I'd like that verse from him, Apology. He is wrong.
If you are a Christian, you are taught not to have sex before marriage because it is a sacred act only to be held between a man and his wife. It is sacred because it is one of the only ways of reproducing and it was the only way of reproducing when the Bible was written.
I've posted on this thread and others like it before. But for those of you who don't know, I am abstaining from sex until marriage for many reasons - most of them logical and not really because of my religion, all though it does condone my decision.
Belief makes things real/Makes things feel, feel alright/Belief makes things true/Things like you, you and I
However, I don't like the whole interaction of it, the whole thing in gerenal.
My friend says that in the Bible it's says that the only reason we should have sex is to reproduce, we shouldn't have sex for the pleasure.
I wanted to slap him so hard.
Basically, he was saying that everyone was committing a sin in God's eyes even those in marriages because they have sex for pleasure not to just reproduce. He was the only one "REALLY" following God. We argued about that for like two hours but he kept getting me with my own situation. Because I hate sex does not make it wrong.
Mmmm, not always true Euterpe. Sorry to be the one to burst your bubble, but my room mate says although it's pretty addictive and all, it doesn't always feel good, and "a ***** is just another *****". Yeah, he's kind of weird in more than one way.
He needs some good lovers then.
Of course sex is just sex if you (or the partner) doesn't know how to have good sex.
"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
Only virgins say that. And I mean no offense, I'm just saying. And how could you possibly hate something you've never done?
Mmmm, not always true Euterpe. Sorry to be the one to burst your bubble, but my room mate says although it's pretty addictive and all, it doesn't always feel good, and "a ***** is just another *****". Yeah, he's kind of weird in more than one way.
Only virgins say that. And I mean no offense, I'm just saying. And how could you possibly hate something you've never done?
It's cool, I had a feeling someone would say that sooner or later.
I have tried it a few times, I don't like the whole idea of it. I guess it disgusts me for some reason. Blah, either I am a freak or I am just tormented by getting raped. Either way, I see sex as painful and a way to hurt myself.
If I choose to have sex, it's most likely to just pass up the time or to hurt myself because it makes me feel like crap afterwards. So I am not choosing it altogether.
However, it's different for everyone so I am not trying to put down anyone else. I think it's great that they feel so good when having sex or making love, if there is really a difference.
Oh yea, Euterpe, I'm sorry for just not talking to you on Aim. Blah, I had to disconnect Aim from my computer!
Originally posted by Apology: I hate sex. To me, if I had sex, it petty much meaningless to me so I just don't have sex period. If I hate it and don't want it then there is no point to have sex.
Only virgins say that. And I mean no offense, I'm just saying. And how could you possibly hate something you've never done?
You'd be hard-pressed to find someone who's had sex who goes, "Sex? Meh, it was okay. I'd rather quilt."
I hate sex. To me, if I had sex, it petty much meaningless to me so I just don't have sex period. If I hate it and don't want it then there is no point to have sex.
However, if you really feelyour ready and you know the consequences it may bring. If you are mature enough to handle how sex really is then go ahead, just be careful.
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Copied right out of the rules of play. I know you didn't mean any harm, just don't do it again...thanks!
That was immature. And you knew it when you did it.
that. was the point. it was a joke. and duh i knew it when i did it, why would you erase a message that just proves my point. was it too "revealing"? or were you erasing it for making it look like a stupid rule.
or maybe you'll erase this too for challenging it.
Edited due to link that contained nudity. Please review YN's rules of play. This broke rule number 3.
Sorry mod numero 2... And numero 8 if you were talking to me. I really didn't think it would be taken so harshly. It wasn't a vagina or anything, I apologize.
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freedom or death, i was talking to you
Okaaay... you do that. In the meantime, tell me why you hate me and why you hate the face you can't see. And then when you're finished, go kill yourself.
It is really hard to tell someone not to have sex. Making love is different than sex, it is more, and is usually between two people committed to eachother forever through their love, which is expressed through marriage. Sex is totally something else. It is just the act, not the feelings. It is usually done carelessly by people who do not understand what they are getting themselves into, and I am not talking about STD's because I think it is hard to NOT hear about herpes and crabs and HIV nowadays. I am talking about the feelings that come afterward, of regret, and judgment by others. Feeling ashamed is mainly it, because you just risked so much (pregnancy, your parents finding out) and it will eat at you forever. The pleasure and drive to have sex and other activities, though, are inevitable. That's a given, but there is always karma and things. I have only read this one page here, and not all four, with the thread starter, loversandfriends, I think you are going about sex way too carelessly.Its all like, "lets boink like bunnies because we love eachother!" There is more to love than sex, and making love for that matter. I hope you understand that.
The link below should say something more like this : Taken from this (be forewarned, it shows boobs / boobies / TlTTlES / female breasts / whatever won't be censored by YN)
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