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Registered: April 26, 2005
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quote: Originally posted by yogore:
There's too much hype over virginity.
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Registered: February 02, 2004
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I thought the same thing. It looked mostly like boys who were doing it to get on the good side of their new girlfriends. "You learn about equality in the classroom but you find out about it in life" - Campus Confidential www.myspace.com/yogore |
Registered: March 03, 2005
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quote: Originally posted by yogore:
Have you heard of the "born again virgins"? They are people who have sex but then vow not to have sex until they are married. I read an article about it in a teen magazine.
yeah thats total bs you cant regain your virginity.
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Registered: December 11, 2003
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quote: Have you heard of the "born again virgins"? They are people who have sex but then vow not to have sex until they are married. I read an article about it in a teen magazine.
That is the most hypocritical concept I have ever seen. Once you know a human in such form, that can never be erased.
"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
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Registered: February 02, 2004
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Have you heard of the "born again virgins"? They are people who have sex but then vow not to have sex until they are married. I read an article about it in a teen magazine. "You learn about equality in the classroom but you find out about it in life" - Campus Confidential www.myspace.com/yogore |
Registered: November 05, 2004
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That bit was actually sarcasm, ilovebush, but thanks anyways.
The more you know, the less you don't know.
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Registered: December 11, 2003
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quote: There's too much hype over virginity.
The concept in the US is the most twisted concept I've ever seen. There (from what I've seen), you're still a virgin if you've given/received oral sex, "touched" another person, and even stuck a sex toy up your vagina. In Russia, if you already know how to "please", you are not considered a virgin anymore. This is based solely on what I saw.
"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
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Registered: February 02, 2004
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There's too much hype over virginity. "You learn about equality in the classroom but you find out about it in life" - Campus Confidential www.myspace.com/yogore |
Registered: March 10, 2005
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quote: Yes, I admit it, I am still a virgin. *hangs head in shame*
thats not shameful clpo. I understand youre a guy, and guys feel that they should lose it early. But if it makes you feel any better, I look at a guys sexual behavior when I look for a boyfriend. So dont feel bad if youre still a virgin, girls like that. (or at least most of the girls I know) 
"We have staked the whole of all our political institutions upon the capacity of mankind for self-government, upon the capacity of each and all of us to govern ourselves, to control ourselves, to sustain ourselves according to the Ten Commandments of God." - James Madison
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Registered: December 11, 2003
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I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity (after the rape, I mean when I wanted to) because it's tradition here to do it in a girl's 15th birthday. Long story. I should make a thread of it one day.
"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
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Registered: November 05, 2004
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Yes, I admit it, I am still a virgin. *hangs head in shame* Now, I won't preach "sex is bad" and "don't do it 'til you're married" because it's a personal choice. If you want to have sex at 13, I'm not gonna stop you. I personally have abstained because of one major reason: I don't want whoever it is I sleep with to get pregnant. Yes, there is such thing as birth control. Is it perfect? Of course not. There will always be that small chance that she'd conceive. And there is no way I'd be able to support a baby. No way in hell. I know many people who've ended up having a kid at 16. Where are they now? Out of school and pulling the graveyard shift at Fred Meyer. I will never drop out of school for something like that. I have a life planned out and babies don't enter it until I at least have a stable job and a house (28+ perhaps). So, am I willing to forgo the pleasures of sex for that? Yes. The way I see it, if you don't know what you're missing, you don't miss it.
The more you know, the less you don't know.
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Registered: November 27, 2003
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quote: Originally posted by panterayall:
hubabaloo is your aunt just waiting out till she finds the right man or what? thats pretty extreme
Until she's married.
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Registered: March 03, 2005
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hubabaloo is your aunt just waiting out till she finds the right man or what? thats pretty extreme
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Registered: November 27, 2003
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I was the one who said that my aunt is 48 and still a virgin. I have one thing to say to you all, I'd be ashamed of myself if I lost my virginity before marriage. I'd be ashamed.
Just because nobody understands you, that doesn't mean you're artistic.
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Registered: June 14, 2004
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quote: Why are you and do you plan to stay that way?
This is my reply to an old thread about this. Before you read this, I would like to say that I don't think either one is better in general, for everyone. I just think abstinence is better for me. It is a personal choice: quote: (These are in no particular order....I just woke up after going midnight bowling and gorging on sugar and caffiene)
1. I don't want to get pregnant.
2. Asking my mother to put me on the Pill is useless.
3. I don't want to get an STD.
4. Condoms don't always work.
5. Sex always creates more trust issues.
6. I would rather just have sex with my husband than with 8 different boyfriends I had in high-school.
7. I won't have any comparison when I get married, so if my husband isn't good in bed I won't know the difference.
8. I don't want a reputation at school for the girl who "puts out." That only gets you more losers for boyfriends.
9. My mom works at my school so I don't want her finding out if I had sex.
10. A few years ago, I lost my parents' trust and it took me about 3-5 years to completely earn it back. They don't want me to have sex and I don't want to disappoint them or make them lose their trust in me again.
11. This isn't that big of a reason in mine eyes, but I'm Christian and it's taught in the Christian religion to save yourself for marriage.
12. One of the trust issues: I feel like, if the guy is willing to wait to have sex with me until we're married then he's a guy that's worth having sex with me. Many guys go out with girls just to get some....but no guy is going to marry a girl just to get some.
13. My mom is trying to teach me better than her. She had sex before she was married but she doesn't want me to. I don't want to look like a hypocrite when I tell my kids I want them to wait to have sex.
14. To be honest, I've had it in my head so long that I want to wait that now the only thing holding me back from having sex with my current bf is just the fact that I'm uncomfortabel doing it after promising myself for so long that I wouldn't.
15. There's plenty of other sexual ways to enjoy time with your significant other besides sex.
16. I just want to. It's kind of just like this feeling inside where I just want to wait.
17. It will make my wedding night more special because it'll be my first time (and if I marry my current bf...his first time as well).
18. Another one of the trust issues: You don't have to worry about whether or not he's being honest when he says,"I don't have an STD."
19. Most of the time, if he wants to sleep with you, he wanted to sleep with all his other girlfriends---and he probably did. It's kinda gross to me to think that I'm sleeping with about four other people.
20. The same goes for girls. If you do it with one guy, the rest of the guys are going to think that you want to do it.
21. Sex will always be there. I've already spent most of my life growing up too fast and doing stuff sooner than I'm supposed to (I wasn't supposed to date/wear makeup until I was 16, I'm not supposed to be able to take AP classes until next year, I'm going to prom my sophomore year, etc.) that I just want to wait to do something else that is kinda conisdered "grownup."
22. I think it will better when I'm older than right now because the guy will be able to hold out longer, we'll both know how to please each other, etc.
That's all I can think of right now. I'm sure there's more. I'm pretty much with iamastar on this one...why not wait?
Belief makes things real/Makes things feel, feel alright/Belief makes things true/Things like you, you and I
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Registered: July 07, 2003
Posts: 80
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Well if you're a Christian then why are you asking this question?
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Registered: March 03, 2005
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becuase 15 is a more mature age at least you are in highschool at 15. 13 is 7th grade i think
peace and equality
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Registered: February 02, 2004
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if 13 is too young, why is 15 so much better? "You learn about equality in the classroom but you find out about it in life" - Campus Confidential www.myspace.com/yogore |
Registered: March 18, 2005
Posts: 16
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i say do what you want its not a big deal,and i think 13 is to young.i lost mine at 15i dont regret anything even though we are no togather.
marilyn
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Registered: March 09, 2004
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