my name is tressie and i am 15 and i need som serious help my boy friend proposed to me what do i do or say????

wait, can you get married at 15? or do you need parental consent?

15 is a little young to be getting married.

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he started yelling at me and calling me a ****

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Any guy that calls you a name like that obviously doesn't know how to treat a girl and is a loser. two words: DUMP HIM!

Damn. Don't do it.

Hah, I like gemini's suggestion, it was short and funny.

Geez, look at that postage...

oh please, please please don't say yes! there is so much of life that you won't be able to experience because your already married. save marriage for when your old and too arthritic to sky dive and dance and have fun!

Laugh at him. Then spit in his face.

guys shouldn't yell at thier girlfriends ever a promise ring is definatly as far as i would go if i were you and if he ever yells atyou again dump him.
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if this is even still an issue do me and u a favor dump him!!hes obviously abusive he fits the profile for an abusive person is hes already showed the tendencies and hes rushing into this if he likes you so much hell just date you for a while and let you really get toi know him for a year or two then hell want to ask you. but to rush into it means he needs to make u obligated before he loses his cool and hits ya.

You're 15. Marriage shouldn't be an idea for you right now. You're way too young.

Uh if your 15 you are probably not ready for marriage. Tell him that you'll consider his offer when you are done with college.

if the dude is already giving you problems why would you marry him? have you ever lived with him or had really deep talks with him? getting married is a big deal and if you're 15 then it's kinda crazy to consider it right now. my best friend last year always made a big deal out of me and my b/f because of how much i loved him and everything. she even said one day to him, just propose already. when i heard this me and him just looked at her weird. he said, no i think we're going to wait. it let me breathe easier. plus we broke up a few months later. that really broke my heart but the fact is, there's alot more fish in the sea and i'm only 14. you are a year older than me but it can't be much different. i'd say wait and if the dude can't respect you for that dump him.

Go ahead, marry him. Life will be so wonderful. He'll yell and scream at you, maybe even hit you. But look on the bright side, you'll get an apology and a shiny ring. And he'll do it over and over again for 20 years, and he'll cheat on you and leave you at home with 4 crying babies. But at least you'll get an apology.

we have been goin out for 5 months and last night he started yelling at me and calling me a **** but my dad said don't talk to my daughter like that and he said he was sorry and he gave me a promise ring!!!

tell him that at this point in your life you are not ready to make such a huge comitment. if you love him and he loves and respects you he will wait. ask him for a promise ring if he cares as much as he claims and wait until after college or at least after high school. best wishes

I agree with Sunset. Listen honey, you need to wait until you graduate from college. That way you can be finished with all of your education, have enough money, and, it would just give you more time to think. Shoot, education should come first. I'm 16, and I don't know what real love is. I never been in love, and I'm still a little young myself. So, I don't know what to say. Do whatever you want, you just better make sure it's the right choice, and you can handly this. Be careful, and talk to your parents first. Goodluck, bye

aw thats cute. my friend got proposed to in kindergarten. today they live happily as a family of four in the suburban city of...

uh no. its cute, my friend really did get proposed to, but its not going to last as a successful marriage. sorry but 15 is a little young to get married at. its great you have a boyfriend who feels he can spend the rest of his life with you but depending on how long you two have been together the chances are in five years you wont still be together :-\

you're 15. enjoy life. your friends, school, learning to drive, the mall, whatever. if you were to get married now, you'd loose that ability to date others (which if you get married at 15 you will want to) you may get pregnant, youll have to focus on your bf, etc.

none of us have any idea about the situation so your the best judge. having said that, if you got married you wouldn't necessarily have to have kids, get jobs or even move in together anytime soon. Plus, at that stage of life all boys want do is have sex, what's wronge with making it good under God first? as long as your parents agree with it. i think you could have a very successful marriage, if you go about it in the right way.

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Just say no and tell him to slow things down because at 5, its not yet time for you to get married and have a family... Besides, the legal age for teens to get married is 18 and also being 15 is way too young.
The best advice i could give you is to enjoy life with your boyfriend ad boyfriend and girlfriend, have fun, dont rush things like sex or drugs or marriage and most of all, keep in mind that you are young and you should enjoy being young not as a young bride.. Alwyas know that young couples are the ones who will easily break up and will cause broken families.
Well, thats all i can say... hope you will think things over before rushing.