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Picture of fatfullwithenvy
Registered: August 14, 2003
Posts: 1845
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wtf? why are people being so rude?


He's not being rude, he's telling the truth, a little.
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Registered: August 17, 2003
Posts: 495
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do what you think you should do. don't ask us.


wtf? why are people being so rude? If your boyfriend purposed and you really cared about him wouldn't you have a lil bit of trouble making a decision? I think I would panic if that happened to me and Kudos to you for handling the situation so well.....my best wishes
Picture of MalibuBarbie6088
Registered: August 17, 2003
Posts: 495
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WHOA chickie, that's a major step in the commiment department. I agree that you are too young...tell him you love him and care about him (if you truly do, if not don't play with him anymore and tell him it's over Razz )and that you want to wait; wait til you are out of school and have a life set away from your parents and everything that means youth. By the way how old is he??? is he 15 too? A 15 year-old purposing seems weird to me but maybe he just really cares a bout you...lucky girl to find The One so young....
Picture of fatfullwithenvy
Registered: August 14, 2003
Posts: 1845
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Don't play with love.

Let this be a warning, seriously.

And say no. He has no idea what he is doing. You are a young girl in a world where it's not safe. You have to be strong and be careful with who you trust, even your "boyfriend" and friends. Marriage has to be a serious step in relationships and I can tell by your writing you aren't ready. Plus, if you were or weren't ready, why would you be asking us for advice? Wait it out, get a job first and wait till he has a steady job when you get your careers ready.

But who am I to give advice, pray about this and see where God leads you in your decision.

Wink
Picture of bluesky
Registered: July 01, 2004
Posts: 9
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u should definently tell him no. if he really loves u, then he would understand that u need to wait to get older, and get ur life together. if he cant understand that, then all he really wants is to get in ur pants.
Picture of CrazyChild
Registered: October 05, 2003
Posts: 607
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um hello people all the guy is doing is asking her to marry him. I don't think their parents would let them get married at this age. Girl, if you are actually in love with him, and if he is in love with you, then i guess you could tell him yes but also tell him you wanna wait until you are older to go through with the wedding. peace Wink Big Grin Wink
Picture of nattynaps
Registered: October 21, 2003
Posts: 558
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First of all how long have you 2 been going out? If he's serious about this let him know that you wont have sex with him until your married which cant happen legally until you turn 18. My cousin was engaged at the age of 15 and her and her bf finished college and got steady jobs before they married at the age of 20 and 22.
Picture of CelticNewAger
Registered: December 11, 2003
Posts: 9501
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you're insane to get married now...

ok, let me calm down. im going to be really honest: he probably wants to just get in your pants, so he's using your "engagement" as an excuse for sex.
Registered: June 30, 2004
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No way!!! Getting married at a young age can really ruin the rest of your life. You will ahve problems that you won't know how to deal with at 15, also you can't go out with your friends like you do now, you will have to work to pay bills, or maybe even take care of kids.
Picture of thedraconic1
Registered: July 29, 2003
Posts: 176
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Wait until you are at least 17-18 to marry.

Maybe get out of school first so children won't get in the way of classes and jobs.
Picture of Illuminatrix
Registered: June 16, 2004
Posts: 91
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do what you think you should do. don't ask us.
Picture of Sunset
Registered: October 17, 2003
Posts: 4624
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Say no! Hello, that wouldn't last... your boyfriend must be retarded. I'm sorry, but come on...

Teens these days... I'm telling you...
-Sunset Smile
Picture of Bushsupporter
Registered: September 19, 2001
Posts: 2202
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lolololol. You should throwback the 25 cent ring back at his face and slp him. You are fifteen, why would you even say, what should i do?

-President Bushsupporter, ESQ.

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