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Picture of geminiangel521
Registered: August 17, 2001
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My conclusion: JustMyself is a pathological liar who will say anything for attention.

"My best friend died today, hehe!"

"Lol I'm pregnant, what should I do?! I'm too young to have this kid, lmao!"

You people are so ****ing gullible.
Registered: August 18, 2003
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Korith- There goes my hope. I'm back to thinking... Blah.
-JM
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Registered: August 09, 2003
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Ratio seems the same.

Still a good chance 2 people live if you go with child birth. There's more science invalved in keeping mothers alive in child birth, then in abortion.
Registered: August 18, 2003
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But Korith, whats safer? Yes, the abortion. That's how I see it.
-JM
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Registered: August 09, 2003
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I can die giving birth to this kid


You can die during the abortion too.

But what JM. Do what you want.

Like I said, I just hope you can life with yourself.
Registered: August 18, 2003
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Korith- I've decided it. I thought of it over and over again. How my life would change. Maybe how nice it would be to have someone love you unconditionly. At first I wanted abortion. Then I wanted to have it and/or put it in adoption agency. But then the doctor came running to me saying I have a problem. I can die giving birth to this kid. I don't want to die for having something I don't want. And the damn baby can die anyway, so have two people die? So, officaly I'm having an abortion on Mon. And it will be gone forever. To bad. I'm a bitter person. If I had the baby, I would screw it up. I know I would. I'm also a depressed. And I can't handle a kid. I can barley take care of myself, two pets, and 3 baby cousins. And then keep a job to earn some extra money for the animals. So why add a baby to it? Korith, if I die form getting a abortion, good. Then my family wouldn't have to deal with the kid. And the bitter, selfish, worthless person I am. And Korith, that ******* the raped me didn't want to be a 'father' he wanted something from me and got what he wanted. It's over and done with.

selfspoken- People have it worse off. So don't feel sorry for me. I am moving. With my aunt and uncle and 3 baby cousins. Far, far away. Thank God, then after I move I can be in another hell hole. I know, aren't I positive. Maybe I will make some actual friends. Maybe not, oh well. Just ignore me. I'm nothing but a idiot. And a worthless, bitter person.
-JM
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Registered: August 09, 2003
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I'm getting an abortion. I'm sorry. I am.


I hope you live, and can live with yourself after words.

There are better alternatives.

But oh well, the baby should have choose a better person to be its father, and an older mother.

Isn't that Pro-choice?

I hate to say that but its true. Your baby didn't choose anything, and i'm sorry its up o you if it ever will.

There are Charitys, Support groups, childrens homes and othe things that help people in just your situation. You don't have to raise the kid on your own.

Its up to you, you decide which you can live with and which you can't.
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Registered: August 12, 2003
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JustMyself- wow. it seems like you have a really rough life, i think u need to get out of your town, go somewhere else and start over, by the way, i support your decision to abort the baby. it would be fair to him or her to come into this world, especially now, and be given away, or raised in substandard conditions, take care.
Registered: August 18, 2003
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Thank God someone agree's with me! Thank you!
-JM
Registered: April 04, 2003
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I support your decision. Guess I'm the only one around here who does. Anyway yeah, if you've thought it through and decided that's what's best for you, do it. Are you going to tell your family?

To be honest with you, I'd probably do the same thing if I was in your situation.

Peace out,
Pro-choice
Registered: August 18, 2003
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Cosmic- It's nothing about you, It's just that people have not been reacting well.

I'm getting an abortion. I'm sorry. I am. Adoption is not that bad. It's better than me taking care of a kid when I can barley take care of myself. I will be homeless and a horrible mother. I'm to depressed to have and take care of a kid. I'm not trying to be selfish. But I still got to think. And people can not tell me whats immoral and whats wrong. That's your opinion not mine. I'm sorry if I'm being rude. I'm tired of hiding my opinions. What's immoral and wrong is that he's getting away with it. That is immoral and wrong.
-JM
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Registered: February 08, 2003
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this is a joke right? how come you never told me?
Picture of Futility101
Registered: July 07, 2003
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I can not, and will not, stop you from giving the baby up for adoption, nor think less of you if you do. However, consider this: if you do put the baby up for adoption, you will always wonder what he or she would have been like. Constantly. For the rest of your life. But you're probably right in that adoption would give the child a better life.

I would still like to kill you if you are still willing. Nothing personal, I just need to let off some steam.
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Picture of calcoastsurfer
Registered: September 06, 2003
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DON'T GET AN ABORTION! Please reconsider adoption. Abortion is murdering someone too young to defend themself. (Please see other abortion boards, I'm repeating myself.) I'm sure it is a VERY hard thing you are going through, but please reconsider. Abortion in immoral and wrong. I know that it's not your fault you are pregnant, but it's not your decision whether the baby should live or die. It's God's.
Picture of babbyangel67
Registered: January 06, 2003
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If you know for a fact that you don't want this baby, well putting it up for adoption could be good, but what about later on when he/she finds out that he/she is adopted, the child could go through alot of emotional stress later on. And its not like your fault that you got pregnant. If your scared or not sure about an abortion you could find out some information about it. Like I said before, don't listen to what people are telling you you should do, but do keep all the options that you have open.
ByE bYe
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Registered: September 08, 2003
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Okay, let's stop berating the girl, here. She was raped. Putting the baby up for adoption is not the easy way out. Like Poncho said, it's the sensible thing to do. If I were you, I would tell my Dad now, it's not like he's going to blame you for getting raped. I would wait, have the baby, and then see. If you feel like you can take care of it with the help of family/friends, then keep it. If not, put it up for adoption. Consider what's best for the baby here, as well as yourself. If you don't believe in abortion, I wouldn't get one. You're liable to end up hating yourself later. You can do this, I promise. Find some other girls who may have gone through the same thing, if you can. If you need me for anything, just say so. I'll help if I can. I'll be praying. Love, Jen.
Registered: August 18, 2003
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Poncho and Futility- you to are seriously making me laugh...
Poncho- Thanks, for understanding.
Futility- yes, I am being a coward... I've taken 3 test already today... and then another in a week and if it's positive, then... you can kill me. Please, I beg you. And it's hard, oyu never been pregnate before. So be fair! Morning sickness is not fun...
Foxy- lucky you... I don't have that option.
-JM
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Registered: July 07, 2003
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Poncho, I swear to god, if you- you- ACK!! *Pops a vein and and falls to the floor, twitching*
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Registered: July 30, 2003
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Ignore Futility. He's pissed lately. Really, you can put the baby up for adoption, and you probably should. Spooch, she isn't taking the easy way out. It's the sensible way out. She didn't get herself into this, and if she keeps it, it will probably ruin two lives. If she puts it up for adoption, she will give the baby to a loving home, and won't have to give up her life.
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