I have no life. I recently was on a field trip and on the way back, two of the guys were discussing their sexual exploits. i have never really had a serious relationship, and i a already a freshman. i am not stupid, and i think i have a nice personality. please give me some advice or let me know that i am not the only person out here.

Well, since it seems like there will be no appearances made by my original post, here is something along the lines of what I said earlier:

Those guys were probably lying, as so many people have said. In any case they weren't, they probably: A. Spent a lot of money to have a woman, B. Got someone to get high with them and seduced them, C. They really did it with each other, and most probable of all, D. They are using certain parts of a fantasy to describe what happened.

Though most seem unbelievable, and I agree with that first opinion, I've heard them all before. Directly from the horse's mouth. So believe it!

As to my own relationships, I haven't had a "serious relationship" as it might be called since the eighth grade. That was a special time when I was a hormone-charged teen who got his jollies off of a few kisses and slow dancing close to my girlfriend. People want to be grown up so early these days, it makes me sick. It wasn't until the ninth grade that my girlfriend and I were on the rocks and broke up. But since that time, I've realized that high school (and really anything less) relationships are quite pointless. Not only are they generally immature and don't lead a person to any spiritual feeling, only 0.75% of high school relationships last a mere decade. I'm not saying that a person shouldn't date, because a person who can should get that type of social interaction, but they should not lead it into such a physical relationship.

So don't worry about it, you've got a life.

Are you talking to me? Are YOU talking to ME??

Just kidding. But really, are you talking to me?

You're a member of YN, but you have a low post count. Just be happy YN isn't your life....it hasn't caught you yet. You still have a chance, run!

NOW I'm seeing it... But when I revisit... It'll be gone again... This sucks!

This sucks. None of my posts are coming up. STILL!!!

Well, at your age, those guys were likely lying. In any case, be honest, and say you actually meant the title of this board was "I WANNA GET SOME *****!"

nice guys finish last... remember that one.

thanks

i'm a freshman i have not have had a serious relationship

Wow, fourteen and not getting laid? Throw in the towel, man. Your life is over. Seriously, though, your friends are more than likely full of B.S.

I've only had one serious relationship in my life and I'm a freshman in highschool. My cousins, who are twins just got their first girlfriends and they're 19 and freshman in college. Just because you havent had a relationship yet doesnt mean you have no life.
-Sunset