*can't get over the fit of laughter* Not that it's really something to laugh about, but I was seriously thinking after you said it how much you actually sounded like Angelina Jolie. She once said something along the lines of "I love sex. I can never get enough, I want it more than anyone I know" I'll try to find the quote. I was just thinking of how much a diehard Angelina fan you must be...
Originally posted by AMF8: TWLgirl you are the perfect example of someone who doesnt know **** about **** and takes all the textbook reasons you have read in your abstinense only sex ed class.
Seriously, who is sick of hearing 15 year old girls think they are making a statement by not ****ing. No one respects you for that, and no one gives it a second thought because believe it or not sex is a natural thing. It happends, and after awhile everyone will be older and think, "why did I make such a big deal out of it?"
I hate you, I hate your face, and I hate your life. I hate you.
TWLgirl you are the perfect example of someone who doesnt know **** about **** and takes all the textbook reasons you have read in your abstinense only sex ed class.
Seriously, who is sick of hearing 15 year old girls think they are making a statement by not ****ing. No one respects you for that, and no one gives it a second thought because believe it or not sex is a natural thing. It happends, and after awhile everyone will be older and think, "why did I make such a big deal out of it?"
I am 15 and abstinence and yes I plan on saving my body till I'm married because not only for religious reasons but because I'm not ready for that in my life. When teens talk about abstinence they think not haveing sex takes all the fun out of life. NO it doesn't life is still the same without worrying all the time if your pregnant or not or worrying if you got something. Beileve me teen life is hard enough without bring more stress to my life. I'm also waiting because I'm not one of them girls that do what everyone eles is doing I follow my own path I don't need to have sex cause all my friends are doing it because there not the ones thats gonna be pregnant I am then I'm gonna be stuck so Yeah I plan on waiting because if girls wanna use there bodies as a playground and let everyone step in it then thats there bussiness but I repect my body and I wish more people start to repect theres.
Yea I agree...we shouldn't be told our bodies are shameful, at the same time it should be something special...it's all confusing but adults make way too big of a deal outta it... ~Ser
One boy, one girl. Two hearts beatin wildly. To put it mildly it was love at first sight. He smiled,she smiled,they knew right away.These were the days they'd been waitin for all their lives.For a moment the whole world,revolved around one boy and one girl.
Why must we teach our children to be ashamed of their bodies and natural desires? why should sex be automatically associated with guilt? Why should women be brought up feeling they must justify sleeping with men? Other activites like going to the movies or a restaurant, dont need excuses. The very fact that such activites are pleasurable is enough of a justification. Only sexual activity is singled out to require one.
I was hungry, therefore I went to McDonalds I was bored, therefore I went to the movies I was tense, therefore I has some ice cream I was tired, therefore I took a nap I was sexually, aroused therefore I had sex
Clearly those actions as having the same status does not imply that they are the same. Napping is not having ice cream, nor is it going to the movies or having sex. What it does imply is that despite being different these activites should be treated equally.
The traditional claim on behalf of abstinence until the wedding night is that such practice makes the wedding night and the entire marriage special. But thats a myth, from personal experience I can say that my being promiscuous did not at all depreciate the unexceedinglgy wonderfull feeling I experienced when I had sex with women I had feelings for. There is no way it could have been better if I were a virgin. My previous experience CONTRIBUTED to the specialty of the event, rather than depreciated it, the same rehearsals of a play contribute to the success of its premiere.
Wow. dont you guys think its sad when all these girsl get pregnant because theire health classes dont teach them anything? i'm glad, i had a really good class, the teacher taught us all forms of birth control (including abstinence), and told us the effectiveness of each one and everything like that.
Um yea they might as well NOT have sex ed at my school..it's so stupid...I used that class as a study hall...although that may have been b/c I had lost my virginity 2 years before I had to take the class...I don't think they realize that yes, 13 year olds DO know how to have sex and will do it. I don't think they realize a lot about teens in general. We're not stupid, but we are gonna have fun. Idk...I hate those classes...then again I'm no goodie-goodie... ~Serena~
One boy, one girl. Two hearts beatin wildly. To put it mildly it was love at first sight. He smiled,she smiled,they knew right away.These were the days they'd been waitin for all their lives.For a moment the whole world,revolved around one boy and one girl.
Originally posted by WorthWaitingFor: While I abstain myself, I know it's not for everyone and I don't support my school's abstinence only program.
I know this is my choice and it shouldn't be forced on everyone else. There were seven pregnant girls last year in the senior class so obviously abstinence only programs don't work. Instead, we need to teach everyone to protect themselves.
That is a LOT of pregnant girls in one class...my school hasn't had a pregnancy in idk how many years...then again...I go to a private school that has about 600 kids...but don't feel bad...our sex program is complete bull too...
Originally posted by WorthWaitingFor: While I abstain myself, I know it's not for everyone and I don't support my school's abstinence only program.
I know this is my choice and it shouldn't be forced on everyone else. There were seven pregnant girls last year in the senior class so obviously abstinence only programs don't work. Instead, we need to teach everyone to protect themselves.
That is a LOT of pregnant girls in one class...my school hasn't had a pregnancy in idk how many years...then again...I go to a private school that has about 600 kids...but don't feel bad...our sex program is complete bull too...
One boy, one girl. Two hearts beatin wildly. To put it mildly it was love at first sight. He smiled,she smiled,they knew right away.These were the days they'd been waitin for all their lives.For a moment the whole world,revolved around one boy and one girl.
While I abstain myself, I know it's not for everyone and I don't support my school's abstinence only program.
I know this is my choice and it shouldn't be forced on everyone else. There were seven pregnant girls last year in the senior class so obviously abstinence only programs don't work. Instead, we need to teach everyone to protect themselves.
Belief makes things real/Makes things feel, feel alright/Belief makes things true/Things like you, you and I
I think the way to go about it would be to find someone you trust, a real close friend of the opposite gender, and have your first time, or your first few times with that person, because that way you know each other, your not embarrassed or pressured to perform well, and you can learn together no strings attached. And the cool part about it is that you know your both safe, and your not carrying any diseases.
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