why is it "ok" to have sex as a teen?! ya, it's you choice, but why do you wanna do it? i mean, you have your whole life a head of you! I don't care if noone agrees with me, if you do, please e-mail me.