do you think that people should wait until there is love in a relationship before they do the deed? are we all now so surrounded by sex that all we want to do is get it from wherever we can? I have gathered loads of vox pops clips and placed them on a website. you should do the same with what you think. just go to the site. www.truetube.co.uk



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I personally feel that love is important in sex.

If other people feel differently, they are more than welcome to go on and have sex with whomever they choose, it's really none of my business.

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Second, you say it's easy to wait for marriage and all of that but you also claim that once you have sex with someone things fall apart, you must have suffered it to know, in which case you contradict yourself.

It is possible to learn from other people's mistakes or to generalize based on what usually happens with the people you know, so that would be option number 3, wouldn't it?

I've never had sex or been in love, but I assume that they would both be more enjoyable together than apart. But I would advise against sleeping around, too many chances for hurt feelings and heartache (plus the increased chance for disease or pregnancy)

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please dont listen to earthgodess, dont sleep around, unless you want a disease or wanna get pregnant, and dont give me that "oh but we use protection" crap.....what if it breaks???? then whaat??

wait till you're married...that's my opinion.
cuz you'll have sex, then everything will start falling apart, and then you'll think"wow that was a big mistake" just wait, it's not that hard people.

First, if all the friends you hang out with are the kind of people that are likely to have STD's then your hanging out with the wrong people.
Second, you say it's easy to wait for marriage and all of that but you also claim that once you have sex with someone things fall apart, you must have suffered it to know, in which case you contradict yourself. Either that or you're talking about something you have absolutely no experience in, which kinda' makes your opinion worthless.

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Originally posted by Ilive4Him:
please dont listen to earthgodess, dont sleep around, unless you want a disease or wanna get pregnant, and dont give me that "oh but we use protection" crap.....what if it breaks???? then whaat??

wait till you're married...that's my opinion.
cuz you'll have sex, then everything will start falling apart, and then you'll think"wow that was a big mistake" just wait, it's not that hard people.

You're being extremely naive.

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cuz you'll have sex, then everything will start falling apart, and then you'll think"wow that was a big mistake"

Not always.

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it's not that hard people.

It can be.

please dont listen to earthgodess, dont sleep around, unless you want a disease or wanna get pregnant, and dont give me that "oh but we use protection" crap.....what if it breaks???? then whaat??

wait till you're married...that's my opinion.
cuz you'll have sex, then everything will start falling apart, and then you'll think"wow that was a big mistake" just wait, it's not that hard people.

I personally don't believe love exists. So, I say, sleep around. It truly doesn't matter.

i think if your "in love" and you think that sex completes the whole thing its stupid. cause most of the time you two will break up and it will just be that much harder on you. most girls are really clingy and who ever they lost it to ... they remember and most likely fall for that guy .

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