i've been with a guy for 1 year and a half. we've been sexually active for a while now (he was my first.) he was talking about a possibility of getting married and it made me nervous so i decided to go on a temporary seperation from him to see if i could possibly have feelings for someone else. i dated a guy for 2 weeks and decided i still wanted to be with my ex, so i broke up with the new guy and told my ex i wanted to be with him again. he promised me before hand that he would be there for me, but when i told him i wanted to be with him, he told me he had met someone else that he wanted to try to have a relationship with. it's upsetting me because i love him so much and i made a decision to be with him, but now he's changed. i got to the point where i can't stop crying and even cut myself. i realize it's not worth hurting myself over. i am still so much in love with him and he told me we would get back together, but only with time... so pretty much...... he wants me to sit around and wait on him. i'm not sure if i should. i don't know if i could handle the pain.should i stay and eventually have my first true love back, or should i try to move on?

i thought i found my life long true love and we were only together for 3 days then he wanted to try others and get a feel if he really loved me he is now 18 but he got engaged four months after we were together...........now 4 years later i am now with my longest relationship we have been together for 6.5 months we are dicussing the future and that but we are not making any promisses because we are not sure if we are totally right for each other soooo dont sit around waiting go experience others there is nothing funner than parting and hanging out with others and getting to know other people before you get married........ have fun while you still can after you get married your life is over as you knew it

you got to experiment how you feel about him, why not let him experiment how he feels? he needs to decide if he really cares about you the way you care about him. if he decides he doesn't feel the same, forget about him. no guy is worth wasting your life on. GOOD LUCK!

If you love him so much and want everything to be right again. Don't be sharing your true feelings online to strangers.
I know how you feel, i've been through some of that stuff, but don't think about marriage for a while. It can ruin your life unless you really mean it. Live life with your friends for as long as you can before you make a long term commitment.

Lifes short, party naked

how old are you??? dont even start thinking about it untill after your 21st birthday thats my thaughts.... so move on if someone is thinking of marrage that young then you shouldnt be together anyway so thats just my thaughts..... move on hun

FREE LOVE FOR ALL
AMBER

Wait for him. You can't say he's your first true love yet. If he comes back, then he's your first true love. If not, move on.