guys honestly, would you ever date a teen mom and by date i mean with the intent of a serious relationship...?

very funny drstrangelove, unfortunitly...i am still 17 and it would be illegal for me to recruit an older guy right now...besides i am not to into sugardaddys must be the romantic in me still looking for true love, although the money from a sugardaddy could always help lol

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But instead of worrying about the average 17 year old guy that will probably be judgemental like that, why don't you just wait for someone who will accept you for who you are?

Or find yourself a good sugar daddy. Rich over-the-hill guys are always in stock.

thank god someone read the last line of my earlier post that was


set apart from the main body (like this)


so as to attract your attention. If you were to read any line of that earlier post it shouldve been the one that says "im not passing judgement, i am just relaying to you...."

While I frequently disagree with AMF, he's being pretty honest with you, not judgemental.

He's telling you that (whether or not you do) the average high-school guy will see you as someone who sleeps around. He will see you as irresponsible. And he probably won't get around to getting to know you because that will scare him off.

But instead of worrying about the average 17 year old guy that will probably be judgemental like that, why don't you just wait for someone who will accept you for who you are?

first of all, she is MY miracle, i never asked you to reciprocate the same feelings. second of all i have a daughter not a son. Also, no i do not think that every teenager should have a child, in fact i would strongly disapprove of that situtation. Last I checked proving your doctor's wrong is always a miracle. and finally, i am sure eventually i will find a guy who will share with me the same feelings i have towards my daughter however with society the way it is today i still have every right to be worried about guys judging teen mothers. my child or better no child is a mistake.

first of all my child is a miracle, and she is a girl not a boy. second of all i never said that every teenager should have a child in fact i vote strongly against that. my child is not a mistake nor do i regret giving her life. and last i checked when doctors say something cant happen and you prove them wrong it is a miracle. and yes, hopefully i will find someone who wants to be a part of my life as well as my childs and im sure that person will also find her a miracle however with society the way it is today i still have every right to be worried about guys not wanting to date girls who already have children.

stop calling your kid a miracle.

if hes a miracle then why are you worried about kids dating you? wouldnt they want part of the miracle too?

why doesnt every teenager have a kid? it would be great, everyoe could have a miracle.

you might have accidentally switched the word miracle for mistake

not necissarily. but you arent a medical doctor and you dont know my medical history so you dont understand the circumstances for her mistake and my little medical miracle.

But whether you can or cannot have a child is something that is usually rather obvious.

everyone makes mistakes celtic, doesnt make her a crappy doctor

Crappy doctor.

one more thing amf8 my doctor told me i was unable to have children so i did not use birthcontrol

okay...AMF8 way to be judgemental when you dont even know the story. yes, i have two children one past away and i am currently 8 1/2 months pregnant and they are both from the same man whom i was in a relationship with for 2 years so no, i dont sleep around.

as for letzbloud...nice to know, thanks. and i am currently single, so im not turning anything down if you live around where i live then great...lets chat

Heh, Dr. Strangelove, you're hilarious. Long time no see.

you have 2 kids and you are 17?

wow.......Birth control anybody?

No matter what the kids say on here the most probable answer to your question goes something like....... "no". People will judge you. Its that simple. If you had one kid, mayb you could manage. 2....no. not only will kiids not date you because they think you must sleep around a lot, but they sure as hell dont want to help be responsible for 2 kids.


im not passing judgement. Im just relaying to you what the average highschool guy who is 17 would think.

hey momof2at17, are you asking for a date?

Only if she had the badonkadonk.

yes i would. i love kids & i always will.

*Blink blink* The same reasons one would want to date a non-teen mother, I suppose. Personality, beauty, money, whatever floats your boat as far as women goes.
Eh, I don't know what the problem is. But then, I've never been the 'dating for fun' type.