I'm lonely, yeah I got lots of friends but that's not why I'm lonely. Friends are good to have but I think people need soemone they can love, and who will love them back. I guess I probably mean a girlfriend or in the girl's cases a boyfriend. I have had two girlfriends and neither wanted to stay with me, I can't figure it out either! They both said I was the nicest guy they went out with, that I was kind, caring, loving and always there for them. If that's true what the heck am I doing wrong!! I would appreciate any advice if you have any. Thanks.

Drakai Prince

Lilsara, how do you get the images??

well, i know how u feel...i had a girlfriend of 10 months who told me constantly that she would love me forever, as i did i...and then one day she decides she needs to change, she was still my only true friend when we broke up but we always keep drifting apart...im lonely beyond belief, but as for is it an emotion...im going to ask you "what really IS an emotion" now think about that one...just sit back and wait and u'll find a girl

in my opinion yes because loneliness can be to me. it's quite a regular emotion for me. i'm depressed or lonely 99% of the time. it all can just depend. i mean technically i guess you could say it isn't. so i guess maybe it's not but depression is and lonliness can cause depression.

what avenger said is very true. and it seems like you are a great guy~ if those girls don't want to be with you its their loss. They can't appreciate a guy who is real. But while you are waiting for that someone, don't think about. You will meet someone great

hey drakai, it seemed like the exact second i give up on girls and just try to have fun, i suddenly start to get attention from girls. just go out and meet girls, and dont meet them because they are a potential date, but just to meet them. just to make a potential friend. i tried it and suddenly i get asked to the prom by a senior, lol, im a sophmore going to the senoir prom. but drakai, the best way to lose the lonliness, is to go out and have fun "live a little" and dont swell on the worse.

~shawn

lonliness is not an emotion - its a state of mind. you can be alone sometimes and you like it because you need some time to yourself, but lonliness is a constant thing that you feel everyday when you wake up and as you walk down the halls in school as you see all the relationships. its what you feel when its aroun the holidays and you see everyone happy and with their loved ones and you don't have anyone like that. if you didn't see other people like that you wouldn't feel lonely.

Being lonly is a terible feeling. and I've been there i dated a guy since i was a freshman in high school, i graduated last year and he grads. this year. we just broke up not even a week ago and loneliness is all i feel. We are still friends and we still do things together but it isn't the same. so yeah i would say loneliness is an emotion and everyone feels it one day. but keep you head held high and good things will come!

Trying this again...

I'll keep trying and hopefully it will work!

Drakai Prince

Love the graphic

Keep trying!!! It'll work!!

This had better work this time!!

No problem...always a pleasure! And you seem like such a sweet considerate guy! I think those girls are crazy for not wanting to go out with you!


------>Follow your dreams!!

Hey Sarah, you just brightened my day! Thank You.

Drakai Prince

~Good things come to those who wait!~

I'll take that into consideration. Companionship is good to have, maybe that is what I want, a companion who I can be friends with and live with and also to love. All well.

Drakai Prince

Funny my name, if i was such a prince maybe I'd have a girlfriend.
Just kidding!

AH, yes. I can see where you are coming from.

I understand that difference between love and comanionship. Its when you can have both of them together that brings happiness. I have two friends (seniors) who have been together since their freshmen year. They are completly amazing together. Just the bliss and love they emmit can be sensed from far away. They are both amazing people, and I feel so happy for them. My parents hated eachother since I can remember, so to see such true, apparent love is something unique to my eyes. I only wish I can have someday what they have now.

I wish I had a bf. I don't just want that lust, however, I need that companionship in there. Someone to entrust with my life, someone to experience everything together for the first time with.

I should probably say something that would relate to advising you. Hm... your problem seems a bit like that I had with my ex-bf. He was a great guy, I was with him for like 6 months, and I am still friends with him, but... I can't seem to give him a good reason. He was always there for me, physicaly and emotionally. Maybe it is that he became TOO reliable. He just stopped giving off that "extra spark" that kept things exciting and new. Next time you're in such a situation, try surprising her with something even you would never think to do. Keep a big smile on your face and she'll be sure to love it!

Hope that helps. feel free to NoiseMail me if ya want.

~Sarah